She's only slightly overweight.
2007-01-28 14:23:23 · 13 answers · asked by shareefa9876 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes. it is very rude! you should call her "fat mammy"
2007-01-28 14:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-09-28 03:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her, it's her you're talking about. Even making fun of someones weight for a joke, even if they're your mother, can really hurt without you knowing it. Just say "Mom, do you mind if I call you Big Gal?" she can answer that herself. If she says she doesn't care, then it's probably okay. Just don't publicize it.
2007-01-28 14:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how it makes your mother feel when you say it, and if you are calling her that to be mean. If your mom is okay with the pet name, then I say its okay. (Besides...big gal could also mean she's older, not literally big) Just make sure it doesn't hurt or offend your mother, or make her feel bad.
2007-01-28 14:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by bethv_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends.
Does your mother find it offending? If so, I suggest you stop right now. But I guess you can use it as a pet name kind of thing, but then again it's not very nice.
2007-01-28 14:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by MOVED! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't call your mother anything but a variation of mother..mom..mommy..mama, etc. It's a sign of respect. She could take your humor to heart and feel very disrespected and devalued. She's not your friend, don't treat her as such.
2007-01-28 14:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she thinks it's rude, it's rude.
You'd be better off calling her something affectionate, like "Mamasita," "The Domestic Goddess," or "The Queen"!
2007-01-28 14:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by Guernica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your MOTHER....yeah....that's rude. Show some respect for your elders.
2007-01-28 14:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by MattyG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rude to call her anything which she finds to be offensive.
2007-01-28 14:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asked your mother how SHE feels about it and you will have your answer
2007-01-28 14:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by VonnieBGood 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's rude.
2007-01-28 18:12:32 · answer #11 · answered by Donna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋