I get irritated very easily. Most of the time with my mother. For example she will be telling me something and i will reply ok and she keeps going so i say so again in "a tone" and I get into trouble. I do this because I feel like she os repeating herself and she need to just be quiet. It seems to happen a lot and is it me reacting to strongly or what?
2007-01-28 16:09:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nah it happens to everyone. Me included. You feel annoyed by the person and feel like what they say is so pointless to you, thus wanting them to shut the F up. But don't worry, it will pass sooner or later, its just a phase.
2007-01-28 16:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can understand you having your moods. We mothers don't like to have to talk that much either. Much less have to repeat what we have to say. That is part of the job as a mother. And indeed it is a tedious job sometimes. We still love our kids no matter. And yes we do respect them too. I commend you for asking this question. It shows you respect your mom and shows you are mature. You want to know how to improve your relationship. That is great. You would be surprised to find that your mom would love to spend some down time with you if could be made possible. Have fun. Post Script. Adolescence is tough for all kids to go through. Hormonal changes play a big role. Take care.
2007-01-29 00:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have a lot on your mind and just be in an irritated mood and chances are, your mother is repeating things over and over because mine does that too and it is irritating, though I'm sure you're like me and don't want to hurt her feelings. I'm guessing just try to be more aware when she's talking to you and try to give her more attention even if it is difficult at times.
2007-01-29 00:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it sounds like you may be younger and you probably have some hormones racing through your body. That can definitely cause you to me more irritable especially with your family members. If it is bothering you have a talk with your mom and let her know that you don't intend to react so strongly but you really can't help it. It really is just a part of growing up.
2007-01-29 00:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by chugyn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are just annoyed with the fact that you do not need to be told twice, however think about what your mom is feeling when she has to repeat herself. Maybe she thinks that you don't listen to her, thus causing herself to repeat herself. I would just have a heart to heart talk with her about the communication problems and go from there.
2007-01-29 00:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are reacting like a teenager... that is normal.
Try repeating what you mom said back to her in response.
For example, if she tells you that you need to finish you homework before dinner, rather than just saying "OK", say,
"Sure mom, I know I need to finish my homework before dinner, I am just getting a snack and then I am heading straight to my room to finish it up".
That way, she know that you actually heard her and are not just dismissing her with an "OK".
2007-01-29 00:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she thinks youre not listening. Instead of saying ok, repeat back to her what she just told you so she knows you heard her. For example lets say she said do the dishes, then you say...ok, I'll do the dishes.
2007-01-29 04:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your problem is only adolescence. It's easy to get frustrated with your parents--Lord knows my mom gets on my nerves all the time. You just have to know that she is looking out for your business, and when the time comes to leave that you'll miss her very much (but not as much as she'll miss you)
If you can try to see what might be hurtful to her that would be normal to you, it can go a long way too.
2007-01-29 00:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by King Ebeneezer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she needs more reinforcement that your understanding her requests. Maybe you should say more just ok. Parents can be nagging but its only because they care so much about you. Think of somebody you really care about and how would you feel if they always just said ok when you were talking with them.
2007-01-29 00:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jane 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She has personality traits that are getting on your nerves.
If you are getting irrated all the time- there maybe something else going on in your life that is rubbing you the wrong way, stealing your ability to deal with these smaller things.
2007-01-29 00:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by There you are∫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋