my mother and father dont stay together but i am now 14 yrs old and my mohter treat me like im 5 y is that i cant never go anywhere i cant talk on the phone to guys without her asking 100 million questions and one guy i dated she told him to call her cell to ask 4 permission when he was able to talk to me. if something aint right i get blamed and get yelled at and then she baby my little sister up really bad y is this it`s like i dont exist.
2007-01-27 06:48:10 · 6 answers · asked by sheniqua c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
because you are older and she knows how boys are. she is trying to keep you from getting into trouble and since she is the single parent she has to be mom and dad.
but she is not fair to you by taking your sisters side .
you have to show her you are responsible and do as she says / But talk to her. be open.be honest , get the courage and tell her she is unfair and you don't like the way she treats you or talks to you. be strong .
2007-01-27 07:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I know it's tough to be 14. It sounds like your mom is just watching out for you. So what if she wants to know who's calling, we make it a point to know our kids friends. My kids are 14 & 12 and they do not go anywhere that I don't know the kids, parents, etc. My kids do not have cell phones & have responsibilites at home. They have plenty of fun with friends and are both involved in their youth group at church. Maybe you need to communicate some of these feelings to your mom, just have a talk and let her know your feelings. She loves you and wants the best for you - don't shut her out. I hope you feel better.
2007-01-27 15:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Forever 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get use to it..... you may not be 5 but you are still mom and dads little girl. What mom is doing is protecting her little girl.... because thats what you are and always will be...her little girl. Like it or not. That's just the way it is.
She has the right to now who you are talking to, who you are going out with and everything else until she has completed her job raising you.
When you have kids, you'll be the same way..... and if mom does her job well...you won't be a mom until you are an adult.
Think about it....
2007-01-27 15:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We should appreciate and love our parents for bringing us to this world.Your mother is giving you the BEST to be a good loving daughter.She loves you and when time comes she will give you the freedom of you life and that it.Learn and wonder " your parent stay apart" Most probably she doesn't want you to be like herself years back.Be a good girl and be thankful to your mother.
2007-01-27 15:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by batu5001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to say why, but I didnt like anything my parents did to me when i was young.they would let me go outside to hang out with friends and then tell me not to walk down the street.so i would sit by my place.now as a mother myself im worried about all the little things, but i have to remember i was them once and they need wiggle room to grow.Im sorry to hear that u dont have space to be you and i have to say this real quick your only 14. let this time pass and when u have kids remember what u didnt' like and dont pass that on to them.
2007-01-27 14:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by alexis c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmm well i am the same and i think you should go to her and talk how you feel
2007-01-27 14:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by Corina & Hailey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋