These guys got so jealous of me walking up, sitting on my brother's lap, and burrowing my head into his chest.(he doesn't mind b/c I only weigh 98lbs.) We are just brother and sister. We are also very close to eachother. Why were they jealous??
He claims the guys like me.The whole school knows we are brother and sister and yet one of my guy friends tells me the other is jealous.Why??
What is wrong with two siblings who have been through a lot, being close?? What is wrong with doing this after my gymnastics meet when I was exhausted??
2007-01-27 09:23:24 · 14 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there is nothing wrong with this.. They just wish you did that with them..
2007-01-27 09:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're from a family that's not very affectionate, or doesn't show it physically very much, it can be real awkward to assimilate that behavior. It's difficult to understand it and accept it.
Remember this when you start getting serious with some fella', you don't want him creating static over something that's normal in your family. This is why it's so darn smart to get to know someone before the attraction make you commit.
2007-01-27 17:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are not too many brothers and sisters this day and age that are close----I see nothing wrong with it.. I am now in my 50's-my brother and I always did things together----------pretty much until we all got married---------now we live more than a 12 hr drive away, and dont see each other very often.
2007-01-27 17:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... guys who are jealous of your relationship with your brohter are crazy and possesive i don't think you should be with them becuase they will probably be possesive in all your relationships.... however when you are done with a meet your boy friend would probably appreciate like at least a hug or something...its possible to be jealous that you spend so much time with your brother instead of spending time with him, it could have nothing to do with sex.... you say your brother and you have been through a lot maybe sharing that with ur guy would make him closer ... but theres nothing wrong with spending time w ur brother
2007-01-27 17:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by hanntastic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really stupid that they're jealous. Your brother and sister, not bf and gf. Just don't let them bother you, and if it really gets bad, talk to ur bro about it, maybe you shouldn't do that when everyone's around. hope i could help. Good luck!
2007-01-27 17:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by breezzy468 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiah, guys at this age think of only one thing. "Will I ever get sex?" If someone has you as his bulls-eye, and See's you sitting on your bros lap, his twisted mind can't assimilate that kind of information, short circuits and sees some twisted bro sis sex theme. As time goes on guys mature and you will find one that will admire your relationship with your bro!
2007-01-27 17:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because boys are very territorial. I feel the same when my boyfriend sometimes pays too much attention to his mom when im alround them. but its just that they don't want others to experience what they want to experience, they want it to be them- don't worry about it, they'll just shrug it off once they remember that nothing can exist between u and your brother and that they are still in the running for your heart
2007-01-28 14:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by oreo_japanese3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most likely they like you and even if you guys are brother and sister, they can't help but feel the jealousy.
2007-01-27 17:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by Luvly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose that this/these guy or guys has/have a crush on you.. are you blind?? they/he like/s you.. that's why he's/they're jealous..
they just want to have some of your attention.. what can i say.. give them this opportunity, give then what they what, just great them.. maybe then they will leave you alone..
good luck!! :)
2007-01-28 10:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by KLou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with it its a guy thing they get jealous.JUst tell them they dont have to be jealous and just go from their Good luck
2007-01-27 17:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by Claire M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common feeling when someone likes you, ignore it or confront the people and tell em to get over it
2007-01-27 17:28:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋