Family - January 2007

As i was reading the addmision requirements to this college,i asked my dad if he was listening to me.And he said yeah,and i started reading,then after i got done,we just sat in silence for awhile then he just left the room,without saying anything.
Why do i feel like my Dad is not paying enough attention to me.

2007-01-28 12:04:39 · 24 answers · asked by Moanika 6

I have an alcoholic Mom and sorta an alchoholic Dad.I love them deeply.But I also have 2 borhters.One of my brothers got in trouble for drugs.And the other one hits me when I dont do as he says or I smart off.Lately I have had to go to the soctor because I now have something wrong with my stomach.They said it was either caused from depression or worrying.I have been on the pills for 2 in a half weeks and I still dont feel better but no one ever believes me.They think I am always faking when I say I dont feel good.PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2007-01-28 12:04:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

according to my dad and older brother, i cant do anything right, and im a complete failure. no matter what i do no one is pleased with me. this cant be normal

2007-01-28 11:57:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad has been out of my life, since i was 3-4 yrs old, and last year he wanted to meet me again, I was going to but didn't feel strong enough. Should i give him another oppurtunity. The circumstances that prevent me from doing so is that he "apparently-no proof" sexually abused my bro and I and he never paid child support for us. I had cut all contact with him, but is 2007 the year to meet my father and hear his version of events?

2007-01-28 11:53:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

say you have no children and you are in a bad health, will you give assets to a helpful friends/neighbour who helped you with everything (hopital, food, taking you out for day trip) or give to your distanced relative? you have 2 sisters both in 80's their children all in 50's

2007-01-28 11:53:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did I mention that we've only been here a week and that they are the ones that invited us to stay???????

2007-01-28 11:50:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am almost 24 years old and have a 9 month old little girl. Recently we moved away and about two months later we had to move back to where we came from. Me and my daughter are living with my parents and my boyfriend is livign at his brothers in another town. My parents are still trying to control me and are always in my personal life. we are looking for a place to live and I am trying to get a job. My boyfriend has had a job here since before we moved and has been working since we got here. I hate it here, why are they so controlling?

2007-01-28 11:36:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to go to this Magnet program school, and my parents want me to go to our district school, which i really don't want to do. My parents have no reason to keep me from going, except that my dad"just doesn't want me to go" please help my cause, not kill it.

2007-01-28 11:30:49 · 6 answers · asked by Ginny Weasley 2

How do I fix it so that she can trust me and accept me as part of her life? I know that I really messed up and even wished that she were dead, but now I know I was wrong. The only problem is that she doesn't trust me. Help.

2007-01-28 11:29:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-28 11:29:18 · 8 answers · asked by hello 1

A couple years ago my boyfriend and i decided to move to another state(where his mother lived). we talked this over with his mother because we needed to stay with her while we got housing, jobs, kids schooling etc...established. she was fine with this.so we made the big move. within two weeks of our stay she began suggesting that me and my children(not her son)go to a shelter. since i refused. she began making it miserable for me and my children to stay there. we got into a huge argument and we left. not having anywhere to go my children and i slept in my car for the next week because the shelter refused us. i had no money to go back to my home town since giving it to the grandmother to help with food and bills. i finally tried to be the bigger person and begged the grandmother to let us back in. she did but it was the same bull crap so we went back to the car for another week. my apartment came thru. its 4 yrs later. i dont let this grandma see the kids. she tells me im wrong....am i?

2007-01-28 11:22:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have 11 people living in a three bedroom trailer i am sixteen and am a full time student and have a part time job. I do pay rent,a car payment,my phone bill. mond u i sleep out on the couch in the living room where everyone is till like 2 in the morning which leaves me with no sleep. every time i think about coming home i get migrains and sick to my stomach because of all the stress that is at my house. me and a couple of my 20 year old friends want to get an apartment together which we have been talking about since forever my parents insist that i stay here but i cant take it no more. there is always fighting and it drives me insane what do i do!!! please help me!!!

2007-01-28 11:20:57 · 4 answers · asked by mommy of 3 baby boys 4

i never said i love you to my father. I love him more than anything, but something in me prevents me to show love to him. And now hes being so nice to me like a friend, and i dont do my part, i wait for him to leave, and then regret not talking to him.... why am i like this, please help me

2007-01-28 11:16:00 · 11 answers · asked by ron 1

i'm a dad to a 7yr old son matt who is my life.i have joint custody with my exwife and we split our time with him 50/50.my question is how much contact(email,phone calls ect) do you have with your ex?the problem is my ex hates my new wife(for no good reason) and which in turns makes my new wife want me to have nothing to do with her except for real emergencies about my son.please i don't want anyone to tell me how to deal with my wife or exwife.

2007-01-28 10:54:09 · 12 answers · asked by bobmarkly78 1

2007-01-28 10:52:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my house has 11 people living in it and i sleep out on the couch where i hardly get any sleep because of everyone! I began to get extreme migranes and my stomach begans to get upset when i even think about coming home when i am at home it remains there till i finally get out of the house by myself!!! i want to go get an apartment with a couple of my friends and parents wont allow it what do i do??? i cant stand it no more!!! i am a full time student and have a part time job!!!

2007-01-28 10:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by mommy of 3 baby boys 4

her mom marian was married to my uncle in 1969,they got divorced in 1970 and we havent seen them since.im not sure if they went back to germany or are still here in the states.is there any govt archives i could check on immigrants in the 1960's?

2007-01-28 10:47:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-28 10:39:48 · 5 answers · asked by tomoe 1

i have an imaginary sister who wear a tu tu and she wont leave me alone! (im just joking)

2007-01-28 10:33:28 · 2 answers · asked by Haley 1

I just found out that my 16-year-old sister has not eaten in five days and is anorexic. She told me I couldn't tell anyone when she told me, and obviously doesn't want me to tell my mother. What should I do? If I don't tell my mom, she won't get help. If I do tell her, she probably will never trust me again with something like this. What should I do?

2007-01-28 10:31:01 · 20 answers · asked by Smart_ca_latina 2

Today my cousin and i were putting on eyeliner and our other cousin wanted some too. Then her little brother saw and asked for some, not knowing what it was. We told him no but then he started to cry since we wouldnt let him have any. We eventually let him have sum. But just a litte bit that was barely visible. After he went home, his mohter (my aunt) called me and told me not to put any eyeliner on him as that is the reason we have gays in this world. I dont agree with what she said but i wanted to know if that was really true

2007-01-28 10:23:24 · 4 answers · asked by disfunctional -with pride 2

In highschool everyone thought that my sister would be the sibling of our family (3 of us) that would make it into college. Now that me and her have graduated and started our separate lifes I am the one who has gone to college and she is working full time.
Last night I called her and she said that she didnt want to sound depressed but she feels bad everytime she calls me because she feels that she isnt doing anything admirable with her life.
I idolize her and dont want her being sad because I am doing my best to better myself, but I still want to keep in contact with her. What can I do to make my sister realize that just because she isnt in school she isnt a failure.
My sister in my eyes has done much better than me, she is working full time, living on her own, and she has a much more complex personal life than me. Her job helps touch those that are less fortunate than us.
I just need advice on how to cheer my sister up & make her see how trully sucessful she is.

2007-01-28 10:00:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad is making me go to a community center beacuse he thinks im home to much ????? what to do ?????? what i want to do is go out to the paintball field and play with my friends none of my friends go to the community center

2007-01-28 09:53:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have my own computer and my parents didn't put any parental controls on it so sometimes when i'm home alone i might look at p*rn. i no this sounds a little weird but when they come back i kind of feel guilty and wish i had never done it in the first place. its rely hard for me not to look at it (i cant rely explain it). does anyone know something that can block everything? (like software or something) ps: i dont want to sound like a pervert to anyone

2007-01-28 09:52:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get tired of hearing them say i need to pick mr. perfect this certain way. But i think that's stupid and foolish.

2007-01-28 09:49:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe Todd is 23 yrs of age. He recently posted a q regarding our mother, and I did not get to answer it. I have not seen him in 20 yrs. I am his sister and am in contact with his other siblings, need to get in contact with him.

2007-01-28 09:40:40 · 2 answers · asked by Shanyn 1

I am a college professor but will be leaving my job in July. I don't have another one lined up.

I have been on my own since I was 18. I spent 6 years in the army, and put myself through college and grad school. Mom helped me as she could. I mostly made my own way.

I have struggled all my life with mental illness. I was hospitalized last year, twice, and am heavily in debt.

Mom is widowed and a retired prof. This year she is living with me. She wants to fix my house, pay off my debts, buy me things, esp. nice clothes. I hate this. I I don't want things. I don't do "girl" well - I don't wear makeup or jewelry. About my future, she said "We need to have a plan B and C, too." I got angry: What is this WE? If hurt or sick, I wouldn't want her to know because she would be hovering over me. She wants to hug and kiss me too much. If I let her, she would cuddle me on the couch. She doesn't interfere in the lives of my married siblings. I am the youngest. Am I an ingrate?

2007-01-28 09:40:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-28 09:39:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want you to think I am evil I just have no connection with my step daughter. I try to be a good step mother I don't spank her she is 10. I am not mean. But I have to be careful there are imes I just wish she was living with her mom. I find myself wanting to ground her to her room so she isn't around. I don't know if I jealous or what. My daughter is 19 and almost out of the house I was pretty much done raising her and now I am back being a mom. I was teen mom so I think I was ready for so me time and thats gone agian . I love my husband but our first year it was no step daughter so maybe I am just a bad person. I don't know but I hate to think Iam a mom for 8 to 10 more years. Iam a mom, maid, and a slave 90% of the time and 10 % a wife 0% me. I had a step mom and she beat us. So I would never do anything like that I just feel bad that I wish she wasn't around. Just wondering if its just me and I m a horrible person or any one else out there like me.

2007-01-28 09:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by T_Ray 1

The Father has visitation every other weekend. The mother says the father cannot take the child to the doctor on the weekend he has her unless he contacts the mother first. Mother said she notified clinic not to see child if she is brought in by grandparents or father. Is this legal or how it works???

2007-01-28 09:25:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous