I know that the man is suppose to ask the woman,but i want to ask him to marry me?

Question

Me and my boo have been together for a year and 2 months,and i love him so much that it should be a crime I really do and i am ready to be his wife.I know that it has only been a year and a couple months but I'm ready to tie the knot.So how do I go about popping that question to him before we move to Raleigh?

Answer 1

Go ahead and pop the question...my fiancee was the one to ask me and I will love her forever for asking me.

Answer 2

Talk to him about how much you love him. And, if you truly love him, you will wait until he is ready also. And if he loves you, he will want to marry at the right time...not in a hurry.

Try to slow down. Marriage is a very big decision. Maybe being apart from each other for a time will help you both discover whether you are really meant for each other.

I'm pretty sure you didn't want to hear this..but I do care and I believe rushing into marriage or engagement even is not a good idea.

Answer 3

You didn't say how old you are, but if you are under 25, I'd suggest you take more time. A year is not long enough to know someone well. I know you think you do, but marriage is a life long commitment. What's the rush if it's meant to be?

Wait at least another 6 months. See how things are going and discuss it with him. Don't pop any questions. Make it a mature discussion about your future together and see what happens.

Answer 4

You know him better than anyone--how would he react if you asked him? A lot of men wouldn't mind, but a lot would. They want to take the initiative on major decisions such as marriage and don't want to feel pressured or rushed. Depending on your age, a year and two months is enough time to know someone pretty well, so you can hint at the topic of marriage like asking about what he sees in the future and see how he reacts. Good luck!!

Answer 5

Try discussing your future together and what you each want out of the relationship.

Maybe he has no intention of marrying you.

Maybe he just wants to keep you as a "baby's momma", instead.

By having this discussion, you aren't putting him on the spot to marry you. And if he does indicate he would want to marry you in the future, then you both have a goal to work towards. This way, you get your answer, but you still let him be the one to eventually ask you.

My mother had to ask my father and their marriage wasn't very good.

So, in my opinion, if a guy isn't interested enough to actually decide whether he wants to marry his girlfriend, the marriage is not going to be a happy one.

Answer 6

Well Pink did it , but he asked her first and she wasn't ready. Are you moving to Raleigh together with no plans of marriage? I suggest maybe you should bring it up, and maybe not move with him if he says no.

Answer 7

Just ask him Honey! You won't know the answer if you don't. Whether it's a yes or no at least you'll know the answer from your Boo. May your Boo say Yes to you:)

Answer 8

Wait. You don't want to scare him off! Commitment scares every man in the beginning no matter what they say! He'll ask you when the time is right! But that doesn't mean you have to stop day dreaming right? I do all the time! LOL!

Answer 9

Depends on how he looks at things. At least, I would feel humiliated if my girlfriend asked me to marry me, but that depends on each person. I guess if you think he wouldn't like that then you should just keep bringing marriage up and ask stuff like "when are we getting married?" and stuff. Good luck.

Answer 10

I don't think anything is wrong with the woman asking the man to marry them. I think the man my like that. He might feel pressure and that might relieve some of it.