im the oldeat out of 3 kids and no one will leave me alone!! my brother is sooo annoying, he's 6, but he will come up to me and try to annoy me for hours and hours. at first i'll ignor it but he doesnt go away. after a while i get really mad. my sister is 10 and she is the princess cry baby of the family. i know i sound like im jelous (and i am) but this is completly true, she doesnt like ANYTHING and complains constantly and then when i look at her she goes crazy and tells on me, and i get in trouble! but when she takes a spazz and starts killing me (im talking biting, scratching, slapping, pulling hair, the workz) my parents do nothing! Also sometimes i will turn around and (i swear its an accident) hit one of them because they are so close behind me trying to bug me and my parents freak out so much! and last time this happened i stayed out in the car (in the winter) for 1 hour because i knew if i went back in they would scream at me again!! i need help to fix this!!
2007-01-28 13:12:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
And please no bull **** answers like just sit down and talk to your parents, they'll underatand... well i have tried that MANY times and it does not work, they always say, your the oldest you need to set the examlpe... but apparently i have to be perfect!
2007-01-28 13:14:33 · update #1
You don't say how old you are, but it sounds like you may be a teen. Your parents may feel helpless to change all this sibling rivalry. You need to take matters into your own hands in a positive way that may get results.
Try telling your siblings that you will play a board game with them for 30 minutes, or read to them or something that they enjoy, if they will then give you your space. Then follow up by doing it.
Tell your parents your plan and ask them to help out when you have done what you promised.
Your 10 year old sister needs some discipline from your parents. Tell her you won't tolerate being hit anymore and mean it. If your parents won't intervene you may have to restrain her yourself. Take her to your parents when this happens. If you spend a little more time with her, perhaps she won't work so hard at trying to get your attention. I think that is what she really wants.
Good luck to you. I hope I helped.
2007-01-28 13:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you have to go through all this!
Your parents are putting a heavy burden on you just because you are the oldest. (thats wrong)
Setting examples start at the 'parent' level
first.,and from what you've said here they are
'NOT' setting a good example to you.
It is 'very' unfair of them to continually ignore your hurts and concerns about this situation.
If they have been unwilling to discuss this in a
'kind and loving' manner with you, then I would
go to a favorite teacher, or even another adult
who you feel you can talk to.
You 'must' speak to someone about this, for
your own peace of mind, and to get it 'all'
out in the open.
You'd be amazed how much better you'll feel when you can open up to someone who'll listen.
I wish things were better for you, I really do!!
2007-01-29 03:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your school counsler or some one else.
2007-01-28 21:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋