in a relationship with someone who I am really starting to care about. The problem; my Sister. I relocated back to NY about 9 mos. ago and my Sister has been staying with me for about 5 mos. She doesn't say it, but I get the sense she may be jealous of the attention I've been showing to my girl. Just little things like wanting to talk while I'm on the phone, not answering if it's her or acting funny when I come home from seeing her. Is it me being too analytical or am I sensing right? Both are special but I don't want any problems to occur so I'd rather stop something before it starts. Advice, comments?
2007-01-27 06:58:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you see yourself moving forward with her, involve your sister. Let her get to know her on the same level you do.
Better for them to like one another then to have harsh feelings.
Let your little sis know you care about her, you think this might be the one....however you'll always care about her...cause she's family....
Best wishes
2007-01-27 07:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister to but out. No really you need to talk to her and see if she has a problem with you dating. She may be feeling insecure because she is thinking she may be having to move out if said relationship continues. Just talk to her.
2007-01-27 15:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by mellow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course she is jealous i would be to if i had a close relationship with my brother. All 3 of u sit down and talk it out.
2007-01-27 18:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is time for you to let go of your sister's feelings about who you date and get on with your own life. Maybe it's also time for your sister to move out and get a life of her own.
Or, if your not ready to have a relationship outside of your immediate family you probably aren't ready to have a relationship with a woman.
2007-01-27 15:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by kindness 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure you love your sister,but she needs to understand that you have a life outside of her,just tell her what your telling us,but be gentle!
2007-01-27 15:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by swt-bby-gl-69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This must be your baby sister. Baby sisters are always protective over their brothers. I think you need your space and she needs to find a place of her own. Or you need to ask her what's bothering her.
2007-01-27 15:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Island Girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you'll share your roof, but not your life with her.
2007-01-27 16:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋