I am a college professor but will be leaving my job in July. I don't have another one lined up.
I have been on my own since I was 18. I spent 6 years in the army, and put myself through college and grad school. Mom helped me as she could. I mostly made my own way.
I have struggled all my life with mental illness. I was hospitalized last year, twice, and am heavily in debt.
Mom is widowed and a retired prof. This year she is living with me. She wants to fix my house, pay off my debts, buy me things, esp. nice clothes. I hate this. I I don't want things. I don't do "girl" well - I don't wear makeup or jewelry. About my future, she said "We need to have a plan B and C, too." I got angry: What is this WE? If hurt or sick, I wouldn't want her to know because she would be hovering over me. She wants to hug and kiss me too much. If I let her, she would cuddle me on the couch. She doesn't interfere in the lives of my married siblings. I am the youngest. Am I an ingrate?
2007-01-28
09:40:11
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