i have 2 brothers and 3 sisters 1 of my bros moved out and so have one of my sisters.so its me 2 sisters and 1 brother living here at home.im 12 ill soon b 13 sisters r 14 &15 & my bro is 8.my sisters hang out together but i get left out all the time should i just stick 2 b-ing by my self or watt i want 2 b as close 2 my sisters as they r 2 each other but they dont want anything 2 do w/ me.Why watt did i do wrong?!?plez help im looking 4 serious answers this may not seem like a problem 2 anybody else but it is to me!!!!!!!!!!!!THANX!!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 16:54:14 · 9 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im very mature 4 my age my parents even say i act older than the 14 year old and we can all sit around and talk about music and boys etc. but they dont talk 2 me and no i dont act like a brat to attion from them.
2006-09-04 07:13:49 · update #1
I have about the same problem with my two boys one is 14 and the other is 8. The 8 yr old would like to play with his brother and spend time with him, but there is a huge age difference. So what to do? I started paying more attention to my 8 yr old and found out that now my 14 yr old is coming and sitting with us now and finding out that maybe there isn't that big of a difference after all. So find out what they are interested in and go from there. Start with movies, tv series, hobbies find something that you like and they like and a relationship will come in common ground.
2006-09-03 17:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by rahlyd swamp muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first I am a mom of listen to this a 16g, 14g, 13b and 11g :) sound kinda familiar?? My youngest daughter goes through the same thing that you do on a daily basis. The 2 older girls are close and also share a bedroom making the youngest feel like she is left out alot. But there are times when I see the older ones with her and she can be a little brat while trying to get there attention. Maybe without knowing it this is what you are doing. Let them know you want to do things with them even if it is just listening to music on the computer or just hanging out in the front yard. They won't always want u there but when they realize u aren't' a baby anymore they will give you a chance.
I am sure they love u very much but boys are a big part of there conversations and also music :)
2006-09-03 17:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by jodi_lynn_124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. It's not pleasant to be left out by other members of your siblings.
Take a closer look at your behaviour and attitude towards your sisters. Have you behaved selfishly towards them to make them gang up against you? If you have not, maybe your sisters, being 14 & 15, feel that they do not want to involve you in their activities because you are too young to understand or to join them?
Talk to them and tell them how you feel. Be sincere and honest with them. Very often, we tend to assume a lot of things without first finding out the facts. We take action based on our assumptions and then regret our actions later on. Tell your sisters you hope to be treated as a part of them and whether they can do it.
2006-09-03 17:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - work on your communication skills! In other words, learn to use ENGLISH!!! Second - being on-line this late in the evening is a BAD idea. Now to your question, I have no idea what you did wrong, but I bet you know what you did. Now apologize and promise NEVER to do it again! As for the rest...now I have a headache trying to read your horrendous writing. Good nite.
2006-09-03 17:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-24 20:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a real problem in early teens
hang out with guys and girls ur age group
siblings problem will take time but sort ouy by itself
2006-09-03 16:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink u should ask ur sisters if u can hang out with them....or why dnt they talk to you....or u can try talking to girls ur age....maybe ur sister tink ur 2 young 2 hang out w. dem....but im sure ur sisters still love u
2006-09-03 16:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 is small kid, 14 upwards is teenager. be patient honey.
2006-09-03 16:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kolibri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just walk to the older one and tell her how you feel...
2006-09-03 16:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by private_senorita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋