he don live with us me my mom and bro
he did something that can't be undone
i was thinking about it a dew weeks ago
i cry the hole night
so i was angry because he treats my mom and bro nice give them stuff but not me
i was so angry i did not tell my mom or bro why
i just stop talking to them
when they talk to me i don't reply i can't even look them in the face
i was so depress for the past few weeks
what do you think???
i don't want to talk to them anymore
because they are on his side no one is standing on my side
so what should i do
shall i tell my mom why i am so angry
i even feel like writing a letter to him ask him not to step into this home and tell him i hate him
if you were me what are u going to do
2007-01-27 22:54:55 · 13 answers · asked by astrid 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that you should tell him how you feel I dont think that when it comes to parents and siblings there arent sides theres only problems that need to be resolved and quick. communication is the key, how would they know how to help your problem if you dont tell them how u feel. I think you should tell them all how you feel.If you keep that anger in its just gonna get worst and make you more mad and keep you down forever... hoped this helped.
2007-01-27 23:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by bigboi_94 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How did he abandon you if he is still coming to the house and giving your mom and bro nice stuff?
If you have a good relationship with your mom, you should talk to her and try to understand what is really going on.
2007-01-28 07:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by luvguns2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 13 I would write my father and tell him I hate him for abandoning me, then I would throw it away. I did this every night. And sometimes I would cry and be so angry. I forgave him before he died though. He did keep in touch with my oldest sister but ignored us. I don't know why, Sorry this is happening to you too. Maybe writing it down helped me. Go ahead and write him and give it to him.
2007-01-28 07:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by beatch38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the situation.If he did something that is against the law,don't be afraid to contact the authorities such as the police.But if it's just something you find hard to agree with then try to be understanding and keep talking to your family about how you feel.Don't close them out if they are willing to listen.Plus that's you dad,writing him is always a good thing either good news or bad news.
2007-01-28 07:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by sarja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are feeling betrayed by your mom and brother because they are accepting gifts from your dad. But the truth is, they probably have no idea what you are feeling. They are not mind readers - You need to talk to all 3 of them and let them know how you feel about it and what it is doing to you.
If you feel that you cannot talk to them, then write a letter.
Hopefully, they will understand and things can be resolved.
Good luck to you!
2007-01-28 07:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Writing a letter to him wouldn't hurt and it would make you feel better because it would be getting things off your chest. But you also need to sit your mom down and have a talk with her also and tell her how you feel. You shouldn't feel like you can't talk to her because she is your parent also.
2007-01-28 07:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why he is doing like that with you?!only you in that house!
i think may be its just your feeling about that.
may be you act like you dont want his attention!
i think when your mom & bro love him & he loves them then it should be something between you & him . so the stuff & treating nice are excuses!
you have to find the reason why you realy hate him ?!
i think writing a letter is a good idea! but not that letter!
tell him why you have that feeling & what do you want him to do to feel better.
HE IS YOUR FATHER
2007-01-28 07:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was raised by my mom for most of my life because she lied to me about my dad but i got over it.and when i did meet him he still didn't do his job this a**hole couldn't even pay 25.00 a week in child support so i came out okay.
2007-01-28 07:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Meow4Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your so anger say something let them all know. you can keep it in side you will explode. yes tell your mom. and tell your dad why your so angry. listen to your gut feeling..
2007-01-28 08:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by tomendez1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A letter to him is a very good idea. He hurt you and he needs to know how you feel about what he did to you.
2007-01-28 06:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋