Well 1 week ago was the final day in an apartment that me, my husband and my 3 year old son have been living in for years. We were evicted...Not only is that a bad situation for me and my family but I have a baby girl on the way and due in 3 monthes. Fortunitly I work at a very nice hotel and they are letting us stay here for a month so that we can get back on our feet. Well I have to work 2 extra days a week for free to cover the fact that I am staying here free. So that is 7 days a week. I am so far in my pregnancy that its starting to bother me. Well we cant find anywhere to go. We need a 3 bedroom and well my husbands credit is really bad and my criminal is not so good either. I got into a physical situation with my little boys father a few years ago and well the state pressed charges on both of us so, when people look into our background nobody wants us to rent from them. I am so stressed out right about now I dont know what to do! Please any suggestions?!?!? Thank you!!
2007-01-28 21:19:21 · 9 answers · asked by DeborahUlloa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The only suggestion i have for you is for your family to go into a hostel.
But the problem there is that your husband may not be able to join you, but they will help you to find a house quicker but maybe not in the area's you prefer.
Why were you evicted? Your husband should be out providing for your growing family to. Is he working? If not tell him to stop bumming around and find a job even if it is in a factory.
Is there no family you can move in with you could then get a house a little faster due to over crowding.
I'm sorry you are in this situation it must be terrible for you all. Try getting Social services on your side they can help you and your family also.
2007-01-29 01:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what state you live in, but it Illinois they have programs that will find you housing that you can afford, even if they have to pay for most or all of it. The people you are renting from volunteered for this service and don't look down on you. The best option you have is to call your local public aid office and see if they can help you, they could at least give you numbers for places like this. Most people have rough times, and don't let anyone say "you are using the taxpayers money". You have a job and pay taxes. The assistance is there to help people like you. I hope everything works out for you, and good luck.
2007-01-28 21:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by countchocula_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to give you a religious answer, but Thomas A was on to something. You made some decisions, apparently, and now you're in a "tight spot." I'm reading your question and I'm seeing "evicted", "credit is really bad", "criminal", "state pressed charges".... I guess you could go to a welfare agency or local charity and seek help, but are things really going to change for you? It sounds like a downward spiral. Maybe you and your partner need to really look at where you are and how you got there and then take some steps to change things. Some credit counseling, maybe a little anger management, some life coaching would be great for you! It's really important to get your life in order, not just for yourself, but for your children. They need some stability and security.
2007-01-28 23:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Angela B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you looked into government programs? It sounds like you would qualify for medicaid since you have children and are pregnant. There are a lot of programs available. Also, have you considered talking to a church for suggestions? Since they are in your area, they would be more familiar with your housing options then anyone on yahoo answers.
Anyway, I would start with making a ton of phone calls if i was in your situation. I'd call government agencies and charities and even ask family members to let us move in or to help out financially.
Also, have you tried renting form private individuals? They normally don't ask for credit checks or background checks. Look in your newspaper for rentals, and if it isn't in an apartment complex, then it might be with a private individual.
I know it is a really tough situation to be in! Good Luck!
2007-01-28 21:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the asshole that said trailer park, he's just a bitter icky little man. Maybe you could downsize abit and not go for a 3 bedroom right away. Get you credit built back up and then try for a larger place. It would be cramped but it beats the situation at hand. I would suggest relatives, but I'd rather slide down a banister of razor blades than to ever do that myself! lol Good luck!
2007-01-28 21:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by nevermetagirllikeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the information you had just submitted and place it in church bulletin, and local news paper. If you don't belong to any faith, put your situation into the hands of minister for advice anyway. Also contact the county where you live and explain your problem. Have your husband to work the two extra days for you.
Go to google or ask.com and search for available Christian own apartments buildings in your area and explain everything to them. If you know the owner of the Hotel where you work ask him for his assistance, even if he could write a recommendation of character for you and your family especially for applying for available apartment in a safe neighborhood.
Contact the Catholic Charities in your county and seek their help as well. Also rewrite you statement in yahoo, and mention the state and county you reside in. Therefore, someone may read your plead and can help you. It is important that you and your husband work together, no arguing, fighting or whatever, and most of all pray to God.
I promise to keep your family in my prayers. God Bless.
2007-01-28 21:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you given any thought to the fact that people every day make a choice. Your husband and you have to make some choices shall we go it our way or Gods way. That is what it really boils down to. God tells us to choice today the curses or the blessings. Your tight spot is only a minor bumb is life. They get bigger the futher you get from God. I could give you advice, but would you and he take it. Millions of people like yourself find God every day. I subject you and your husband might want to take this time to read the bible starting at John 1 and find out about a love above fleshly love and a God who is able to solve any problem.
2007-01-28 21:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a long shot but check out the govt housing programs. I think its call HUD or section 9. They will help you get into a house even if your high risk. If that won't work go to your local church they may have a program you can apply for or they maybe able to find you a place to stay for a bit. good luck.
2007-01-28 21:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by athena9980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trailer Park?
2007-01-28 21:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋