She was going through problems and I was discussing with a friend how much we'd like to help...yada, yada, yada. One of the 3 people in the room went to her and told her "oh yeah, they were talking about you. Saying how much they'd like to help and that they love you". He said it sarcasticly (for fun I guess, or to get something started) so she took it as we were bad mouthing her.
Now, she won't talk to me or anyone else that was there and it's causing problems with my husband and his brother (her husband).
She has learned since what really happened but won't budge.
In all actuality, I really could care less if we forgive and forget because she should have trusted me and come to me for answers! But, I want to be the "bigger person" and confront her for my husband and brother-in-law.
My problem...my husband says not to do it because I would be "swallowing my pride" if I went to her, because she was wrong and knows it. Now, I am constantly thinking about it.
Should I confront he?
2006-08-01
01:11:08
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