hi all i wanna ask somthing about father and son thing ..... 1-if there is15years old and if his father and his sonhave a chat about women( for example my dad said to me : look at this fine A.S.S or if he saw somthing nude(like porn or something) with his son it is normal ? or it is ok ????? ... 2- if the dad have an older son ( this time any age not 15 ) and he took his son to a strip club is it fine ????????????? .........................>( thank you )
2006-08-26 06:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hello sorry but what if the father is not that nasty ( what i mean about the 2 quis is 18 and + )
2006-08-26 06:41:59 · update #1
yes its fine and its normal,, i have a 21 and a 24 yr old son , i go with them to the strip clubs lots of times , they are men now ,, soo i relate to them as men,, as far as u being 15,, u are becoming a man, so a dad has the job of not just being a father , but also ur friend, someone u can talk to if u need help or have a problem,, i used to let my sons watch and read,, playboys,, and pornos , i would rather have them learn the right things from me, than the wrong things out on the strret from friends or strangers
2006-08-26 06:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay 1.) if the son is 15 and the dad is making comments about women then its more than likely to put the son at ease. only awkward if the dad is still married to the boys mom. Then its a bad deal. 2.) If the father and son have an open relationship and are OK with being together in a place like that no big deal. But if one or the other is embarrassed about seeing naked girls with the other one then you should probably nix the idea.
2006-08-26 06:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Bit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too encourage a son too look at porn or too go strip clubs is wrong.
that would be teaching that it is ok for him.
some people cant control there selves in some areas and it could get out of control. this would go for anything that coulb become an addiction.
beer
smokeing
sex
porn
drugs
be careful about expose kids too certain material. it could turn bad. not saying it will but it could and it would come back to haunt the parent that lead him in that life style.
please dont take offense just tyring to help good luck
good Q?
peace
2006-08-26 06:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by matt p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a father not a friend he should be teaching his sons about respecting women what does your mother think of his behavior?? How does it make you feel you have pleanty of time for grown up things all that will come in time....go out with friends your age and have fun.
2006-08-26 06:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by fetter_2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not a Good father , and is not a row modal, i will question the father a and the son and keep distance all of what they doing not ethical.
2006-08-26 06:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by ed46324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your dad he's nasty.
he's wanting to be your friend and not your dad....because if he was your dad he wouldn't allow that kind of crap around his kids.
2006-08-26 06:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Who cares 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is normal.
2006-08-26 06:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋