Family - September 2006

My husband and I get along really well, I have a son he's not his dad but has known my son since he was 3 he's now 13 my son asks to get football scores on the radio in the car sometimes he lets him but if my hubby cant wait 5 minutes he says bad luck it's taking too long if my son answers back and says its ok for you to get yours when you want to my husband says don't chat back or your grounded, so not fair so when I step in there is an argument, my son kicks a baloon in another room but my husband can hear it and tells him to stop, it's not like he's kicking a football inside this sort of thing happends all the time and then there is arguments I might sound like I'm sulking but I don't get flowers or b'day presents from him but he does have good points he takes my son to cricket and knocks off work early to pick him up from school and often cooks dinner I know to take the good with the bad but they are big issues my husband doesnt think we need counceling

2006-09-03 18:07:48 · 10 answers · asked by Nicky 3

does anyone care about people like me who has an abusive boyfriend but has tried everything and anything to move on but hes to controlling and to abusive, does anyone care that i grew up in foster care was raped and molested and even touched by my own foster parents my real father before he died before i went into foster homes and my real mom to this day tells me im worthless and was a rape baby? does anyone care that i can hardley afford to eat? that everyday i have to ask for money from people and even pay 10 dollars just to use this computer for resources? does anyone care that i think i should die because i have no life, and i am usally a nanny but since i have no way to get to california they wont hire me, i have to have a current address and a phone number i dont even have that, what should i do? and why dont people care for someone like me? im worthless and alot of people tell me im pretty but so what i just want to die, so maybe someone will respond with a good response.

2006-09-03 18:01:25 · 29 answers · asked by DIFFERENT 1

I have a bad feeling about my brother's friend, but my brother is so into him it's hard to even think about approaching the topic with my bro. what should i do. i think the guy is a gold digger and exerts too much influence on my bro's life. my bro is older than i am, and still sees me as his lil sis (that helps!) He seems completely sold on the guy and believes whatever crap he tells him to believe and do. he trusts him a lot a lot, i don't know why...what should i do?

2006-09-03 17:50:58 · 8 answers · asked by Luki 1

I have an 8-year-old child; no matter what i say to her she does everything the opposite
When she is grounded to her room she comes out 50 times. When I tell her to pick up a toy she ignores me. When she is told she can’t eat a certain thing she sneaks into it. When told stay in the house she goes outside. I don’t know if she has ADHD. I don’t want to medicate her. I know it’s not a sugar problem. She doesn't eat or drink much sugar except in Kool-Aid drink and bread, which I know, has sugar. She disobeys everyone not just me and disrespect everyone. My oldest (age 11) just tries to act like she is equal to adults, my fault there she was around adults more than kids till age 3. Schools have this policy about only 10 days absents so we can’t get her counseling weekly. They said excused or unexcused doesn't matter. Don’t have regular school councilors either. I have a younger child who is disabled as well. I’m going nuts. No church help or family helps either. Husband works allot.

2006-09-03 17:46:51 · 14 answers · asked by angelchele 3

ok, i kno some people mite not understand, but when ur in a quarrel with a family member (most likely ur sibling) u HATE it when they say something insulting and then go 'I CANT HEAR YOUUUUUUU' when you try to say something back. its REALLY annoying.
so if anybody has anything i cud say back to him? something witty and intelligent that wud make him regret saying that?
thnx!!

2006-09-03 17:26:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

They told my sister she can't do anything until they have a legal paper that says they need to be brought back. They also told her she could put fliers up but how???!!!We live in Texas and he took them to Celaya, Guanajuato!! They don't want to bring them back but they're American and shouldn't be over there. Were could I go online to contact Mexican newspapers to put up a missing children's ad??? What do I do??? Where could I go to locate agencies that help find missing kids?

2006-09-03 17:24:17 · 17 answers · asked by Mirage 4

I tried getting help from Department of human services and they are no help. They say that my husband makes to much money. he only gets 19,999 a year and it is four of us. They don't count that we have our own house and that we have bills to pay. That don't matter to them. In matter of fact when I went back up there I was told that they don't go by if you have a disabled person in the house. We have so much going wrong with this house it is unbelieveable. My mother told me that she is going to nominate my family for extreme home make over, but someone stole our camcorder and I had to replace it. I know there is no guareentee for us to be chosen because we live in detroit and detroit is not chosen for anything. But we need to get this house in order. The foundation in the basement is cracking because of the trees and the plumbing is messed up. I can't work because whenever my son is in the hospital i am going to be there for him. Last year my baby son had surgery to.

2006-09-03 17:23:39 · 9 answers · asked by sweetlee725 2

2006-09-03 17:18:08 · 22 answers · asked by Jen be bitchin 1

any suggestions?

2006-09-03 17:17:53 · 12 answers · asked by terryshawn1975 2

See this is how it is. My eldest son has hydrocephalus (water on the brain) which requires a shunt. Within the past 10 months he has had 9 surgeries. He also has epilepsy, asthma, and ADAH. Now with his epilepsy he sleeps in the same room with me, his father and baby brother. We can't afford to get the house equipped with items to fit his disability. So his mattress is on the floor surrounded by pillows. He can't sleep by himself because over a year ago he had a bad seizure and fail out of his bed and hit his head. If I did not take a bath room break we would have never knew. He is getting older now and want his privacy. He can't take a bath by him self because he might have a seizure in the tube. So I have to be in there with him and he feels so uncomfortable with that. He keeps telling me he want his own room with his brother and monster trucks. I keep telling him it will happen when his brother is old enough to tell when he is having a seizure. What can we do? need help

2006-09-03 17:08:58 · 9 answers · asked by sweetlee725 2

be honest.

2006-09-03 17:07:20 · 14 answers · asked by tenstrike 2

2006-09-03 17:02:25 · 10 answers · asked by mollysxs 1

2006-09-03 17:00:59 · 13 answers · asked by mollysxs 1

My parents went on a trip and for a month were out. I did what I regret, joined bad crowds, was about t get in seriuos trouble (I didn't). Mom came 2 weeks ago and got to know what I did. I know I messed up, but though mom is treating me with love, she's going a bit overboard w/ my punishment. I only go out with her. Cell phone, internet and friends are controlled. although I can swim on wednesdays, fun only on weekends and with some restrictions. Shes controlling my clothes, only nice shirts over a bra (this will be forever) At night I stay home and spend quality time w/ mom, when we talk about life, right and wrong. This is not that bad, I know I was sidetracked, but such restrictions suck. And since mom wants me full of activities, I'm taking a culinary course. I complained, but mom was inflexible. I hate this course. Tthere are "homeworks", so I spend good part of my free time including saturday mornings in the course or in the kitchen wearing a cute apron, oh!. for one month more

2006-09-03 17:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 16:56:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have 2 brothers and 3 sisters 1 of my bros moved out and so have one of my sisters.so its me 2 sisters and 1 brother living here at home.im 12 ill soon b 13 sisters r 14 &15 & my bro is 8.my sisters hang out together but i get left out all the time should i just stick 2 b-ing by my self or watt i want 2 b as close 2 my sisters as they r 2 each other but they dont want anything 2 do w/ me.Why watt did i do wrong?!?plez help im looking 4 serious answers this may not seem like a problem 2 anybody else but it is to me!!!!!!!!!!!!THANX!!!!!!!!

2006-09-03 16:54:14 · 9 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4

Hi all,

I could really use some input. In our culture, the bride's family pays for the engagement party, while the groom's family pays for the wedding.

My family threw a large (250 ppl) engagement party at an upscale hotel. His family had $$$ set aside to pay for our wedding, as they have money set aside for their other child who is not yet married. The $$$ was in an account that we had access to. They told us to use whatever we needed to pay for the wedding, and that whatever we didn't use on the wedding would be ours for a down payment on a home.

Well, we were careful and ended up using only about half of the money in the account. It's been 6 months, and his parents haven't said anything about the rest of the money. My husband doesn't want to ask them about it, since they always complain about how their business isn't doing great; he feels guilty, esp. since we are now making our own $$. I see it as a gift, and that it doesn't matter. Help!!!

2006-09-03 16:45:49 · 9 answers · asked by mangopuppy 3

We JUST got the BIG bottle of Vanilla Mint, and the kids don't like it!

They will have to suffer, as do I, through this big bottle untill it's gone, but what flavor is best?

2006-09-03 16:38:01 · 6 answers · asked by Craptacular Wonderment 6

the baby but she wants to keep it. she doesnt have any money or nothing!! and her parents are going to kick her out!! im 22 with my own place and job and want to help her i love her any advice??

2006-09-03 16:33:16 · 26 answers · asked by MS. DAISY 2

please no stupity answers be honest thank you

2006-09-03 16:30:38 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3

Ok well first tank you for hearing me call out to u i need seriouse answers only please its so much **** i cant handel well my family has had little problems none as big as this and he always forgot them or just thought we fixed them.And not it came to nite us in the *** my brother he is a wonderful brother dosent hit me or anyone and he has such a big heart but he has had problems that just build up inside and now well things got horrable i love him so much and he just a few hours ago cheaked him self in the hospital and well ill start the story from the begining he had this gf who he cared so much for maybe not love but cared for w/ a passion and she broke up w/ my brother and my brother does have a bit of a drinking problem and he did smoke befor and im not sure if her quit but now all his problems are hitting my family in the face he just got so over welmed that he punched his had threw the walll and started drinking and well now he ended up in the hospital i need comfort and help

2006-09-03 16:28:36 · 12 answers · asked by tiny&proud 2

2006-09-03 16:26:17 · 44 answers · asked by peregrine003 2

Well about a week ago I asked this girl that I really liked out and she rejected me. I was a good boy and was a big christian and responsible person in my community. The night before I asked her out I prayed and prayed for her to like me. That didnt happen. So that I night I said F U to god. Now I am a satanist,I do drugs and have started a gang. This girl really meant a lot to me since she is the first person I ever liked and I summed up a lot courage to do it.

2006-09-03 15:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by ROCK TILL YOU DIE! 2

Ok my grandma just fell acouple of hours ago, and hit her head and was semi consous I am unable to go to the hospital so my mom is keeping me updated. Please if you can say a prayer for her I would greatly appreciate it. I don't think it her time to go she needs to stay around a bit longer I haven't gotton a four generation picture yet because she fell about a month ago and bruised her whole intire face. She's only in her late 80's so please say a small prayer with me. Thanks to all that can.

2006-09-03 15:54:30 · 8 answers · asked by medevilqueen 4

I'm 13, my mom worries a lot about my breasts and don't want boys staring at me.I'm a C cup, so, she makes me wear bras that give much support and no see-through. I agree, but she goes overboard. The bras she makes me wear are at http://www.anita.com/de/en/0,1,104,1478,39236__products-detail.htm They have 4 rows of hooks in the back. Though hey are good quality bras, I don't like them, they are confining and hot. Not the bra a 13 yo would enjoy, right? But I have no way out. I did EVERYTHING I could for her to let me wear other bras, but she didn't back off and no one else succeeded either. She says it's for my best and is out of love. I know, but, don't like those bras. She's nice, we have a wonderful relationship and I'm afraid if I rebel or disobey our relationship can be damaged. Is it worth fighting over this bra thing? Since she wont really change her mind, how can I live with those bras? When it's hot they make me sweat Will my friends tease me If I dont rebel?

2006-09-03 15:50:28 · 22 answers · asked by Amanda 1

Me and my boo have been together for a year and 2 months,and i love him so much that it should be a crime I really do and i am ready to be his wife.I know that it has only been a year and a couple months but I'm ready to tie the knot.So how do I go about popping that question to him before we move to Raleigh?

2006-09-03 15:48:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is going into army and we are having a going away party/birthday for him. i dont know what to get someone who is going in the army. he wont be able to take it with him but i dont want to just buy him booze i want something more sentimental. better still what do i get him when he comes home for a week at christmas only to shoot back off again?

2006-09-03 15:47:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 15:41:28 · 15 answers · asked by oupp30 1

I am having an issue. It's my mother. She NEVER has anything nice to say. Conversations end in tears...MINE. Tonight I mentioned I needed to drop my male friend's laundry to him (A LOAD OF FREAKIN TOWELS!!!) and my mother says "You should have a man like you for YOU, not what you DO for them". Trust! I am not the girl at school who sleeps with the football team so the guys will like her! Input please??

2006-09-03 15:40:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am used to her spitting up formula after she eats, but now she is drooling and occasionally spitting up this clear liquid. It's weird.

2006-09-03 15:32:43 · 8 answers · asked by amyashburn 1