She's driving me nuts. I just want some independence. I'm 53 years old and I feel like a ninny.
2007-01-28 16:06:25 · 16 answers · asked by Nick Y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Earn her respect and trust!! You have to remember she was your age once too.
2007-01-28 16:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are not a ninny-you are respecting her request. Do you live with her? Help her around the house, etc.? Does she have health problems, or do you? That would help explain her concerns. Do you work? Maybe you could get together with "the guys" to go bowling or something on a Sat. night or something. It could be she doesn't feel "safe" until she knows you are home and in for the night. Maybe something happened to someone she knows/knew and it happened after dark. Have you tried to sit down and ask her why she has this request of you? Maybe start out, if she is willing, to go out one night per week-back in by 9:30-10 pm? Depending on where you live, daylight savings time will be starting in a couple of months, so maybe being light longer in the evening will help. Take care.
2007-01-29 00:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cute. If you are 53 and have to ask your Grandmother for permission to stay out late, you have missed most of your adulthood. On the other hand, Your grandmother is probably in her 90's and Godbless her for a long life. Emancipate yourself.
2007-01-29 02:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Randall A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are my hero, I want to party with you. Only until just before dark of course, wouldn't want to get you in trouble. If it would help, I could talk to your grandma. Maybe I could seduce her and change her mind about letting you out past dark.
2007-01-29 00:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
um.. 53 years old you are a grown *** man move out of your grandmas house. If you are taking care of her then it should not matter you are 53..
2007-01-29 00:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by hookemhorns903 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahah sorry i just have to laugh. thats a funny question. dude your 53 how sad is that!!
2007-01-29 01:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now we have trolls on Yahoo Answers? That's awesome!
2007-01-29 00:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by t_is_for_troll 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shut her in the closet and run away... i hear there is a room available in the Bates Motel...
dim wit
2007-01-29 00:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by coffeegirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
K I think maybe you should try and live on your own.You are 53years old.
2007-01-29 00:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take her out with you!
2007-01-29 00:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋