Family - January 2007

2007-01-28 14:58:37 · 2 answers · asked by always_love_4_you_454 1

2007-01-28 14:55:05 · 14 answers · asked by Christy 3

I now live with my sister and my new brother in law who smokes. I hate the way it smells and it gives me a huge headache. My clothes have already started to smell also. Since its been cold outside he has been smoking only in the restroom but it spreads everywhere. I already tried to tell him to please stop or at least to smoke in his truck but he doesn't listen and my sister won't tell him anything especially since the just got married. I don't want to cause problems but how can I deal with the smell or what else can I tell him so he can understand that I can't stand the smell???

2007-01-28 14:43:46 · 2 answers · asked by very_sweet 2

Hello, I know my father's name and where he is from. I was able to reach out a few year's ago and talk to his mother (my grandmother) but nothing went any further. I'm trying to get some medical information but am running into a road block. Any Ideas?

2007-01-28 14:42:01 · 4 answers · asked by Terrible 2

2007-01-28 14:39:50 · 5 answers · asked by ashanti j 1

2007-01-28 14:38:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok... My ex is pregnant and it could be my child. I am planning on it is. She moved 800 miles out of state and living with a new boyfriend. I just got hired permantly after being a contract worker. I was going to move to Florida with my mom and sister. But now since I might have a child, I am debating it. If I move I will be farther away from her. She is due May 25th and I am going to get a paternity test done ASAP, when the baby is born. I need help deciding what I should do??? Should I move as planned?? Should I stay here(NY)? She did sleep with someone else around the same time. She says I am the father (100%)... I even thought of fighting for custody...She is a unstable person. She doesn't have nothing and only relays on guys for help. She bounces from guy to guy to survive. She has no job, car and nothing going for her. I was told it would cost me tens of thousands to fight for custody. I am so confused!!! please help!! thanks!

2007-01-28 14:27:23 · 8 answers · asked by kdog_1981 2

She's only slightly overweight.

2007-01-28 14:23:23 · 13 answers · asked by shareefa9876 1

ANY GREAT MOMS OUT THERE? I NEED YOUR HELP! hi! i live in the bay area. my mother is having a real stressful time right now. i was thinking that i could set it up for her and one of her friends to go somewhere in the SF area for a week, like a spa getaway. Napa valley is too far away though. any good LUXURY spas in San Fransisco so that my mom can have a wonderful, relaxing week for her and one friend, shopping and getting spa treatments in San Fransisco? THANK YOU! respond ASAP. thanks P.S. she considers the Silverado crappy, upper level than that please! thanks!

2007-01-28 14:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by Rodney <3 1

2007-01-28 14:18:37 · 18 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3

I am an only child. They have burial plans but I don't think I can go to the ceremonies.

2007-01-28 14:15:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Avoids hugging her children
Makes you pay for gas money to go to a activity
Gives you no allowance
Cooks dinner a few times a week but no other meals except breakfast on Saturdays and only if boyfriend is there
Spends more time with boyfriends than with children
Constanly tells descriptive stories about her sexual history to you
Was at one time on drugs
Is completely dependent on her parents
Does have a job but blows you off when she gets home
Doesn't even read what she signing when presented with a permission slip
Borrows my money

What I have posted above is my mom in a nutshell. She's not affectionate and demands respect from me and yet ignores me and constantly critizes and teases me. I'm only 15. I've tried talking to her she doesn't care. Her boyfriend matters more to her. He's an okay guy but has his own kids. She even't let him live with us for five months without even talking to us and this was the first guy to live with us since our dad. Is this normal?

2007-01-28 14:15:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a strange question. sorry this is so long.when i was three, i moved to texas. i have never liked texas only because none of my family lives there, except for me, and my immidiate family. every summer, i go back home to new england. each year i want to go back to new england more and more. i am VERY close to my cousins, and we are more like best friends. its hurts alot to leave. a year ago, my uncle got remarried, now i have two new step-cousins who i am very close to as well. my step-cousins see my family more than i have in my life total.
i have missed:
-one wedding
-two graduations
-two serious operations
-one birth
-and so many holidays where my family together

my cousin is a pro-skiier. recently he competed in the x games. and some of my family went to see him compete. i get so homesick talking w/ my family and writing to them.
i know this is a strange question, but what can i do (since i have 3 years left till i graduate) to get over my homesickness. thank you.

2007-01-28 14:10:11 · 3 answers · asked by Bear 3

My mom was a person who felt that no house was big enough.
I asked my wife about it and she said that all wome feel that way about houses. A house can never be too big! Even if it had 50 bedrooms and a 10 car garage. Women always envy, wished they lived in, the bigger house...

If that is true? Why is that? After a while the house would be TOO BIG for anyone unless it was a hotel!!

2007-01-28 14:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents support me with whatever I do, at least that is what they say. They sometimes say they do, but I can hear them talking in the other room and I have my doubts. I want to go to college for singing, but they won't take it seriously. They deleted my emails to sign up for this theatre club and I try to tell them but I can't work up the courage. I either want to go to college for singing or acting. What should I do?

2007-01-28 13:53:39 · 17 answers · asked by NONAME 2

My bf and I are long distance and for several weeks we've been planning that he'd come visit me next weekend. We haven't seen each other since New Year's. My mom's b-day is also on that weekend. I didn't plan on going home b/c I don't have a car, and my brother and sister who live in the same town didn't bother to inform me if they were gonna go home so I could ride with them. Well, now my mom called and said they were coming home so I should go with them. Even worse, they don't know that my bf is coming over; I didn't tell them because they don't like him. I am ticked off at my family for springing plans on me at the last minute. How should I resolve this situation? I hate to cancel on my bf because I don't know when I'll see him again if I do that. But I also don't want to piss off my family and be a bad daughter. What should I do?

2007-01-28 13:52:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom and me dont get along at all im a teen and she doesnt let me do anything at all. like go to the dance or to a friends house or date I try to tell her i hate it and i have no social life but today things hit the fan........we were sitting at the dinner table and she said i wasnt going to any dances ever and when i got my car all i could dont was go to school and they would have a gps put in the car so they would no... i put my fork on the plate and left to my room where i shut my door..... then they tell me to get out there ......so i got and she's like we give you everythin you could want me:i have no social life
Mom: your friends are always calling you
me: because they think i died!!
mom: tthats not true
me: everyday i try to have a life but you keep me in this hell
mom: wow
pause
mom: if your unhappy you can live with kenny (real dad my dad now adpoted me)
me: i rather hang myself and go to hell then live with that bastard
mom: your dad and me will see where u can go

2007-01-28 13:40:09 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-01-28 13:38:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

about my cousin keeps calling me to call her and i dont get a long with her or her sisster i dont have the strength to put up with there crap she leave s message that its important she said i lied so youd call me back i think she wants me and her sister to talk again shes playing games i dont want to be around them there hurtless and i would talk to her sister but i told her how i felt that i was hurt she didnt invite me to my cousin party when i told her how i felt she said u you felt hurt u feel bad what about me i cant go to other family party they cant go because they started some serious stuff around the family saying everyone is a melester all the guys in the family anyways i knew then what should i do i feel like her sister will trick me to see her sister cousini just want to be left all there hurtless people should i continue to talk to the family

2007-01-28 13:27:10 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

Like making a small income at the same time I could enjoy it with my 4 year old son. Because sometimes i feel depressed. And my husband is in abroad.

2007-01-28 13:16:11 · 2 answers · asked by gelica 1

I really feel like I want to be close to my dad and learn who he is because I feel like we never have time to do things. What things would help me have fun and spend time with my dad and also learn about who he is, what he believes, his life story...you know things you want to know so that you can tell my kids some day about him.

2007-01-28 13:15:49 · 10 answers · asked by katalina 2

im the oldeat out of 3 kids and no one will leave me alone!! my brother is sooo annoying, he's 6, but he will come up to me and try to annoy me for hours and hours. at first i'll ignor it but he doesnt go away. after a while i get really mad. my sister is 10 and she is the princess cry baby of the family. i know i sound like im jelous (and i am) but this is completly true, she doesnt like ANYTHING and complains constantly and then when i look at her she goes crazy and tells on me, and i get in trouble! but when she takes a spazz and starts killing me (im talking biting, scratching, slapping, pulling hair, the workz) my parents do nothing! Also sometimes i will turn around and (i swear its an accident) hit one of them because they are so close behind me trying to bug me and my parents freak out so much! and last time this happened i stayed out in the car (in the winter) for 1 hour because i knew if i went back in they would scream at me again!! i need help to fix this!!

2007-01-28 13:12:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

and if they are not alive anymore where do you think they are now?

2007-01-28 13:07:24 · 13 answers · asked by lovephoto 5

Does anyone hear have a mentally disabled sibling or relative..if so share your story

2007-01-28 12:49:58 · 4 answers · asked by Lvgrl23 1

over 750 children in thier home and took them every where, and it cost them everything they had

2007-01-28 12:45:47 · 2 answers · asked by crojobe 1

I ask them to bring me a bottle of water then they gave me a citrus flavored water. Then I yelled at them and I called them retards. How come my parents are retarded?

2007-01-28 12:44:12 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you have gotten so sick and tired of your insane family that you have totally (or almost totally) cut them out of your life, you are the answerers I want. What got you to that point? And how did you do it? My family is a source of frustration and genuine anguish, and has been for a long time. I get very close to no happiness or peace out of my relationship with most of them; they are, at best, crazy (at worst malicious and not even "whole" people). I love them, of course, but I feel like it's time for me to (again) consider myself and my own sanity. If anyone has anything to share about divorcing one's family, please...

2007-01-28 12:23:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

just finished divorce 5 mons ago.i have a 8yr old son that i have joint custody with my exwife with and i have him half the time.i pay her 15% of what i make(child support) on top of that i pay most(80/20) of daycare cost and healthcare.now this is what the court ordered and i don't have a problem paying this.the problem is my ex with try to guilt me into paying for other stuff like sport stuff,swimming lessons,camp fees ect.now i'm not rich and having a hard time just paying for the child support.when i have my son i buy him clothes,toys ect for my house but i feel that the other stuff should come out of the child support i pay her.please this is all new am i wrong in my thinking?should i also chip in for sport fees,school trips,camps even though i pay child support?

2007-01-28 12:21:44 · 10 answers · asked by jerry6mckenny 1

2007-01-28 12:18:16 · 8 answers · asked by havingfun 4

She was over at my sister's house this weekend and the feed back was not good. When she doesn't get her way about something is when she is the worse. I even seen her act out in church. I'm her step mother and she has lived with me for 5 years now. Her "birth mother" chose to move away when she was young and she doesn't see her much. Could this be away of asking for some kind if emotion help from us? Her sister also lives with me and she doesn't act like this. Her sister is 8 now. She has been doing this since I've known her and her father said she has always been like this. Will she grow out of it? From the way it looks she is only getting worse. We try to be so positive. I've tried talking with her one on one. I'll keep praying, just wondering if there were others with this same issue out there and what you did to help. Thanks...

2007-01-28 12:17:30 · 18 answers · asked by Animal_lover 2