Hello,
My wife and I changed jobs and locations to help my mother in law after her husband died. My mil is a very weak person, has low self esteem and confidence. Well, its time for my wife and I to go back home to our family and home (our kids are adults). The problem is this. SInce we want to go home, we are getting verbally attacked by the yougest three who are within ten minutes of my mil. They feel we are abandoning there mother. They are all female and suffer the same self esteem confidence problems that my mil has (but of course, would not admit that to themselves, that takes confidence). There are 7 other siblings, 1 out of state. Our experence over the last two years as been that the oldest 2 and the yougest three have done very little to support us during this time. Now that we want to go, they feel that it would be too much interuption to their families and are trying to guilt my wife into staying. For the momemnt, she is resisting. What to do about these borish people?
2006-08-31
04:07:34
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