All they do most of the time is yell at each other
2006-08-02 04:42:33 · 8 answers · asked by bratbowl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hide a video in the house and catch them fighting when they are calmed down show them what you have to deal with and what fools they look and sound like maybe they will be so embarrassed about their behavior they will go to counseling.
2006-08-02 04:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
It's very hard to deal with parents who are constantly fighting, you as their child shouldn't get in the way of the relationship but the best but painful advice you could give them to have them "cool down" and both stop fighting is to either "take a break" or "get a divorce". There is another solution but just tell them both at the same time and try not to sound like you are getting in the middle of everything but as their child and wanting them to get better, talk to them at the same time and tell them that if they truly love each other and think that they can work their differences aside, to do so, tell them it's affecting you, tell them not to yell but to talk to each other because they're disrespecting each other, or better yet tell them to go to marriage counseling, it truly helps! Best of Luck! ~V.J.~
2006-08-02 11:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unfortunatly you can not they have to do it themselves. I am sorry you have to grow up in that I know how you feel....just remember that its not your fault. They are immature and do not know how to handle stress....Why dont you do this make sure the house is clean and offer to watch younger siblings if you have them while they go out...they may be really stressed with bills and work...they maybe just overwhelmed and need some time away even for a walk....
2006-08-02 11:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by tinker143 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them when they're calm and tell them that their fighting scares and upsets you. Maybe a relative or family friend can talk to them. They need marriage counseling.
2006-08-02 11:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set up an event or take them out. tell them how you feel and that will make them realise thats rong to do. there is a t.v. show on life netword that might help. mabye set up a family night for somthing special. expess yourself.
2006-08-02 11:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by silly_lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. it's their problem. try to stay away from it like in another room or outside or to a friend's house or the pool or stay at school with sports or after school clubs as much as possible. turn up your music so you can't hear them fight. it's not your fault and you can't change their relationship.
2006-08-02 11:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in the middle of an arguement and remind them that you live there too, and want them to either stop fighting or do it somewhere else.
2006-08-02 11:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by ksbeckaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words to them: "Stop fighting"
Also tell them how you feel when they fight.
Maybe they'll divorce, but it could be the best solution.
2006-08-02 11:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by ranietsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋