The pastor is the one wedded me and my husby and I have two kids for him. The PAstor's wife is out of the country, so he is asking me out and I have not told my husby. What do I do?
2006-08-02 04:03:54 · 43 answers · asked by tonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first, tell your husband, second report this man, an i say man because he does not deserve the title of pastor, he is a disgrace to his religion.stay as far away from him as humanly possible just incase you can catch this disease he has, he is not fit to preach let alone talk to you, think about it dear, you are much better than that, good luck an god bless you. (not this man that calls you your pastor)
2006-08-02 04:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by snookieoo3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your husband if you don't wanna go out with the pastor then you need to tell him. He should know better first off being a man of god and having a wife does he know that committing adultry is in the bible and there are serious consequences for people like him? And he's not a real pastor or man of god if he is willing to do something like that.
2006-08-02 04:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats no way for a Pastor to behave! He is probably preaching fidelity and the benefits of marriage and then trying to have an affair!
I'd run a mile and possibly even change church, I don't think I could stand a hypocritical Vicar!
2006-08-02 04:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by ehc11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no different from cheating on your husband with anyone else, except you might feel a bit embarrassed about showing your face in church if you get caught.
What do you want to do? If you want to go out with him, and you can live with being unfaithful to your husband, then go ahead. If not, just say no. Ignore the fact that he's the pastor.
2006-08-02 04:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Graham I 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you would seriously consider it only after he asks the entire congregation what they think you should do next time he gives the Sunday or Saturday service!!! Also, tell him you are going to inform your husband of his advances & tell the other church pastors you need their support with this very questionable moral dilema! Good luck don't fal for hie tricks. You maybe only one of many women he is harassing and acting entirerly inappropriate with.
2006-08-02 04:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me? You don't know the answer to this question? Tell the cheating "so called pastor" NO, for God's sake! Why would you even consider something like this. Also tell him you're going to tell everyone at church including your husband!
2006-08-02 04:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband, tell the pastors wife, and have your husband tell him that that is unacceptable. Then leave that church. You don't really want to be under the direction of a man that is telling you something VERY WRONG that God would NEVER have you do, do you?
2006-08-02 04:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by starkitty14k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you go then you are just selfish.You had kids with your huby and now you are haveing second thorts about doing a runner with another man.Not only that the kids wont take it very lightly and they may end up hateing you as they get older sooner or later and i know .
2006-08-02 04:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you take your weddng vows very seriously and that adultery is a sin (I assume he preaches that?).
Tell him that if he insists on asking you out again you must tell your husband as it is wrong for him not to know. Hopefully this will scare the pastor off.
If it doesn't work then you should tell your husband about it.
2006-08-02 09:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Curious39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should remind him of the 10 commandments. He's a pastor he should know better. He's going to a special kind of hell.
2006-08-02 07:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by abi_sweetgirl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋