Family - August 2006

I have a niece who turned 13 in May. She has a tatoo, body piercings, had sex wiith a 26 year old (now in jail), smokes cigarettes, sneaks out during the night, gave a black boy a B.J. (I'm not predjudiced, just letting you know). Her mother drinks beer every night. Has sex with different men, whether she knows them or not, has done crack, takes her medications with alcohol, etc. They move from one house, to one town to another state several times a year. The mom doesnt work; she's on "disability" for panic attacks. My niece is the youngest of 4 girls, the only child left still living at home. Her older sisters arent much better, so she can't depend on them to talk to for support. I feel like I should do something to help her before she ends up pregnant, with an std or worse. She doesn't live in a stable invironment obviously. Should I stay out of it or should I get more involved? She is only 13 and is way too curious about "adult" things and her mother doesn't seem to care.

2006-08-26 09:46:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-26 09:37:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

they are very personal, and sometimes depressing, and they often express and reveal my deepest darkest secrets. she gets mad when i don't show her.
how do i tell her AND GET HER TO UNDERSTAND that i do not have to show her everything that some things are just personal?

2006-08-26 09:16:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have doubts that my paternal grandfather is biologically related to me. How do I find out for sure? And if he's not, then how do I find out who is my real grandfather (my grandmother is deceased, so there's no asking her anything...)? I managed to get hair samples from both my father and my grandfather to get them tested by dna specialists, but who do I go to for that?

2006-08-26 09:08:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we were living together and we have just split up two days ago we have both decided to be friends like good friends as we were friends b4 we had a relationship. the reason why we split was because he mother was not happy that we were having a mixed relationship through a bad experience of her own. of course my bf went to talk to my parents because of his african values and my mum did ask him cant he follow his heart and he said his family is important and that is all he has got. obviously i realised that he did love me and that he was making the best decision while we were both young and i think i would have mayb did the same if my circumstances were different but its seems i had a more stronger character than him.. but who knows wot the future holds but i i think it will be difficult if and when someone else comes along but we have both agreed not matter wot the friendship will never die out.

2006-08-26 09:08:15 · 16 answers · asked by sexy babes 1

2006-08-26 09:02:51 · 7 answers · asked by tearsNheaven 1

My sister is grounded for like ever, and now she follows me & my BFF around, i'd tell her to leave me alone but my parents make me bring her along if my sister wants to do whatever my BFF and I do. Sometimes it even seems like she's trying to steal my BFF from me because she's not allowed to talk to any of her friends. HELP!! I want my sister to leave me alone!!!

2006-08-26 09:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am wondering if any women out there feel the same way I do. I have a toddler- in his terrible twos. This second pregnancy wasn't planned and I am so angry that I am pregnant!
I'm always a b****
I'm always crying
I not motivated to do anything
I have depression
I just can't deal with it right now.
I must add that I love the baby already and am 8 months, so abortion is not even an options please do not suggest such a thing. We wanted another but just not right now.

2006-08-26 08:59:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

don't go becz these things they got form our grand father and old family what should i do ?

2006-08-26 08:58:10 · 13 answers · asked by danesh_12 1

hiya, i am looking for my dad. this name is kenneth john lawson he is about 40 to 50 years old.
i do not know where to start to look for him as i am missing him. i have not seen him for a long time i was only 8 years old the last time i seen him and i would like him to know that i have kids now and i am getting married to.
if you read this dad if you are out there i am missing you i do not care about the past i look forward now.

2006-08-26 08:47:11 · 23 answers · asked by zoe 3

Good if you do please go donate blood or platelets at a Life Blood location and dontate for a man named Howard Strong he is my Step Dad and dieing of colon an liver cancer he needs blood please help.

2006-08-26 08:40:05 · 1 answers · asked by MISSREBEL 2

I hate to ask and beg for the help in this way but all the normal ways is not and has not helped. My brother and I are disabled vetreans in are 50,s. He jusat had cancer taken out and is in a lot of pain. We do not have beds, He sleeps on the floor. The bed I call a bed is brocken with springs coming out. The car just throw a rod and we can not fix it We have always helped others but find it very hard to find people who will help. Who will care. We are having a hard time making rent and food. Yes we have tryed all the main ways but get little or no help. We are on SSI. I will go into more with the right person or persons. We are in the Denver Colorado area. I do not like doing this and causing me a lot of pain to ask but need to. I'm asking total strangers for help and even begging if need to. Please maybe send this out to other question and answers categorizes Thank you.

2006-08-26 08:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by Seeking the truth 1

I found out in March that my Step dad had 6 months to a year left to live now this morning I've found out that my Dad is seriously sick and had surgory twice this week already need some supporting words to help me get though this. On top of everything else I start college on Monday work full time and I'm a single mom with a 2.5 year old son. Help me please

2006-08-26 08:28:25 · 7 answers · asked by MISSREBEL 2

2006-08-26 08:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by Shavonna M 1

i can sleep.My son is 16 and i am to scared to let him drive.its been a year and 1 month since he died.

2006-08-26 08:10:58 · 12 answers · asked by pam b 2

2006-08-26 08:10:06 · 3 answers · asked by : D 1

I am trying to find my dad.He use to go out with a Kathleene Dupont in Atlantic City,NJ around 1974 or 75.They use to stay in the same apartment building together in back of an Elementary School.His name is Wesley Peridith or Periddith.My mom died in 1981 in Atlantic City,NJ.Any information will do.So if you have any information at all will you please contact me.

2006-08-26 08:02:21 · 9 answers · asked by sonyadupont 1

2006-08-26 08:00:28 · 13 answers · asked by scotty 1

7 foot high 12x12 please help me form a list for a family of 9
thank you

2006-08-26 07:57:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-26 07:53:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering if anyones taken provera and then became pregnant how long did it take after taken provera???

2006-08-26 07:46:37 · 3 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5

Why is it that instead of getting information from the source or keeping mouths shut, sometimes family just has to blab? My grandmother, for instance, felt it necessary to inform me of details of my sisters life which I already knew. Not getting into details or anything, just randomly mentioning "I talked to her and by the way this is going on". Whether or not she was just 'informing' me or trying to nonchalantly strike up a conversation and get more details is beside the point. And she told my mom too, which my sister had not decided to do yet. You would think that the older generations would have a little more tact than that, and respect other people's wishes to not discuss things with them and NOT take it all personally. Anybody else dealing with this? (there's the rhetorical question of the year!)

2006-08-26 07:35:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-26 07:13:01 · 10 answers · asked by :) 3

if my cousin has a kid what would I be to the kid and what would they be to me?are they my second cousins?am I their aunt?

2006-08-26 07:01:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, I know this person who is now 17 but had it rought growing up. Her dad was an alcoholic and a drugatic and very violent and was in jail more times than anybody could count. Her mother drunk, but not as bad as her dad. She never got to sleep at night because thats when her dad was worse, but yet she would still go to school the next day. He would come in her room in the middle of the night and drag her out of bed with a butcher knife in his hand. He destroyed everything they ever owned until finally they were so poor they didn't even have a pot to crap in. They didn't even have an outhouse....she had to use the bathroom behind her trailor on a pile of cement blocks. They had no electricity or even furniture(because he sold them for dope) and she had to sleep on the floor and cooked what little food they got on this small little kerosine heater that also heated their house. She was so scared growing up that her stomach hurt her alot. She always has had to take care of herself because nobody would do it for her. My question is, why wouldn't somebody help her? Like social services? I didn't know her until recently, but she said that they had been called many times but they never did anything but come talk to her once and a while. Her dad ended up killing himself (overdose) when she was 14, but then her mom started dating a man who had been in jail for rape. One night at around 3 in the morning when her and her mom was taking him home he tried to hit her and she decided she had had enough and got out of the car and walked to her grandmas. She lived with her for about a year until her mom finally came to her senses. She has a good relationship with her mom now, but couldn't something have happened sooner? I just don't understand why she had to go through all of that. What do you think?

2006-08-26 06:50:22 · 7 answers · asked by Danielle 1

To put it simple I don't know what to do. All i want is to go away from them and be alone but i can't even find a job maybe its because i'm only 16. How much emotional abuse can one person take for their whole life. I've tried everything but all it leads o is chronic depression. I just want to go add be alone but how can i survive if all i have is an entire familyy that cause more pain than comfort..can u help me maybe with advice or a succes story

2006-08-26 06:47:07 · 14 answers · asked by righteous 2

I know a woman with 4 daughter, they are grown and 3 of them want nothing to do with her. She treated the baby (Melanie) to designer clothes and private schooling. The other ones got garage sale stuff and public schooling. She never told them she loved them. She never told any of the child except the youngest she loved them. She was extremely physically abusive and mentally abusive to the middle girls. She used the oldest to take care of the other children. She is hateful, manupulative and mean to everyone. She told them she hated them and wished they would die. Even the youngest one, don't like to be around her. Out of the 2 middle girls, one is a alcholic and drug user, the other one has mental breakdowns. No knows the abuse they went through like the eldest one. She lived her life taking and trying to protect them from her. Even as adults they still crave a mother. I hate people saying they should see her, that is their Mother. I think they are better staying away.

2006-08-26 06:46:05 · 5 answers · asked by kitty cat 3

What am i supposed to do?

2006-08-26 06:35:50 · 14 answers · asked by Donovan G 5

he bugs me.i aks him to stop.he doesnt listen.i tell my mom.she doesnt care.she just tells me im the older one.somtimes i wanna kill myself becuase of him!

2006-08-26 06:33:36 · 12 answers · asked by the oc lover 1

hi all i wanna ask somthing about father and son thing ..... 1-if there is15years old and if his father and his sonhave a chat about women( for example my dad said to me : look at this fine A.S.S or if he saw somthing nude(like porn or something) with his son it is normal ? or it is ok ????? ... 2- if the dad have an older son ( this time any age not 15 ) and he took his son to a strip club is it fine ????????????? .........................>( thank you )

2006-08-26 06:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous