I guess you mean a real mother, the one who gave you birth and a step mother who raised you. since I do not really know all I can say is this. If they both treat you like a daughter and is good to you and you love each of them, then I am sure you have enough love in your heart to love them both, one as much as the other. Accept both of them and be happy that you have two mothers, some children have no mother. You are very lucky, be happy and show both equal love.
2007-01-28 20:31:18
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answered by m c 5
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Both if they have treated u well and have been actively involved in your life.
Unless u were in an abusive or unpleasant situation, be thankful for 2 mothers, some of have not even 1 mother
2007-01-28 20:30:03
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answered by Anonymous
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i would accept both of them-either the one who adopted me or the biological one; they both deserve a chance for me to get to know them and vice versa. regardless if you are adopted or not, you should not hate your real mom because she gave you away. there is a very good reason why things happened and you should be thankful that your adoptive parents took you in and took good care of you. that is, if that is the case. now, if you are not sure which is your real parent is, flesh and blood i mean, then you should find a way to get some DNA testing and it does not matter where you came from, what matters is who took good care of you when you have nowhere else to go. if you want to turn your back on your biological parent, that is up to you, maybe you have a good reason to do so. what matters now is your happiness. be safe.
2007-01-28 22:27:34
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answered by Acidburn 2
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This question kind of makes me wonder what exactly is going on. It would help to answer the question! Maybe one is your adopted or surrogate mother, or one is a step-mother that actually helped raise you. Treat both nicely -- they deserve that.
2007-01-28 21:38:09
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answered by xena790 3
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Unfortunately I was once a child who was abused by the woman who brought me into this world. My father's 2nd wife loved me and cared for me for much of my life. To this day I love and appriciate her as 1 of my mothers. Though I respected the one who bore me she was not a true "mother" to me.
Mother is the name we give to a woman who gives her love and care for a child trusted to her. It doesn't matter if the child was trusted to her by birth, marriage, adoption or gaurdianship. With the title of mother also comes responsibility and sacrifice. All for the hope that the child will grow up mature, happy and successful.
All of those women who have suffered, sacrificed, loved, laughed and cried for her child deserve respect as a mother. From all of us.
2007-01-28 20:51:17
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answered by trey_nitrotoluene 2
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Both
2007-01-28 20:23:28
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answered by rtobor84 3
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well.. which one is your real mother? i mean the one who gave birth to you? that's the one who is like, your mother but if the other one also love you like her child, then, she should be accepted to as your mother, you're so lucky if you have 2 mothers! :D
2007-01-28 20:34:17
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answered by Katrin 1
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Alessia, you could't replace your mom. She is who she is, only as you could't replace who you're. I propose you only thank her for her prayers, (we may be able to all use them), and once you've any non secular beliefs, you may go with to wish that she will be in a position to go back to settle for you as you're. i comprehend the way you sense, and life is problematical even as someone you want is having a complicated time treating you with appreciate. one component you should attempt to comprehend, you mom can no longer help how she feels. it must be perfect in case you probably did not flaunt your sexuality. Very not often will you locate a heterosexual human being insist on retaining that actuality each and every time they meet a clean human being. in case you've faith in God, you should even believe that God would not hate you. He made you. i wish issues strengthen between you and your mom.
2016-10-16 06:09:10
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answered by Anonymous
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I have one mother, just like nature intended.
2007-01-28 20:26:24
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answered by Anonymous
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both of them as u said
2007-01-28 20:22:12
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answered by Anonymous
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