Family - September 2006

one day i was driving my car and drinking and drugged so i felt that i hit a car and when i woke up my mother told me that my dad died in a car accident and i found that i was the one who killed him.
i cant live tell me what shall i do ?

2006-09-03 00:35:08 · 19 answers · asked by xXblacknwhiteXx 2

2006-09-03 00:25:00 · 14 answers · asked by turtle girl 7

I want to have fun with it, so how should i wake him up?

2006-09-03 00:23:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello feel crap for asking this feel like a terrible big sister..... my little brother moved into our one bedroom flat over 7wks ago moved in with me and my husband (were just married 7 wks ago) he had brought trouble to our door a couple of times and rang us 4 help because he has been fighting last night it was a family engagement party and he got blocked, embarrased me nearly smashed cups and all ive ended up digging him in the face then he nearly started a fight with another guest at party. He shows me nor my husband any respect hes selfish............Wot should we do?

2006-09-02 23:49:10 · 34 answers · asked by Angela 1

He apparently knows where I live and work and knows I 'm married .But I don't know how to take this .I have heard he wants to see me.If I do meet him if I do I 'll take me husband with me.

2006-09-02 22:40:50 · 12 answers · asked by canadarikki 2

our son is 10mnths and keeps waking up at night having nightmares and we dont know how we can stop them. can anybody help

2006-09-02 22:36:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-02 22:13:36 · 4 answers · asked by vnweze 2

And do your parents or parent drive you insane? Do you end up being the parent to them, reminding them of things like turning off the stove or not doing something stupid with a knife and being the responsible one?

2006-09-02 22:10:36 · 20 answers · asked by fly boy 3

I know that for GUYS it's perfectly fine to look at porn blah blah blah, but just a while ago I heard suggestive noises coming from the computer room in my house, so I walked in thinking it was my dumbass brother turning up his porn but instead it was my cousin who is 13. She appeared to be doing something to herself and well I was mortified. (Cause it's illegal as well as embarassing). So she quickly explained and got the hell out, and I saw that there were a whole bunch of Adult websites in the history. I know that she had been spending late nights in the computer room, but I always assumed that she was Myspacing or something. I'm worried about this not because she's um touching herself but more like because this behavior had become somewhat of a habit for her. How can I SUBTLELY stop this.

2006-09-02 22:02:54 · 28 answers · asked by LalaLola 2

I wrote this letter to my mom, do you think that I should send it?

"There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go." ~Author Unknown



I have been sitting here staring at that, and contemplating what I want to say. I think I want to say goodbye. The time has come, my burden has been lifted. I will grieve but not for my loss, I will grieve what I never had. This has been a long time coming. I will be ok, I will survive. There will be yet another band-aid on my heart, but it won't be because of you, it will be because of the person you never could be. I have learned to stop searching. I have learned that no matter who I am, it will never be enough for you. The time has come for me to be me. The time has come that I start looking out for me and mine, to start protecting them from the anguish that always will be. I am ready to move on. I am ready to heal. I am ready to stop seeking validation. The only validation I need is mine. I will never be free if I continually seek it. I will never know the why's or the why not's, and am done searching. Today it stops, I have reached the point of finality. I am ready to close the door and move on. I am ready to let you go and move on. I am ready to move forward with my exsistance. I am ready to redefine myself.

I am done protecting you. I will no longer be humiliated by who you are or what you have done to me. I am going to face everything head on. I learned something, I learned that what has been done doesn't define who I am. I shouldn't be embarassed by what I have been through. I shouldn't be ashamed, I didn't do it. I guess I thought that by pretending it didn't happen, I could change you. I thought I could change the past. But alas, I can not. I can only change who I am today. I am chosing to win. I am chosing to survive.

I became a better person in spite of you. I survived in spite of you. I was a victim by chance, now I am a fighter by choice. Everything you did made me that much stronger. Now, I am letting you go for this is goodbye. I wish you all the best. I hope that someday you find peace. I forgive you. I don't say those words for you, I say them for me. I refuse to let this consume me one more day. I refuse to walk around with this weight on my shoulder and weigh me down. Like I said, I grieve not for you, but for who you couldn't be. I will no longer grieve for who I couldn't be, today I start to become that person.

Goodbye. Forever.

2006-09-02 21:36:04 · 24 answers · asked by jmlmmlmll 3

May be she did it for fear of going with her sins,but she has put me in hell of a situation.Worse I believe her. I just look like my Dad's friend sister(my Aunt).I can ask for DNA test but I fear I will disrupt everybody's peace and creat the biggest scence in the whole town. Moreover my Dad and my real Dad are still best friends and the wife is my godmother and everybody seems at peace with everything except I....

2006-09-02 21:23:22 · 23 answers · asked by Melinda 1

auntie got a younger ex boyfriend who visited. before they left, aunt gave a goodbye kiss to me on the cheek. then the ex boyfriend also gave a goodbye kiss to me but his lips landed on my lips!!! what was that!?!? how do you deal with that moment???

2006-09-02 20:23:10 · 13 answers · asked by ♬müsic-to-yoür-ears♬ 2

hi i come from a strict family. They are constantly trying to take control of my life and use emotional blackmail if i don;t do what they want or say. for example, i am not muslim or hindu, so don't have to have an arranged marriage. but last year they forced me to meet up with a girl they want me to get to know and eventually marry. and said if i didn't do it, they will disown me from the family. also said that if a particular elderly family member dies and i don't get married before then, they will have nothing to do with me. what do u think i should do? i am a grown adult and live at home, work and also don't have freedom to do things. if i defy them, they then get very controlling and aggressive (not violent tho). i feel trapped, no one understands what i'm going through. it makes me stressed.

2006-09-02 20:04:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I absolutely am sick of the way I live my life, mainly were I live is the problem. I have been saving and preparing myself to move out of my parents house once I turn 18 in a few months. I am so ready to move out and begin learning for myself and such, but I do have a small part of me that i believe will dearly miss my parents, and my brother. I will be at the other side of the U.S, about an 8 hour flight away. I just love them so much, and feel that im going to miss something when i leave, and one day i will see them, and they will be much older, then after that, i will be at their funerals, wishing with all the world that i would have spent more time with them. I don't spend much time with them now because they are both working and when their not working, i am working. So are these feelings normal for a guy, and will they go away. Should i stay with them or move out and begin the process of growing up? i feel so depressed about it... and btw, the distance isnt much of an option

2006-09-02 20:04:23 · 13 answers · asked by help! 1

over a simple harmless question.
I normally am not prone to snittiness, but had a nerve wrenching day, and just snapped.
I can't make an excuse for the incident being as I don't feel it can be justified.
This person always treats me like platinum and I feel about as low as the soles of a snail's shoes.

2006-09-02 19:59:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Having a surprise party for mybfriend. Dont get along with his bro and wife. Not a question of being polite they have really abused us financially and been down right rude most of the time. Mother in law would be upset if they did not come. What do I do?

2006-09-02 19:51:33 · 9 answers · asked by unknown 1

If you’re on Yahoo Answers....does that mean that you come from a dysfunctional family? What are the characteristics for dysfunctional families now? The reason I ask is because...we are on here asking questions that we should've known from our families growing up. We are lost, so we have to resort to asking questions anonymously.

2006-09-02 19:29:01 · 10 answers · asked by diaz276 3

should i stay home or sneak out and go party??

2006-09-02 19:27:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay here is the scenario....me and my girl were at McDonalds. She asked me what I was getting and I told her I was going to get a quarter pounder with cheese and some fries. She said "ooh that sounds good, i want to get that too." Then I told her no because it was too fattening for her and she needed to keep her trim figure. Then she was like "but you are getting it, why can't I?". Then I said because I am a guy and it is okay if we gain weight but if a girl gains weight it isn't attractive. Plus guys have higher metabolisms than girls do. I told her she was my little barbie girl and I wanted her to stay that way. Most of the time she understands my logic but she was on PMS and started pouting about it. Kudos to me for still paying for lunch. I ordered her a salad. Then while we were eating I told her that she could have a burger and fries for her birthday but she said she wanted Olive Garden! Women!! Anyways her friend found out and said I was a jerk. Am I wrong here?

2006-09-02 19:16:40 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to stop child support and ask the non-custodial parent to relenquish his rights. Today, my children met their father for the first time in 2 years (he was incarcerated). He brought his girlfriend with him and she tried to start a confrontation with me. He did not say much during this visit. Then she told my daughter that after she straightens the mess out (talking about me) they will get her and her brother really soon. She bragged about her home with three acres and the baby she is carrying. I feel as if she is the one who is going to put me through a lot of drama. My ex-is a drug user, woman beater, criminal, and he manipulates situations to his advantage. I think if he cared about the children he would have came by himself, but he brought the MOUTHPIECE instead. I need some advice. Oh, they threw the holier than thou routine on me, too. He has been running in and out of their lives and I just want to stop the madness for their sake. HELP!

2006-09-02 19:04:55 · 13 answers · asked by Safire 2

Noisy neighbor-loud music- what to do? just gave birth to a baby and my meighbors plays loud music all the time. I want to avoid an argument.

2006-09-02 19:00:39 · 11 answers · asked by christina7060 1

im a guy that wants a kid so bad so i can be a father but how can i get 1 and its not mine????? this there any websites????? HELP!!!!!!!

2006-09-02 18:34:39 · 14 answers · asked by assjoyed 2

i have a older sister who calls me 5 or 6 times a day you cant talk to her on the phone 5 minutes with out her smarting off about something. like yesterday we were discuss our soap opera and she get mad at me and starts yelling at me because one of the cast members left the show. no how on earth is that my fault lol. she is so bad i cant stand visiting with her at all and i dread picking up the phone. how can i point out how stupid she is acting or better yet how do i just get her to leve me a lone with out hurting her feelings. she freaks out easy. i believe she has a mental disorder and needs help but when i say something the entire family gets pissed at me

2006-09-02 18:30:50 · 12 answers · asked by henna 2

Do women who become mothers become bad tempered and moody? Do they have short tempers? Is there a dramatic change?

2006-09-02 18:25:34 · 17 answers · asked by Wonder 2

Uncle? Cousin? What?

2006-09-02 18:22:39 · 17 answers · asked by Garrett P 2

Are there any single parents who have returned to school and made life better emotionally, financially for you and your children after experienceing drama in your life. I Care to share your story? Bills are one thing but the drama from my children fathers, the new boyfriend, my deadbeat live in father are all people in my life disrespecting and my home values and beliefs is driving me crazy .

2006-09-02 17:56:53 · 15 answers · asked by nene 3

2006-09-02 17:50:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-02 17:45:07 · 6 answers · asked by nikke m 1

2006-09-02 17:35:16 · 28 answers · asked by chutani121 2

2006-09-02 17:34:30 · 27 answers · asked by chutani121 2