Ok, this woman is driving me crazy. She is evil. let me give some background on the devi'l spawn. She is a blood sucker of society. She has worked a total of six months her entire life, she lives off of wealfare and foodstamps. Her house is a garbage dump, like Joes apartment. She is a sad soul. The woman doesn't think of anyone but herself. She hasn't liked me from day one. Reason being, that I don't jump whenever she needs something, that I feel that she is not an old cripple (shes 55 ) and can do EVERYTHING for herself. I don't pity her in any way! She asks her son for money, knowing its OUR money and we don't have enough ourselves, but the welfare check didnt come yet and she needs apack of marlboros. someone kill this woman She has a brand new grandaughter who is now 3 months and she has seen a total of 3 times! And her reason? she doesnt feel good (equals I am to lazy to get up take a shower and get over there) he knows his mom is wrong, yet he still pasifies her, HELP!
2007-01-27 08:43:45 · 4 answers · asked by Tina B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yeah we are planning on moving to NJ at least an hour away from her that way we are not near her and her miserable self. I dont really nag so much, b/c the truth is i dont want to hurt his feelings, but when i start to talk to him about her i get all crazy, like a maniac...he knows how i feel thats for sure!
2007-01-27 12:06:49 · update #1
I just dont want this to always get inbetween us, and have such a negative effect on our relationship (and our bank account
2007-01-27 12:08:07 · update #2
U and your brother need to band together with your money and get out before she bleeds u dry.
2007-01-27 10:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember it can always be worse. Id be more than happy to trade you mine for yours. Mine ha sbeen a pain in my a.s for 28 yrs now and due to 2 severe strokes and none of my sisters or brothers in law want her, she has been living with us for the past 6 yrs. My oldest got married to a real idiot just to get out of the house and now my 19 yr old is about to do the same. I met my wife in Denver in 1979, married in 1980 and her mom lived in Cleveland where we got married because her mom didnt want to travel in the worst snowstorm in Cleveland in Feb. We lived in Denver and for yrs after she would call the house or my wife at work several times a day to make sure I didnt kill her and also had my wife call her each day to reassure her. Both our phone bill and her moms were about $700.00 each every month. We had to schedule our vacation around her parents so they could mysteriousily appear at the same spot at the same time just to surprise me. She had to be at each of my daughters births in Albuquerque where Im from to make sure I didnt do something wrong to the kids and she tried real hard to keep me from the births themselves. Months after each birth she would again call to make sure I didnt kill them too. I could go on like this for hours but you get the picture, that things can and are usually worse although I havent heard of one beating mine. There hasnt been a day since Oct. 1979, that I havent prayed for something to happen to her. I even tried to get her to stand in the front yard when I was filming the 3 hurricanes that hit us in Florida but somehow she doesnt trust me. I dont know why. The prayers have incfreased daily to 15-20 times each day. There is no sense bringing up to my wife because its her Mother and just starts arguments with no solution. If you find a way please let me know. Good luck
2007-01-27 18:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's HIS MOM he will continue to do so until HE FINALLY HAS HAD ENOUGH-there is really nothing you can do at this point. If you try nagging him it will only get worse.
2007-01-27 17:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to just be civil when you have to be with her and avoid her when you can.
2007-01-27 18:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Broadway fanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋