My wife's son has a long history of drinking and drugs. He is a charmer. He tells his mom what she wants to hear even if it means looking her in the face and lieing. Although, he tells his mom he doesn't do it anymore he will turn around in the same conversation and brag about doing it. He has little or no morals, value, or integrety. He has no concept of responsibilty or accountability. He and his mom think that what happened in the past should stay in the past and be forgotten. I believe that you past actions defind who and what you are. But his actions don't stay in the past. He keeps doing it. His mom will not correct him or even tell him he is wrong. I get the riot act if I say anything. He floats from job to job. His mom will let him bring his girl friends over to our house and spend the night with them. I draw the line here and do not let that happen. His moms thinks I am bashing him. He is 30 years old. Am I the bad guy his mom makes me to be?
2006-11-27
03:26:54
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He doesn't actually live with us, but he visits. He has a different live in every so often and I won't let them sleep together in our house. He has ruined his credit so he can't afford a house of his own. He says he is going to marry every live in but never does. She eventually gets tired of the empty lies and kicks him out.
2006-11-27
03:36:01 ·
update #1
Thanks for the support guys. His mom is blind to what I trying to do. I only want him to grow up and start being a man. I tell his mom to be more of a mother than his friend. She thinks unconditional love is letting him do as he pleases. I believe love sometimes means saying "NO".
2006-11-27
03:39:30 ·
update #2