Family - November 2006

can someone please tell me why my parents always drive men out of my life. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and my parents love him one day and hate him the next. what the hell is wrong with them. first they love him, then he gets in a fight with my brother because he insulted me and my boyfriend didnt like it, so they hate him, then they love him again and always ask when the wedding is, then love, hate, love.now they hate him again becuase my mom overheard a fight we had and said that he shouldnt be talking to me like that. ( she doesnt even know what the fight stemmed from) and it was actually my fight. i purposefully pissed him off because i was in a bad mood but thats not the point. what do i do about my parents? my mom is now saying that she forbids me to get married to him.is there anything i can say to my parents that they would understand? i have to mention that im 21, and i've been dating since high school and every guy was the same case. what do i do?????

2006-11-27 11:54:40 · 7 answers · asked by bar22bie 2

I have a 14 yr old daughter who has low grades in 3 major classes. Not the first time .. she is very moody hates to help out with anything around the house lies about her homework. Punishment does not help.. She does not talk about her feelings. Is mean to her 5 yr old sister and now she is getting interested in boys .What would you do ?

2006-11-27 11:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by highley_nluv 1

Last i saw him is when he went to visit his grandparents in liverpool with his mum, since then the social service took him away from her while there and the family broke up, I cant get him and the social service never updated me or answered my calls about him, its been 8 years now he is 1 his mums name is Margaret if anyone know where he is or where she is plese let me know.. or if you have suggestions of what I could do in this situation. thanks in advance, http://www.eurodatagb.com

2006-11-27 11:46:28 · 16 answers · asked by lamante121 1

2006-11-27 11:46:10 · 5 answers · asked by holdinon259 1

My fiances' step mother is going to be watching our two children when I go back to work between 30-35 hours per week. What should we pay her? We all think of her as the Grandmother so what is fair for a family member to charge?
They are two boys 7 months and 2 years.

2006-11-27 11:44:36 · 6 answers · asked by Nickie N 2

2006-11-27 11:41:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 11:41:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK I AM ON MY BROTHERS ACCOUNT OK! I AM 11 AND I HAVE LIKE 5 PROJECTS THAT ARE LATE LIKE 2 MONTHS LATE AND MY MOM IS MAKING ME TALK WITH MY TEACHER AND HER ABOUT HOW I NEED TO FINISH THEM AND WHY IT IS STOPING ME TO NOT DO THEM AND I GOT ALL F'S ON MY REPORT CARD PLEASE HELP ME!!♥

2006-11-27 11:40:12 · 4 answers · asked by Jacob 2

this is not ment to sound suicidal, but whats it worth to you what it mean to you or do you even care

2006-11-27 11:35:57 · 9 answers · asked by lexy 2

My parents divorced after I was born, and I grew up without a father. I never got to see him or anything. I'm 21 now. I feel like I've been cheated. Is it normal to still be angry after all these years?

2006-11-27 11:35:57 · 27 answers · asked by Pauly 1

2006-11-27 11:27:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

im buying a house what do i look for so the person can bring the house down and how do i give it a good check whe inspecting it r.s.a.p. thanks...

2006-11-27 11:21:33 · 5 answers · asked by lenny b 1

a skitsophrenic is what she was diagnosed as years back. Now that she is diabled with her knees i felt sorry and let her move in. two women can not survive in the same house and i have taking her to see her doctor. need some help here

2006-11-27 11:19:52 · 4 answers · asked by Miz Lady 2

My sister as been acting more like a selfish idiot everyday now and I can't deal with it anymore. She has been causing everybody in the house trouble. She lies so much its an everyday thing now. And she eats everything in the house and does nothing to help out. Her excuse (she really said this) is that she doesn't like people telling her to clean because she doesn't like to. My parents are getting divorced and everyone doesn't want to deal with her crap any more. (It isn't because of the divorce because she has been acting like this her whole life.) She even downed a 2 liter bottle of coke in like 3 hours then said she didn't when its obvious that she was the only on who did. She'll also do things like eat everything in a box or bottle and put it back empty. To make things worse is that she yells and hits my dogs. Today she was litterally yelling and cursing at my dog to eat. She is a very timmid dog that my dad found as a stray a few years ago so of course she's not going to eat.

2006-11-27 11:17:17 · 16 answers · asked by vannalascano1987 3

When my parents divorced, I was about 3 and never had a relationship with my biological father. My mother remarried when I was 5 and I consider my stepfather my father.

I was always made to feel like something was wrong with me when I would inquire about seeing my father. Neither my mom or stepdad could understand why I would want to. They actually got mad at me, and acted as if I was ungrateful for all they had done for me because I wanted to see him.

Isn't there an innate desire to see your biological parents? Is it wrong for parents to try to keep their children from seeing their biological parents because it is hurtful for them to relive those old memories?

My maternal grandmother told me I shouldn't want to see them because my paternal grandmother was living with a man and my paternal grandfather was a drunken adulterer. Should that keep me from seeing my biological father - warts and all?

2006-11-27 11:13:04 · 13 answers · asked by SuzieQ92 3

We don't have animals in the house. Neice is going through a divorce and her dad says the dog is her only friend right now. It goes everywhere with her. My husband told them it is alright. I am NOT happy about the situation at all. Am I being mean? I feel bad but, we have many nice things that are not replaceable. What do I do?

2006-11-27 11:11:15 · 9 answers · asked by juzbcuz 3

I am 22 and engaged to a girl that I met on True.com. We met 2 months ago. Yes, I know that this is fast, but we have both prayed about this and we know that this is right. The problem is my parents. They are seperated and do not get along very well. They are furious with me for being engaged. It is not only the fact that we met online. They think she is a loser and has no ambition because she had to drop out of high school to take care of herself. She is 19 and she plans to get her GED. They are also mad because she has no drivers license. She is getting that, in fact we went to the highway patrol office just today and got her a study book. My mom is telling my dad things that are not true about my fiancee. For example she told him that she told her that education means nothing to her. She never said anything remotely close to this. I was sitting right there when this supposedly happened.

2006-11-27 10:58:21 · 5 answers · asked by TexasCowboy 2

My mom was just diagnosed with cancer and has only a short time to live. I would like to know some songs that would be good to play at her funeral to let everyone know how much me and my brother and sisters felt about her. We are a very close family and we are going through a very hard time. Does anyone know some really good Mom songs?

2006-11-27 10:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by LAWDOGG 2

2006-11-27 10:45:40 · 4 answers · asked by DIFI1993 3

2006-11-27 10:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by bustylaroo99 4

My boyfriend has a son by a hispanic/native amerc. girl his son just turned 1yr old in august. We used to keep him all the time till she started calling the police saying we kidnapped him and stuff. Now when my boyfriend tries to go see him, he'll knock on the door but no answer even tho he hears sounds and ppl in there no one will answer what can he do in order to see his son? The mother is on drugs and her mother (the grandmother) is mental (for real not lying) she gets a mental check and everything.

2006-11-27 10:25:37 · 11 answers · asked by Kris 2

My brother is 13 and he is very bad. He threatened to kill me and my mom at night by cutting our throats only becuase my mom wouldnt let him get his other ear periced. He beat up my dad because my dad told him to do his homework and he didnt want to sooo my dad kinda shoved him to sit down and he went nuts. He kicked and punched my dad like 15 times over it. Then he ran away from home for about an hour. He hits me and beats me up all the time. Even how many times my parents tell him not to hit girls. My parents just sperated like a couple days and he has gotton worse. He gets F's all the way down his report card besides the subject health. He through a knife at my door just because i wouldnt go in his room to see that he put lights around it. This isnt half the things that happened. I really dont know what to do but ive been told to have my mom send him away to get help but is that the best thing to do? I mean well i just wish i could wake up with my brother saying "I love you".

2006-11-27 10:23:49 · 19 answers · asked by bananaboo517 1

These are not 5 and 6 year old kids. These kids are 12 and 14 years old. Now Iam merely saying that to go to someones home and eat 4 to 5 boxes of cereal in a weekend with no reguard for the other 3 teenagers that actually live in the house is rude. It's not just the cereal it's what ever is there IT'S LIKE THE TAZ MAMIA DEVIL spins threw my house when they come over I have found sandwiches with one bit taken out of them in the garage whole glasses of milk just sitting a toilet full of cereal like they made the bowl and just poured it in the toliet.water bottles with maybe three sips taken out of it. I cook a meal and oh Daddy I don't want that I want the pizza in the frezzer or I want a tuckey sanwich silly stuff. The cereal was just the tip of the Ice burg. No I'm not A wicked step mother I just see gouching,and greedyness going on and my husband does not.If we did not have the agreement that we have I would not be bitching I'am responsible for the grocery bill and 1500.00 a month 4

2006-11-27 10:18:42 · 3 answers · asked by sunshine919273 1

How do you tell someone who doesn't have a job & gets into trouble w/ the law to leave your house? My father doesn't pressure my half-brother about it to much. My dad would rather do bills or balance his checkbook than confront my half-bro.

2006-11-27 10:12:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am totally desparate. I am a single mom raising 5 children in huntsville alabama. My children and i are in need of a vehicle. I have been packing myself and my children in a 91 honda accord which is a safety hazard seeing that it only seats 5 and were putting 6 including car seats in the vehicle. Well it broke down last week and can't afford to reapir. I thought about public assistance but its just not enough. I don't have any real support from the fathers and the system here is not designed to help. :>(

I am probably going out on alimb but if any one knows of someone who would be willing to donate a vehicle (running) to us please let me know asap. Believe me if i had the money to repair the vehicle that i have or buy another one i would. We are really in need of a blessing. If you read this email and can do nothing..... please pray for us.

Ps. I tried Ways to work located here and they gave me 89 tercel 6 people 4 buckets seats. ?????

Thanks Godbless

2006-11-27 10:12:19 · 2 answers · asked by daphne_fletcher 2

My fiance' mother is driving me crazy.. I am sorry to say but she is a back stabber. She treated her son "my fiance'" like crap since he was little up until now. She and I used to get along pretty good until she got into my face last year and that was the last straw for her I don't call her as much or do anything with her daughters. Her daughters are just like their mother all they have on their mind is sex and wrestling and drinking beer and they are 18&20. They both lie to cause problems. His mother came down for thanksgiving and I had gotten sick well she told my fiance' granfather how I should get off my *** and do the dishes when I didn't even hardly eat anything.. when they come down eat us out of house and home and use every dish and silver ware in the place
use 1 cup then get another. So my question is how can I get her to understand that she needs to come to me and talk about if she has problems. I don't mind doing the dishes I would have done them but I was sick so plz help

2006-11-27 09:42:25 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 2

I was trying to help my mom with putting pictures on a disk and then she couldn't get her exact way so I tried letting her and it still wasn't good enough.I just said fine you do it and got up.I wasn't going to talk to her and a few seconds after I quit talking to her she grabbed my arm and dug her nails into my arm where theres now dead skin.She pushed me towards the computer and chair.She told me I'm just like my dad who was and alcholic and druggie.She told me I needed medicine when she takes as much as she can for EVRYTHING.She thinks because her life was bad everyone elses has to be and even my step dad says so.If I'm not good enough for her why dosen't she just kill me or give me away like she does everything else?

2006-11-27 09:39:08 · 20 answers · asked by Shelby Victoria 2

I lost my dad to a heart attack in June, and I'm looking for some songs about losing your dad to help me in the grieving process.

Any help is appreciated and thank you in advance.

2006-11-27 09:35:59 · 17 answers · asked by Crazyjester9 6

Is a father required to continue with child support after the child turns 18, if the child goes to college? If the other parent opts to pay for college, is the father required to pay half (if the mother doesn't apply for student loans)???

2006-11-27 09:27:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so when I was 10 my mother passed away. And I had to come live with my dad and step mom.I hadn't seen my dad in over 5 yrs. and i had never met my step mom. We got along in the beginning. And as time went by its like the likingness just went away. Now all there is, is arguing and everybody being stressed out and ppl trying to avoid other ppl just to be less stressed. Now my grandma has lived with us over a yr. And thats just added to are problems. it likes nothings good enough for anybody i've tried talking about it to them but they don't even let me finish. And if your going to say just try talking to them again don't even bother b/c i wont. I get yelled at. Now i'm on anti-depr. and my dad says i'm just on them b/c i want to fit in with the cliche at school. I'm 16 now and i don't even have close to the normal life of a 16 yr. old. I don't know what to do! I just want to die. I hate it here. I've tried everything to make it better and its just not good enough. Can sum 1 help me!!

2006-11-27 09:25:40 · 3 answers · asked by Shaynee 2