I was trying to help my mom with putting pictures on a disk and then she couldn't get her exact way so I tried letting her and it still wasn't good enough.I just said fine you do it and got up.I wasn't going to talk to her and a few seconds after I quit talking to her she grabbed my arm and dug her nails into my arm where theres now dead skin.She pushed me towards the computer and chair.She told me I'm just like my dad who was and alcholic and druggie.She told me I needed medicine when she takes as much as she can for EVRYTHING.She thinks because her life was bad everyone elses has to be and even my step dad says so.If I'm not good enough for her why dosen't she just kill me or give me away like she does everything else?
2006-11-27 09:39:08 · 20 answers · asked by Shelby Victoria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She will say "There are alot of kids out there that would be greatful to have parents like us" but I'm glad they don't have parents like her because everyday I'd rather be homeless or with a different family than with her.
2006-11-27 10:04:57 · update #1
your mom got a problem, sit down and talk to her
:> peace
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2006-11-30 19:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is not going to kill you or get rid of you because you are her daughter and she loves you. She might not be able to handle alot of things so therefor she doesnt know how to love a person in the way that they deserve. Im sure shes been through alot,,and im sure your dad did number on her. Just try and get along with her until you are old enough that you can leave. Be a better person than she is and love her uncondtionally. Shes probably been through alot in her life and just dont know how to deal with certain things.
2006-11-27 09:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother doesn't want you dead, those comments are caused by whatever she's taking. It sounds like she has a lot of baggage and could benefit from some intensive therapy. Good Luck. p.s. the next time she hits you, take a picture of the marks and press charges on her. Maybe she just needs a rude reality check.
2006-11-27 09:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your mom is a prescription drug addict and that causes irrational behavior. Your stepdad and you need to put her in rehab so she can eventually get better.
If you have relatives you can live with if she refuses to stay placed in rehab then go ahead and do that. The important thing is that you know your worth more than what she is pushing on you and to get away from or change the situation.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-27 09:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people that don't deserve to be parents. It sounds like ur mother is one of them. If you are able to, find elsewhere to live.
There are stuff that our parents put us through that can affect us very much. And hoping she will change, could be a poss lost cause. It like the saying "you can't teach a old dog new tricks". If
you can leave your home, going through counseling can help mean while ur there. Good luck !
2006-11-27 10:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Fiesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw sweetie, don't let her get to you like that. People say and do things that they don't exactly mean when they're angry. I know it hurts, but you just have to give it some time. She'll come around. She might not give you a straightforward apology, but you'll know she's sorry. I used to go through stuff like this all the time with my mom when I was in high school. It's okay to cry, just don't let it control you. It'll get better.
2006-11-27 09:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by miss_slyik_kiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a horrible situation. Yopu should move out if you can, so that she doesn't suck the life out of you forever. I think she has issues and regrets with her past and how her life turned out, and she's looking for someone to blame. Don't let her get to you. It may hurt hearing those things coming from your own mother, but you know in your heart that none of it is your fault. She loves you deep in her heart...she's your mom! She's just extremely confused, and taking it out on you.
2006-11-27 09:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 1 800 621 hope and leave immediately to a homeless shelter. Your mom is abusive and you do not deserve that. My mom is the same way, they just dont make good mother like they used to. You did nothing to cause your abusive mother's actions, and you do not have to stay around her and be her punching bag. GET AWAY FROM HER ASAP AND LOVE YOURSELF!
2006-11-27 09:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by ?girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, it's not your fault she is a bad mother and doesn't know how to cope. she obviously has some mental issues going on and needs help. just remember you aren't doing anything wrong. maybe you should seek out some type of counseling on how to deal with her. if you are still a minor, seek help from the school guidance counselors.
2006-11-27 09:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom has big problems. You should know that you are not the cause of them. Do you have a relative you could stay with? You need to realize that you aren't supposed to be treated this way. I will pray for you.
2006-11-27 09:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she does that, just smile at her. Keep smiling and when she says "Why the heck are you smiling?" just say "Because I love you. I'm so glad I have you here, even if we're fighting or you're upset with me. I'm just glad you're in my life." See what happens. Should tug at the heart strings pretty good!
2006-11-27 09:46:44 · answer #11 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋