how do you deal with dating a guy whose job dangerous and makes it hard to even talk to him sometimes?

Question

my boyfriend is in private secuirty and is gone more then he is with me. often times guarding people that go on business in the middle east and africia.On top of that I almost never get to know where he is till he is done with a job. like yesterday I had not heard from him in 3 days as the last time I talked to him he told he iwas go to be doing a job and would be unreachable for a few days. he texts me only to tell me that he is in iraq and will be there for 3 days. even though he told me he woluld not go there as it is dangerous I know some would say break up with him but i love him and we are having a baby. i just need ideas on how to stop worrying about him all the time. how do i deal with the fact that he put himself in harms way for the highest payer. also how can i make him wear body armour and explain it is not for whimps as he say but for fathers to be who need to stay alive to meet their son when he is born. Help I am so worried!!!!!!!!

sorry about the spelling be nice i am upset

Answer 1

If he is not working for the government then I would be worried that he is guarding people with disreputable characters. If this is the case and someone he is guarding gets hurt the person he is guarding will have friends that will want to get even. They may do this not by hurting him personally but those that he loves, meaning you and the baby. It this is shady business get out no matter how much you love him. If not for yourself then for the baby. If this is legit work then he is being very immature in not wearing protective gear. Ask him if he thinks he is Superman or something, someone that bullets will not penetrate. It takes a very emotionally mature individual to date someone with a dangerous job. If you are not up to the task you will bring him down.♪