My Family wants to move to PA but i dont my friends and my real family up here what do i do
2006-11-27 01:12:15 · 13 answers · asked by Dr.Roxas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hide in the woods untill they're gone, and start a new life with the small woodland creatures. hint: chipmunks are absolutely d-lish
2006-11-27 01:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not certain what you mean by "real family" being where you are at the moment...depending how old you are dictates whether you are expected to go or not.
Old enough to be on your own, survive by yourself and take care of yourself...then it's your decision to stay or not as likely you've reached the age of consent.
If you have no source of income, no place to live and no one to take care of your needs, i.e. food, clothing, med bills etc., then you really have no option but to follow your family.
Sometimes when things happen, they end up being far better than we feared they would be. PA could uncover a whole level of life you never would have been able to experience otherwise and might have missed out on some incredible times, friends and events shaping your life.
Don't simply refuse to listen to the family's reasons for the move, investigate on your own...check out places that give you info on the place you are suppose to move to. Find out what might be there for YOU. Find out or discuss further WHY your family feels moving to PA is a good thing for all of you. Compromises such as making arrangements to come back and visit with friends and relatives where you are now might be a viable way to keep your connections going here. Besides, the net is at your fingertips which means so are all or most of your good friends.
We moved 3 times in 3 years and for a few months we even had no address at all while we looked for housing...with 5 kids you'd think we'd have been in total chaos, instead these kids decided to enter into the entire thing as tho it were an adventure that years later they will be certain to tell their own children about (needless to say they will probably embellish it to make it sound either harder or better than it was depending upon what they expect to impress upon their kids :)
But the idea here is to not let this shatter your life...it really isn't meant to do this...instead, it's meant to enhance who you are, give you experiences others might never have a chance to take and you very well might find some very good friends to make at the end of that move.
Good luck and start planning your adventure...because that's exactly what it is.
2006-11-27 01:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are. If you are 18 or over, then moving is your decision. Of course, if you don't move you have to be able to take care of yourself, have a place to live,etc. I grew up in a military family and we moved every 2 years...it was hard but I learned to make new friends and to always be the new person. Now as an adult I'm glad I had these experiences. They made me a better person and a more accepting person. If you have to move look at it as a new adventure. A new place to discover and new friends to make. You can still keep in touch with your friends and maybe even visit from time to time.
2006-11-27 03:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well unless you are old enough to live on your own etc theres not an awful lot you can do.
maybe stay with other family members for a while and see if you like it where you are without your family? or go and move but it give it a while see if you settle in make new friends etc and if you are really unhappy then move back to where you are now and live with other family members?
the last thing you should do is be awkward....it may feel like the end of the world but it really isnt :O)
2006-11-27 01:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe that your husband will be offended with you. it will be that he will experience as though you need to have confided this sense to him a lot previously. you do not say how lengthy you've been married. yet i ought to very almost imagine that you're literally not newly weds. less than the circumstances i think very almost particular that in case you provide your husband 1/2 a threat he and also you'd be able to paintings something out. He if each person already is conscious the placement the position I stay is amazingly almost 12 hours faraway from my abode. I even don't have any family individuals closer than 3 States away. yet now that i'm retired I have time to flow again for visits and stay in contact.
2016-10-16 10:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by knudsen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your family, no friend is worth losing your own family.
2006-11-27 01:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't support yourself the only choice is to move with them and friends will still be friends, don't worry you will loose them only if you try hard to keep them
2006-11-27 01:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age. If your of age get out and get a job pay your own bills and get your own place.
2006-11-27 01:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not old enough to do on your own you have no choice. It will not be as bad as you think.
2006-11-27 01:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like boxes? Boxes make good homes until it rains...
2006-11-27 01:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋