Family - November 2006

2006-11-27 03:30:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife's son has a long history of drinking and drugs. He is a charmer. He tells his mom what she wants to hear even if it means looking her in the face and lieing. Although, he tells his mom he doesn't do it anymore he will turn around in the same conversation and brag about doing it. He has little or no morals, value, or integrety. He has no concept of responsibilty or accountability. He and his mom think that what happened in the past should stay in the past and be forgotten. I believe that you past actions defind who and what you are. But his actions don't stay in the past. He keeps doing it. His mom will not correct him or even tell him he is wrong. I get the riot act if I say anything. He floats from job to job. His mom will let him bring his girl friends over to our house and spend the night with them. I draw the line here and do not let that happen. His moms thinks I am bashing him. He is 30 years old. Am I the bad guy his mom makes me to be?

2006-11-27 03:26:54 · 6 answers · asked by ThePerfectStranger 6

or do i HAVE to go through emancipation, or as long as im in a safe enviornment it doesnt matter, as long as im also 16 or older

2006-11-27 03:22:55 · 5 answers · asked by Carly-Bear 3

Someone is sitting at a table sharing a Thanksgiving meal. One family member observes another family member snuggling with her boyfriend. So the family member says to the younger, obviously in love family member, "So, when are you guys getting married?"

That was me. I was rude? You're kidding right? I don't get it....

Please explain....how is this rude?

I was curious....They've been dating for awhile and make a perfect couple....did I miss something??????

2006-11-27 03:17:55 · 15 answers · asked by tikizgirl 4

2006-11-27 03:17:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

After a 12 year gap i have just had my second daughter. I was 18 first time and 30 now. They have the same dad who we live with. It had a bad time with 1st pregnancy ie MIL telling to have abortion and not having much money b/f at uni. This time we have a home and good jobs and this is how i wish it was with my 1st. I have started to resent my eldest and snipe at her all the time which I hate doing. She is so good and I am so proud of her but at the moment she is bringing back lots of memories of the past.I know it's not her fault and i fell so bad but it's how i feel. How can i stop this as it is beginning to break our family apart after we fought so hard to stay together.

2006-11-27 03:07:08 · 16 answers · asked by mummy22 2

2006-11-27 02:52:00 · 25 answers · asked by Optimistic 6

how do you handle a situation where you husband brother's finace is threaten by you. we both have a boys age 2 hers was born before my son i cant handle it anymore i have been in the family for 11 years and she has been in the family for 3 At family functions i feel as though she picks on my son constanting watching his every move she says that he runs a muck and then when she doesnt go to a party she asks if my son ran a muck. is she out of line or am i over reacting as soon as my son is near hers she panics she is so uptight my son can't even hug hers without her telling him not to she is ok when it is just us to a certain degree but in front of one particular cousin who i was once close to and now she is they act different compared to when i am with them when they are by themselves tell me what do you think and what do you do when you can clearly see the lengths she is going to to exclude you make you feel unwelcome says nasty coments towards my son and is competative

2006-11-27 02:37:04 · 24 answers · asked by angel 1

i havent told a lie in forever like 3 years and she dosnt trust me an anything she wont let me carry money any where and on anything that goes wrong in our house she blames me for it and even when i tell her that i didnt do it she blames me and i get grounded i dont know what i should do and i feel horibel

2006-11-27 02:35:02 · 7 answers · asked by t girl 2

has anyone ever been tormented by someone for being gay?
my brother throws things at me all the time for being gayish persuaion....... i hate it....its not just him either...... my grandma also she says its an abombanation to jesus
but jesus loves me still right?
i wouldnt have created me this way to hate me right?
cuz i love him
with everything i have!

2006-11-27 02:29:03 · 11 answers · asked by rudi trudi phoenix gordon 7 2

My older sister and I are chalk and cheese but we do lookalike apart from our weight.
I'm 5'10, used to be a size 18 now a size 12. My sis is 5'8 and used to be a size 8 and she's now a size 16!
She rang yesterday for a natter and in a very blasé way said
"oh my God for the first time In my life I'm fatter than you. How disgusting is that?"
Girls would you be upset or brush it off???

2006-11-27 02:20:59 · 46 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-11-27 02:19:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a single parent to a 5month old baby i dont ever get out as i have no 1 to watch my son and cannot afford childcare. i feel so alone and fthink im going to be like this forever

2006-11-27 02:17:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

if i was her primary care giver and we stayed together i took care all of her business but she never left a will and my name is on her accounts am i legally obligated to divid her money? its saving accounts and cd's with her &my name on them

2006-11-27 02:13:02 · 1 answers · asked by pinky 1

I need to get back at my brother, who is 1 year younger than me. I am 16 years old. He owed me $10 in cash, like promised... and he tried to pay me with quarters, dimes, and nickels. I said I am not accepting it, and took his hat and he took my phone. We got into a fight, and I got my phone back and he got his hat back.

The point is, I got hurt in the fight more than he did because he went straight for my ear, which was later bleeding.

I want to get him back, revenge is sweet... and I wanna get him back GOOD! So tell me what you would do???

2006-11-27 02:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do I do?

2006-11-27 01:57:39 · 6 answers · asked by me 1

2006-11-27 01:56:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recenetly left my husband because we were having problems with fighting 3 weeks out of 4 and with my failure to adjust to being a stay at home mom and having no money of my own to spend. i mean, i hate begging him for money for things as small as cigarettes. i hate having to wait for him to come home just so we can go to the store to get dinner. he never left money in the house and he kept it all on his atm and credit cards.we would get into fights like the last one. it was about me opening a letter that came in the mail. i didn't even mean to cuz i was watching tv and talking to my child whose 4 and needs attention when she wants it. i came to my mom's house but now my 11 year old son and my daughter and myself are living in 1 bedroom and dealing with my sister and her 3 kids and my dad who is on drugs real bad. i want to go home but i don't want to return to the same situation. he calls me names when he gets mad and gets real stupid when he's upset. i feel like i'm going crazy.

2006-11-27 01:46:21 · 6 answers · asked by BABY GIRL 2

I have a lovely boyfriend (I'm 31 he's 27) and we get along fine, weve been seeing each other for a year and we don't live together or anything yet. Neither of us are in any rush to change the situation, but thinking ahead, I have said that I don't think we should 'take things to the next level' unless we can agree on whether or not to have children. I don't want to and he sort of does. I'm afraid that one day he will ask me to have his child and I will have to choose between losing him and losing everything about myself that I value.

He implies that if I did have a kid that he would do all the necessary looking after after the initial bits that only a mother can do. I'm not sure though, that means that I would be responsible for supporting a husband and kids, when I usually struggle just to look after myself.

Everybody I know has kids or wants them and they make me feel like a selfish freak for not wanting them. They say I'll feel different 'when they're my own'. Are they right?

2006-11-27 01:31:34 · 35 answers · asked by SmartBlonde 3

Hi, I've gone through a lot lately (as you'll have probably seen from previous questions!).. my ex-wife is making it pretty clear she doesn't want me to be a part of my daughters life, constantly making things difficult when i try to arrange to see my daughter, not giving me a chance to be 50% parent in decision making and constantly putting her own needs before my daughters. For example, this weekend instead of my "Xmas" with Kianah, my ex-wife has said she wants Kianah to spend 27th onwards with her auntie instead of me, her natural daddy. She's done this through the solicitor so i await the written version. My ex-wife doesn't want to communicate on anything to do with our daughter to me as an adult. I don't want to be with my ex any more, she's moved on and I'm happy for her, but my interests are in my daughter who i love so much its untrue (i travelled 600 miles this weekend to spend quality time with her). Do i seek custody? Kia says she's unhappy being down there away from me.

2006-11-27 01:30:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently started a new job, and I am playing the catch up game on bills. My previous job was a good paying job while they had accounts to work but my hours ended up getting cut way back, so the paychecks dwindled down. Now that I have a new job, I'm making more money, but the bills dont seem to be getting smaller. I want to do something for my kids, at least have something under the tree for them. I'm really depressed about this, but I feel my main priorty should be to get caught up on all these bills. Please help me!

2006-11-27 01:25:33 · 16 answers · asked by Indymom 2

Well i just walked in on mother having a wee, she didnt lock the toilet door! Anyway she was weeing standing up! I thought this was strange so i walked around the front of her a saw that she has a willy! I always thought that she had the same bits as me. I asked her what it was and she said that it was her wee tube, but i saw a willy not a tube!She then ran out the room dancing and spraying wee everywhere! Is it normal for mothers to have boys bits? Has your mother got boys bits? sent

2006-11-27 01:23:31 · 35 answers · asked by Shadow Fletcher 1

Lets start with the beginning. My younger sister had a baby in March. SHe doesn't know who the father is so she and the baby are living with myslef, my mother and little brother. Since the day the baby was born I took care of him. She was healing for two months before she took any action with him. aIt was arranged I would care for the baby while she worked, and she would pay me atleast $150 a month. Now she works 8 hours a day, she will come home and leave with her friends or whatever guy shes into that day without telling me or asking me if its ok. I mean I love my nephew but for 8 months now I have been trapped by her and my mother on taking care of him, and shes a poor mother when she has him. She let him fall in the bath tub and instead of yanking him out immediatly she went to get a towl. Thankfully my brother got him out and helped him breahte through the water in his nose, or we would of lost him. How do I tell her..without hurting her that I am tired of being taken advantage of

2006-11-27 01:21:59 · 8 answers · asked by ephedrinexoverdose 1

Im 8 months pregnant now and the father dissappeared from the word 'pregnant'. He has said from the beginning he cannot have any contact in my childs life but is willing to give me child support, even though we dont talk anymore. I will need the money, but the last thing I want is for him to want access one day and fight me for custody. Does anyone have any suggestions for me to get my son what he deserves, but leave the heartless rat out of our lives?

2006-11-27 01:17:59 · 6 answers · asked by jojobass86 3

My sister in law is driving me to suicide. She is rude to me on the phone and has my husband sticking up for her all the time. She has done everything by the book and has produced lovely boys to carry the family name forward....where as I refuse to be the typical indian daughter and sister in law to their family and cant have kids. my husband treats the boys as his own and is over affectionate towards the sister in law. No one can say a bad thing about her. He hates it. I feel slammed out of his life for the duration of time that we spend together at family functions.

All other times my husband loves me dearly....do you think she has bewitched him? What can i do to make my husband realise that its ME that will be there for him for all his life....NOT HER!

Please help.... its so depressing.

2006-11-27 01:14:01 · 4 answers · asked by stars 3

My Family wants to move to PA but i dont my friends and my real family up here what do i do

2006-11-27 01:12:15 · 13 answers · asked by Dr.Roxas 2

I asked previously whether I should give money or presents to my 15 year old nephew and 13year old niece. The overwhelming majority said money. Now I have another quandry - how much should I give? What would be a reasonable (but not over generous) amount? I suppose I should also give them the same amount?

Trying to work out my Christmas budget.

2006-11-27 00:56:48 · 35 answers · asked by Bush 2

I have 4 - Matt, Hannah, Joe and Lucie

2006-11-27 00:39:24 · 15 answers · asked by Push It 1

My mom has done me wrong so many times. She has finally done something that has crossed the line. My parents are divorced, so my mom dates other men. I live with my dad. Well I was milested and I told my dad. My dad contacted police and it went to court. My mother lied for him saying he didn't do it. She has always chose her boyfriend over me. She always helped him when I needed help the most. I feel that I don't need to love her anymore because she hurt me so much.

2006-11-27 00:35:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have worked together on and off catching rats and so forth and he confessed he liked men and had been caught as a toilet trader in his youth by a wokinham district toilet inspectors.he said it was the rush he enjoyed more like killing his first rat.he promised me not to say anything.i'm now worried he still partakes in these activies whist in a relationship with my mother should i tell he his dirty little secret or keep my promise??

2006-11-27 00:25:16 · 17 answers · asked by THE ENFORCER 1