He had scleroderma, and on friday, he had some problems with his heart and they had to do surgery on him, draining water from his heart, and finding a hole in his heart. He died during the process.
I feel devastated but I've never had any experience with death of anyone. And I just don't know how to feel. I feel sad and sorry, but what else am I supposed to do? Should I not be happy for now?
2007-01-27 18:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hug your boyfriend , and stay by his side, you don't need to say too much just be with him and be ready for him. tell him to pick you up at your place when he wakes up, or if you can spend the night with him. and remind him, to stop and eat after and during, and give him water. AND you too try to remain calm, and eat something, too, If his father was nice with you, try to remember the nice things of his father.
2007-01-27 20:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by bankone1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deliver a sympathy card to the family contributors. in my opinion, I have not have been given any use for the gooey playing cards designed for that purpose, and have used a sparkling card (with a appropriate image on the conceal) wherein I write a perfect message. Attend any wake or funeral, if invited, as I anticipate which you would be. And be loving and kind to the boyfriend. And, in the adventure that your mind's eye shows the rest meritorious to do, do it.
2016-11-01 11:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husbands dad just passed away. It was really horrible. I found that the best thing was to realize that I can't relate and I need to just listen and hold him. And, to give him the space that he needed. He wanted me around but, he didn't really want me to be in his face. I was kind of part of the "support staff". I'm so sorry for your loss. It's definately not an easy thing to go through.
2007-01-27 20:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by crazykidsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry for the loss.Death is a natural cycle of life but for those left behind it is devastating. The only thing you can do is be there for him to talk to and to lean on when he needs it.I am sure he knows that you are there for him through his time of need.
2007-01-27 19:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him...try to look past any moodiness (if he shows some-- I know I was a virtual emotional roller-coaster when my dad died. I made things so hard for my husband...one day I was angry, the next depressed...the emotions are all over the place at first.)
2007-01-27 21:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by proud_airborne_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be supportive. This is going to be a difficult time for him and his family. Be the shoulder to cry on. Be the one he can talk to. Make sure he knows that you will always be there for him no matter what.
2007-01-27 19:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by cmssko 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear this. Send a sympathy card to your boyfriends family, tell them how sorry you are to hear of their loss. I lost my older brother in 1977, then my mother in 1996 then my younger brother in 1997, it hurts so bad. Tell his family you are thinking of them & if there is anything you can do for them, you're there for them. Good luck!
2007-01-28 04:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by YAWN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support your boyfriend, hug him a lot
2007-01-27 19:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋