Family - August 2006

my family says u have to be too ****** lucky to act and that u cannot. what should i do to convince them and to start a career?

2006-08-02 06:28:44 · 9 answers · asked by Marina 2

i have a 4 month old little girl and she has made my life complete. i was just wondering what everyone elses take is on being a parent.

2006-08-02 06:25:51 · 20 answers · asked by Tara 2

We live in Washington where the age of consent is 18. Does the fact that they didn't have sex get him in way less trouble?

2006-08-02 06:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by hypothetical 1

2006-08-02 06:11:51 · 20 answers · asked by dragonfly 2

2006-08-02 06:10:58 · 48 answers · asked by Alexx 2

its for a close relative like my mother who seems to be possessed

2006-08-02 06:02:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-02 06:01:06 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley G 1

Right now I have my handsful with my 7 year old son. Out of all my 4 kids I never had much problems with them as my little boy who seems like he is 5 at times.

Many of the times I have to constant watch him and kids his age are calmer and are aloud to go to places on their own like to friends or parks.

Right now I don't feel ready for him Where my son always has to be watched when he plays indoors or outdoors, we do not allow him to go to a friends or to a park himself because of his mean behavior and starting a fight, or getting the neighbor mad because of him yelling a bad word to them as you can see I never get any rest. Even at bedtime I have a hard time. I usually have to shut off all the lights to get him to sleep or he'll be up late then I feel tiered and another busy filled day ahead. But When his father is at home hes a good boy, but with my husbands job, he is not at home much it gets a bit stressful as its hard to find a sitter and a good sitter to handle his behavior too or I will have a neighbour complainging your son did this and that.

And When he plays with other kids including his siblings he is mean and finds it funny and keeps fighting and will not stop. I always have to rescue someone with him trying to lay on them, kick them, jump on them or whatever. He lost friends beacause how he is like. He is nice too but a lot he finds everything funny when he is being mean. I think he has that I am a big boy tough image. I just hope he doesn't turn in to a bully or already is. I am trying very hard to get him out of this or it will be much worst.

I used many methods of discipline like timeouts, groundings, and taking things away. But I always have to battle with him for him to do them like putting him back in his spot and he just becomes meaner with hitting and saying I am not your son anymore or I hate you and I tell him I love you. Sometimes I have to hold him down or he'll hurt someone when he is mad or mad at me hurting a sibling.

I try to keep him busy by doing things but he has a short tension span. I try to read but he doesn't want to listion to the story sometimes. I even make him homemade play dough, taking him to the park, building with him, playing with his cars with him, and just show my full attention to him and sometimes I feel I give him more than my other kids itès a bit of a stressfull situation.

I will say though I try to use a calm voice and don't spank even if it edges me sometimes I try to stay calm. I feel guilty if I do try to spank and could have my neighbor's complain like calling Children Aids and all I am doing is trying my best to control my son. I have tried to spank a few times to see if it helps but all he does is laugh and finds it funny. But I've been thinking of taking him to my family doctor for some advice, maybe he will think I can not handle him but I try my best, but don't want him to go on any meds because of the problems I have heard about them.

This little man sure keeps me busy daily with all his energy.

Is there any suggestions.

2006-08-02 05:46:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its for his birthday, whats a good present?

2006-08-02 05:44:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a half brother and a dad that left me and my mom intill she died and came back for me and now he married teri-ann my step mother and my half brother moved in with us and will go to collage in three years and now teri-ann had a baby girl snow and is pregant agin with a boy cerease and my grand mother just moved in with us so we moved out of your house and in to a seven bedroom home and now my dad mom and dad just moved in with us how should i deal with this?

2006-08-02 05:44:18 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♫Music Mist♫♥ 3

I get that all the time, from relatives and other people who know her. (We know some of the same people in business.) I just go, "Well, you'd think she's the one who taught me how to talk or something, ha ha", but I used to be really annoyed by that. And I don't think we sound that much alike, but other people disagree!

Do you get it, and if you do, how do you deal with it?

2006-08-02 05:42:43 · 35 answers · asked by GreenEyedLilo 7

What was one of the worst injurys you have gotten from a sibling? How old were you both at the time?

2006-08-02 05:42:06 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

if there is somthing I want to save or I enjoy eating, everytime my fiancee gets to it first. even if i buy alot he will eat it all.

He always said he did not like hummus, untill i bought some and put it in the fridge, couldn't wait until I got home one day cause i was craving it, any way, he ate it all. So this time I bought spinich/artichoke flavor (yummy) cause he won't go anywhere near anything with spinich in it. LOL

2006-08-02 05:22:33 · 4 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4

I'm sorry to say, Kathy has passed away from Pancreatic Cancer, today. This is the lady that breeds Rottweilers & owns a kennel with her husband. If you knew her and would like to share a story or information on her life , please answer here & tell us the story. Please only respond with nice comments. I can't imagine anyone having anything bad to say about this nice lady. THANKS

2006-08-02 05:13:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a new born and i am joining the army next week. i need her birth certificate. where can i get it(i live in oklahoma city) how long will it take to get it and how much will it cost?

2006-08-02 04:55:36 · 25 answers · asked by daniel e 3

This 11 year old girl is mean, has no respect, says what ever is on her mind and doesn't care about hurting anyones feelings. She is super sensitive and has to have her way.

Her father (my boyfriend) tells me, she's just a kid, kid's act that way. Here's a story:

Yesterday, I went to the mall with her and my 6 year old son. We all got a pretzel and sat down on the bench until we finished before we went into the stores. She said she was finished and said she'll be in "Abercombie & Fitch" and when we're done eating come and get her. So after 5 minutes my son and I go into "Abercombie & Fitch" and we couldn't find her. We look in the dressing rooms, she's not there. We ask employees they haven't seen her. So we go to the very next store "Aeropostle" she's not there, we go to the very next store "Charotte Russe" and she's not there. We looked in most of the stores surrounded by "Abercombie & Fitch" and finally after 15 minutes I was worried.

2006-08-02 04:52:07 · 19 answers · asked by DrPepper 6

I can spend time with my instructor his a science proffesor I see goodness inside him, but I dont know for some reason I want him to be my dad. Unfortunately I cant have him because he already have his own kids. Maybe his good and he has enough time with his kids but it seems my father is too busy to have all this stuff he would rather want me away with him. I dont feel I'm a member of this family! What should I do

2006-08-02 04:50:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my brother was found dead, they are saying it was suicide- but, now we are finding out that it was foul play. i am trying to stay strong, but at the same time i am getting mad because i feel like there is more i could be doing to find out what really happened to him!! i have even gone to see a psychic. please help me out. because right now, i feel useless.

2006-08-02 04:43:08 · 59 answers · asked by scott's wifey 3

All they do most of the time is yell at each other

2006-08-02 04:42:33 · 8 answers · asked by bratbowl 2

My mom favors my daughter over my son and my nephew.

She does not see my nephew beacause my brother bo longer speaks to her for other reasons and for he fact that she told my siter in law that my daughter would always be the most special to her.

Any way, she always wants to do stuff with my daughter and leaves my son out. And when they fight or something she always takes my daughters side, even if she is wrong. My son is 4 now and he is starting to see it and he feels left out. what should I do?

2006-08-02 04:37:51 · 15 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4

and im a twin

2006-08-02 04:33:57 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to learn to save some money and stop spending it on things i do not need! Does anyone have any money saving tips? All i have had so far is
1. Walk places and dont take a bus
2. Have a car boot sale.
Any help would be appreiciated as i really need to start saving as we go on holiday in 6 weeks. Thanks for helping

2006-08-02 04:29:00 · 7 answers · asked by noone 3

Our 2 year anniversary is coming up shortly. I wanted to do something really nice and meaningful, so I thought that I would have an artist create a larger portrait of his late father. He only has a wallet picture of him. I asked his friend about the idea, and he said he wouldn't do it. He passed away in 2002. I really don't want to upset him, but I think its a good idea

2006-08-02 04:20:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-02 04:18:08 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-02 04:18:07 · 5 answers · asked by vebyllucs 3

The pastor is the one wedded me and my husby and I have two kids for him. The PAstor's wife is out of the country, so he is asking me out and I have not told my husby. What do I do?

2006-08-02 04:03:54 · 43 answers · asked by tonia 1

My sister is turning 17 the 1st of september. She just a had a baby in september. I want to do something fun for her. There really isnt anything i can think of because she is young and cant really do ne thing! Please tell me if u have ne ideas!

2006-08-02 03:47:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-02 03:42:57 · 3 answers · asked by ading_16 1

if i choose not to be sexist do i slap her back? do i wave my finger and say no? how does a man avoid the brand of "wife beater" when he is getting his nuts kicked in 3-4 times a week? can anyone male or female answer this?

2006-08-02 03:41:04 · 43 answers · asked by KU 4

My younger sister is emotionally abusing me and physically. She is constantly saying negative things about me, throwing things at me and hitting me. It has got to the point where once she took the telephone and slammed against my head because i wouldn't do what she wanted. My mom sees this all but acts like nothing happens like it is normal. She could be fine for a week but then the next week she is just out of control. Is there a place i could get help and get away and a place where she could get help?

2006-08-02 03:40:40 · 13 answers · asked by Rican87 3