Family - August 2006

My boyfriend was with this girl from a few years, he had one little girl with her and then she became pregnant again right after he left contact with her....this beautiful boy was born today...but we arent even 100% sure than it is my boyfriends...he is just going to take the roll of dad from what i understand.his daughters mothers family are crazy...the dont want him to be happy at all every chance they get they start trouble and they wont let us see her 1/2 the time. they try to physically fight with us. It will be so hard on thses babies all i want to do is protect them. My feeling are very mixed but i really care about him and his daughter already and want to spend a long time with him..but question arise...what if i want children in the next 4 years? How could we afford to help with 2 and have one fulltime...and would he stay around of we did....he seems like it. But i dont know how to deal with these people and this situation...friendle help would be appreciated greatly! :)

2006-08-31 18:35:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

About a year ago I messed up. Dont know what happened to me, a mix of bad feelings, especially jealousy. I ended up lying about lil sister, did things I'm ashamed of. I got a harsh punishment. Suffered a lot. Today things are settled, almost no one remembers what happened and I did so much for my sister that - her words - it was like causing a damage of $50 and paying $500. People like me, including children I volunteered to help. I think I'm clean. But I'm emotionally destroyed. It`s hard to explain how I feel it's related to my parents. I didn't expect what they did.Something broke inside me. My first source of love was destroyed, can't see them as love but as judges. I resent this.They say they are proud of me, but I can't talk to them, I avoid them, they will always remind me of what I went through and of my own mistakes I'd like to erase from my mind. I live lone and lonely, Since I'm clean, dont owe anything, sometimes I think about leaving this world. I'm free from my mistakes

2006-08-31 18:23:50 · 15 answers · asked by Liza 1

2006-08-31 18:17:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who would like to make friends and share advice my kids are 2 1/2 and 8 months contact me at brandi.smiles@yahoo.com or http://www.myspace.com/brandismiles

2006-08-31 18:15:27 · 2 answers · asked by brandi.smiles 2

How does one keep respecting someone that does nothing more than disrespect in return....
( my mother in law is a monster in law!)
ANY ADVICE???? No CRAP answers
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

2006-08-31 18:05:58 · 11 answers · asked by magdalina 3

I just went away to college, and before I left I gave EVERYONE in my dad's close extended family my cell phone number and mailing address. My grandparents are the ones to spread family news have always been very cold to me and they have never really liked my dad either, so he and I are always the last to learn ANYTHING about what's happened. I came back for a family reunion like 2 months later and my sister had a 3 month old baby that I didn't even know existed, let alone knew she was pregnant. Why does no one tell me anything????? I'm really starting to get angry about this.

2006-08-31 18:02:15 · 18 answers · asked by Kaylie 2

At 16 alot of kids get their license to drive and I'm not really happy about letting my kids get into those cars, those kids with hardly no driving experience worry me.

2006-08-31 17:54:09 · 12 answers · asked by coffeemate 3

mines 2 1/2 and he still just sort of ignores what i'm saying and continues playing...when i help him, he gets distracted and keeps playing. I don't think its all defiance, i just don't think we're 'there' yet...when will we be??

2006-08-31 17:51:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-31 17:42:55 · 18 answers · asked by ravi k 1

i have kids
car
house
clothe
lovely wife etc...

2006-08-31 17:42:15 · 20 answers · asked by PACKZ.... 2

2006-08-31 17:39:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I tell my teenage son that he should not hang around with this certain kid at school. The kid is definately a bad influence on my son.

2006-08-31 17:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by libertino85 2

2006-08-31 17:37:47 · 3 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3

just curious

2006-08-31 17:29:14 · 21 answers · asked by angel74 4

2006-08-31 17:18:19 · 17 answers · asked by PACKZ.... 2

My mom had her baby's today well by baby's she had 4. I know thats alot right. Well she hasent named them yet any idea's. 3 are girls and one is a boy.

2006-08-31 17:07:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

spread the injection throughout the muscle but it hurt like hell each time he tapped. Is this appropriate and is it common??

2006-08-31 17:06:00 · 28 answers · asked by lily s 1

2006-08-31 16:55:52 · 8 answers · asked by lily s 1

2006-08-31 16:54:15 · 28 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2

what makes u proud of ur kids tell us if u want to

2006-08-31 16:53:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

About a year ago I messed up. Dont know what happened to me, a mix of bad feelings, especially jealousy. I ended up lying about lil sister, did things I'm ashamed of. I got a harsh punishment. Suffered a lot. Today things are settled, almost no one remembers what happened and I did so much for my sister that - her words - it was like causing a damage of $50 and paying $500. People like me, including children I volunteered to help. I think I'm clean. But I'm emotionally destroyed. It`s hard to explain how I feel it's related to my parents. I didn't expect what they did.Something broke inside me. My first source of love was destroyed, can't see them as love but as judges. I resent this.They say they are proud of me, but I cxan't talk to them, I avoid them, they will always remind me of what I went through and of my own mistakes I'd like to erase from my mind. I live lone and lonely, Since I'm clean, dont owe anything, sometimes I think about leaving this world. I'm free from my mistakes

2006-08-31 16:53:52 · 5 answers · asked by Liza 1

We've always spent a weekend away for each of our birthdays. My parents give us the gift of babysitting for the weekend so we can get away twice a year for some alone time, but now the kids are at an age where they are starting to understand that they are not spending mom's birthday with her. They are 5 and 3.

2006-08-31 16:49:55 · 17 answers · asked by JustJake 5

Im 19 and my parents got divorced when i was 4 years old. I havent talked to him for almost 4 years because of a fight i got into with him and his wife (my step-mom) so today he called and i answered the phone. He asked if he could see my 15 year old brother and I and take us out to breakfast this sunday. (my brother has still been seeing him, he say him a few months ago) anyways my mom said that i wouldnt recognize my dad, he sounded like an old grandpa on the phone today. Im just afraid to see him, see how he's let himself go (my mom said he's fat wrinky and has white hair) I dont know if ill be able to deal with what he looks like and seeing him again since i havent seen him in over 4 years... any tips to deal with this situation would be great =)

i really dont want to see him but want to catch up ....

2006-08-31 16:47:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

how should a parent explain something like this to such a young child, i want to go by the " if your old enough to ask, your old enough to get the answer."

2006-08-31 16:43:37 · 43 answers · asked by evilpoutyangel 2

i had already posted a question simliar to this and the answers i got were GREAT. BUT i need a website to look at the pictures. there is one problem though..my family does not have a picture or name of my lost grandpa.. maybe i'll recognize him when i see him ..because my dad looks more american than vietnamese. there might be a one in a million chance of me finding the correct guy...but theres no harm in trying. please help!!

2006-08-31 16:40:18 · 2 answers · asked by vinapieee 1

somebody in my family was on here asking the least painful way to kill them self.. when i brought it to there attention they said it was no big deal I mean that isn't normal or is it no big deal someone ask what is a least painful way to kill t hem self. I mean i thought normal people don't care to know about stuff like that or y would some one want to know about ways to kill them self. If you love some one you worry you can go look at her questions her name is badgirlgimpy........im really confused

2006-08-31 16:37:41 · 28 answers · asked by ms fitness 1

My stepfather adopted me at the age of 6. He had 4 kids from prev marriage. Soon after they came to live with us. 40 something years later, my Mother (not theirs) died. I found out the depth of their jealously at that time. Presently, 2 years later, our father is very ill with alzheimers. They have accused me of "stealing" my own Mother's things. A couple of months ago I was at his home and found him living in conditions not fit for humans. I contacted his niece, who in turn contacted human services. They were forced to do something. Two of my "sisters" got guardianship of him and his property and have placed him in a nursing home.

I have to read the obituaries to find out if my father is even alive!

I'm so frustrated. Does anyone have any good advice, suggestions, etc? Thank you.

2006-08-31 16:29:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I protect the kids? They are not being harmed right now and are away from their father who beats the mother. The mother is an alcoholic and has hit her daughter, but not the son yet. They are not in imminent danger so CPS won't really do anything concrete and could scare my sister away from at least a safe environment with my parents. She won't enter rehab or stop drinking either.

2006-08-31 16:27:27 · 18 answers · asked by motherof3 1

MY older brother is such a perv. I'm 15 and he's 18. We're now in the same high school, and it sucks. I don't really want to explain it all, but basically, he sexually harrasses me. My mom knows about it, and tells him to stop, but he doesn't. She doesn't think it's that serious though. He's been like this since we were kids, and he like ruined my life. I don't want him to see me at school, I'm afraid he might look at me. I try to dress lame at home so he wontt, but he sees me at school. And, he just makes these perverted comments that really gross me out. I don't know what to do about him. It doesn't really affect me, since its all just talk, but it bothers me. Should I just wait until he goes to college and he can't do this anymore? And, what should I do now?

2006-08-31 16:26:14 · 16 answers · asked by willow 1

Hi, I'm just wondering if it's possible to raise a child in the Bay Area on a fixed income of $80K.

2006-08-31 16:22:47 · 1 answers · asked by bebedade 1