Family - November 2006

2006-11-26 16:44:25 · 2 answers · asked by KayeP 1

my girlfriend has really been in a tough spot, her mother passed away on thanksgiving, she was 51. My gf is only 20 and she doesnt have any family to go to for this. I am her only outlet. I am doing my best being htere for her, trying to make her laugh, giving her a shoulder to cry on. But there are times when i see her just stare into nothingness, and there is nothing i can say. I feel so helpless... will things ever be the same again?

2006-11-26 16:25:19 · 8 answers · asked by xsuckitdx 2

My sister is 23 years old, she has just had her second child in july. Out of wedlock. He daughter had to be taken to the childrens hosptial a few hours after birth. And she is still there. We all know it is hard on her. But since she got pregnet the first time, she has been angry, sad, depressed. But it has escalted in the last months. She is just so angry all the time. My parents are always there. But my mom can't take it anymore. She tells my sister she needs to go to see someone just to talk things out, but she wont. Everything we do for her is wrong. What can we do?

2006-11-26 16:16:35 · 5 answers · asked by WoWzIe 2

this girl in my family is ALWAYS picking on me whenever i'm around her. she doesn't talk to me, she ignores me, and acts like i don't matter or exist or that i'm not important. this used to not bother me at all, but for the past few years it's really taken its toll on me. i've gained weight, become bulimic, started smoking and drinking heavily, and i've lost half the vision in my right eye from stress! what do i do? she will not leave me alone no matter what, and whenever i try to ignore her, it doesn't matter, she picks on me anyway---in fact, even more! i do not want to die, but i don't want to live my life this way anymore, either. i just want things back to the way they used to be, when she didn't matter in my life. most of the time i have trouble sleeping, too. when i wake up she's on my mind, and when i go to bed she's on my mind. i've tried eveything

2006-11-26 15:40:21 · 12 answers · asked by Yvette S 1

I was just wondering, how do you fell about it, and like have you faced a lot of sturggiles with this in your life?

2006-11-26 15:32:30 · 19 answers · asked by Aaron 3

2006-11-26 15:20:33 · 17 answers · asked by ingahauks 2

2006-11-26 15:18:49 · 18 answers · asked by ingahauks 2

2006-11-26 15:15:26 · 23 answers · asked by 2cool4fools 1

I would like to get a special gift for my husband and daughter. It needs to be something that they can do together. they are so close, but now that my daughter has gotten a boyfriend, she is always at his house. My husband misses her very much. I would like to get a gift certificate to some activity they can do together for a day, or so. I wonder if there were other 17 year old young ladies that love to spend quality time with their fathers and what they like to do.
Thank you for your help.

2006-11-26 14:57:19 · 16 answers · asked by sandilo 2

She lived across the street she was 17 and died in a car accident her van went across two lines and hit a telephone pole. I never told her how I felt and it hurts alot what should i do?

2006-11-26 14:49:43 · 10 answers · asked by animescifigamer359 2

Okay...I was watching an episode of CSI:Miami and on the show they said that in the state of Florida a person that is 16 years old can legally have sexual relationships with anyone up to 24 years of age without the elder person getting in trouble. Is that true???

2006-11-26 14:45:25 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Quentin's Mommy♥ 3

I was at lunch the other day with my husband whom was not at the table, my daughter was crying she is having a terrible time with teething and i was trying everything to get her to stop crying , i did give her some motrin for the teeth but takes awhile to kick in, should have done that before we went to lunch, but she was fine before sleeping she is about 14 months old. anyway my Mother-in-law beds over and says to me SHe is Spoiled!! and I just looked at her, I could not believe that she said that.. geez i said you think so ?? she said why don't you think she is?? I said ya know maybe a little not a lot.. my husband walked over to see what he could do he was with my other 2 kids.. and I looked at him and said loudly well, no she is spoiled.. he said WHAT? and I said yeah she is spoiled and then his Mom leaned over and said I was mad at ther for sying that.. i wasn't happy.. my husband said she is not spoiled her teeth are hurting her and she is not usually like this when we go out..

2006-11-26 14:33:17 · 13 answers · asked by crafty1 2

My dad has seemed to disapear and Ican't track him down. I want to at least let him know he has a grand daughter now. His name is Joe Wansley Wallis and he was last known to be in California, around the Hesperia area.

2006-11-26 14:26:27 · 6 answers · asked by Kalei 1

Her daughters are 6, 13, and 14

2006-11-26 14:08:16 · 9 answers · asked by caryaya 1

they say i have no life because i spend a little bit of time on the computer and say i play games online only which is a lie because i talk to family and friends on myspace. They dont even go anywhere but work and blame everything on kids and say kids dont no anything.

2006-11-26 14:06:31 · 7 answers · asked by AJL 2

Me and my sister do get along. I am the most honest sbiling to her, and I have her back but if she is wrong I will tell hershe is. She is always there when I need help, but she always want to make me look bad toward my parents and siblings. I will be the first person she disregard in the family, but I will never do that to her. She claims I do not give her respect, but I think maybe my honesty is misunderstood by her. I sick of tired of being treated this way. What should I do? Should I stop being honest to her? I confronted her about this issue and she will not change. Maybe my honesty is looked as being rude. How can I aviod this conflict?

2006-11-26 14:05:32 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa 1

My Dad and my Aunt had a little disagreement earlier today. My dad called me and we talked about it for a while, I mentioned that maybe my aunt had thought he was overbearing( he can be overbearing but does NOT realize it AT ALL) He said, "I dont know" we started talking about something else, and it seemed like the end of the discussion right there. Just now at almost 10pm, he calls me back asking, "What do YOU mean I am overbearing?That is not nice!!" I answered, "I did not say you were overbearing. I said Maybe Aunt---- thinks you are, she did mention that A LONG TIME AGO" My Dad said, "Ok I'm sorry I misunderstood you" I said ok, then he started going into the same stuff with my aunt all over again. I said "It is LATE. Can we talk about this tomorrow?" He said ok and did not seem mad. I am very close to leaving the phone off the hook at night because of these calls at all hours.

2006-11-26 14:01:52 · 11 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3

Well my wife offered her brother to stay with his family (family with 6 children) to stay in our house for about 2 months after coming from the philippines. They came about January 2006 and... it is the end of November. Her sister FINALLY started her nursing job and her husband does not want to have a job. I don't know what to do with them. They still do not have enough money to be on their own. They also have no idea what they will do after they leave us. What also makes me pretty angry is that they bought a brand new laptop... i didn't check it out but it had VIAO on the top. Even now they still do not pay rent to us. It kinda gets on my nerves to know that they have been free loading electricity, internet, food, and heat. ETC. Also my wife is getting mad because her parents are paying for anything they need. Education, gas ( my wifes parents bought them a car), food. Errg i don't know what to do. Give them their own house to live in. I don't know if u got any tips please give some

2006-11-26 13:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by stupid i 1

My younger brother has a weed problem and hes getting mixed grades As and Cs, but my older bro switched from weed to cigarettes and hes using it to get away from his university and family problems (to me they arent that bad) and it pains me to see them do this to themselves, I feel like they've destroyed the stability of the family, but my parents would flip out if they ever found this out, what should I do?

2006-11-26 13:49:38 · 7 answers · asked by niner f 1

I took my bf to my aunts this weekend for him to meet the family as well as my mother who was traveling from two hours away. Well mom showed up an hour and a half late completely drunk! I know she has a drinking problem but I was shocked to see that she'd drive that far in that state of intoxication. My aunt and I discussed it and I guess my uncle (moms brother) has known about this problem for years and doesn't want to deal with it. My grandpa went down south for the winter because he doesn't want to deal with her...and I live 6 hrs away and don't want to deal with her drinking issue either. She denies it of course. So question...do I make peace that I feel like I can't help and be like the rest of my family or should I try to get my family to help me help her?

2006-11-26 13:48:41 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie 2

despite my going out of my way to be nice to her, make her feel included if she wants etc, my mother in law to be hates me. shes said the most horrid things about me, blanked me at our engagement party and not evengiven congratulations to her son.
ive done nothing to her at all but be nice. what to do?

2006-11-26 13:44:45 · 24 answers · asked by serephina 5

How has it effected your life?

2006-11-26 13:43:54 · 5 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4

One of my brothers has 2 toddlers and they don't ever associate with his side of the family, his wife wants to do everything alone.

For the last 3 years I have given Toys R Us gift cards to them. We don't get to see them at all, everyone leaves their gifts at my Mom's and my brother picks up the gifts after Christmas. These kids don't even know me........ They don't know I gave them anything and I never get any thanks at all........

I don't want to cause a problem but I don't feel this is right. What do you think?????????

2006-11-26 13:39:43 · 16 answers · asked by howey 1

on the day before this Thanksgiving my wife dropped off my daughter (6 yrs old) at my parents house to spend the day. My step-mother was not home but only my father. 5 hours would go by before step-mom got there from work. when she got home my daughter confronted her with the comment "grandpa licked my privates" in an ignorantly blissful way. my step-mom without haste questioned my father. My father, age 53, admitted it stating through the tears "I don't know why I did it, I'm sorry." At that my step-mom takes my daughter to a safe place (her dads house), great grand-dads house and calls my wife and myself. Hearing the news we rush out the door to confront my father. on the way I call 911 (I was scared I would kill him, understandably) we didnt get to see him that night , luckily for him. Instead we were instructed to take my daughter to the emergency room to get samples and evidence. since then our lives have been in shambles. What to do while we're waiting for the results?

2006-11-26 13:35:10 · 9 answers · asked by mrbishop8 1

OKay folks, here's the deal. I am an adult...and I just found out from another family family member that I have an older half-brother that lives in Florida. The only reason this family member told me is because (and this is the kicker folks) BOTH MY SISTERS ALREADY KNOW, AND HAVE KNOWN FOR QUITE SOME TIME. So I'm pretty well pissed at some people. Namely my father and my two sisters. I'm psyched that I have a half-bro, but I'm royally pissed @ members of my family...so how would you feel, and would you try to find your sibling?

2006-11-26 13:27:22 · 7 answers · asked by too funny 3

2006-11-26 13:15:11 · 18 answers · asked by gagandeep d 1

feel like a piece of you is missing? My children have been the center of my world but are now of the age where they are making friends, venturing out, and doing sleep overs. My middle one is at a sleep over tonight and I feel like a void. I also feel this way when my oldest goes with his father on his over night visits.

2006-11-26 13:10:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

HER ON ALL HIS OFF DAYS WHEN SHE DID'NT RAISE HIM WAS'NT THERE FOR HIM AS A CHILD NOW SHE'S IN THE PICTURE SHE FIGURE SHE SHOULD GET ALL THE ATTENTION & HE'S MARRY & HAS A WIFE OF 13YRS TOGETHER FOR 16YRS SHE'S BEEN TRYIN TO PUT A WEDGE BETWEEN US FOR THE PAST 16 YEARS NOW WHAT SHOULD HE DO? HE DON LIKE TO HEAR ALOT OF FUSSIN THAT'S WHY HE DOSE'NT SAY ANYTHING.SHE WANTS TO CONTROL HIM.

2006-11-26 13:06:11 · 8 answers · asked by sam 2

My son is 11 years old and I am starting to think he is gay. He is always clinging on his uncle wanting to sit on his lap and to hold him and pick him up. He is also very emotional and cries almost every day for stupid reasons. He has a lot of friends that are girls but never talks about going out with them outside of school. We do not have a great relationship but I love him very much and am worried about this. Any info is greatly appreciated.

2006-11-26 12:57:42 · 12 answers · asked by aj876 1

Okay, the undies aren't flashy. They're just plain briefs. But it doesn't seem right to me for my hubby to walk around in them in front of our daughter who is 8, and our son who is 12. He just started doing it this year. I don't know why. But his mother is also not shy about her body. She'll change clothes in front of my daughter. Strange family I married into... Should I be mad or just let it go?

2006-11-26 12:56:56 · 11 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4