I have 2 beautiful girls to 2 different fathers, the eldest has visitation on weekends every fortnight and that works, is sorted. the youngest - 6months, her father lives an hour away and he wants to alternate weeks - i have one week and he has the other. i can understand his want and need and love to want to spend as much time with his daughter and i want to fully support and help him foster a wonderful and positive relationship with her. But i think week on and week off is too much for a 6month old, babies need stability and a set routine, yes they can adapt but they stil need routine, i have suggested with him that her have every fortnight from friday to sunday - until he moves back to where we are, this is his decision and goal - then once she is a little older and more familiar of him, then it can move up to sleep overs and then shared custody. please i reallly want to know your opinions on this, my head is reeling from it!
thanks :)
2007-01-29
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Helen
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