i`m paying rent.
i get no respect, they walk in my room when they want, wake me up when i`m sleeping, snoop threw my room.
and they are always putting my dog outside.
they don`t respect me.
i sold my truck to buy a 1 ton truck, but they took the money and they say there going to buy a motor home which i don`t think is fair, also i want to trailer my self to horseshows cause when i go to horseshows i`m up there all day and i want to show all 4 horses.
they always complan that the shows are to long and that they don`t want to go up, but they refuse to let me take up my horses by self.
2006-08-01 02:10:00 · 23 answers · asked by horses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i have tried to talk to them, but they just don`t care.
they don`t listen to my side of the story.
as for getting an apartment i am shopping waiting for the people to call me back.
2006-08-01 09:34:07 · update #1
Why r u paying rent? If you have a landlord tenet relationship then put a lock on your door. If you sold you belongings and they tool that money why? Did they ask to borrow? And for showing your horses take a friend that knows horses and can help. You need to sit and talk to them and state the problems that your feeling. The only bad thing that my happen is they kick you out. I hope everything goes well.
2006-08-01 02:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by unsure 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would start saving for an apartment or any place of your own. You may have to put off buying a truck or not go to horse shows as often, but over time you'll get more settled financially and be able to do those things. Parents always treat their children like children no matter how old they are, how long they've been away from home. Take my word for it, I'm 47 years old and my parents still think they need to try and direct my life. My 54 year old husbands family is the same way. We live about 2000 miles away from them and we think that's pretty good. (-: You'll be much happier out on your own. Trust me.
2006-08-01 02:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are always two sides to every story, and I wonder what would have caused your parents so be so distrustful and disrespectful of you. If you are old enough to be buying trucks and going to horse shows, then you should be old enough to get your own place.
If not--are you paying any kind of rent to your parents now? If not, perhaps if you did, you would have more right to say they need to stay out of your room, etc.
Instead of asking for advice from strangers who don't know you or your parents, you need to have a serious talk with your parents about this whole situation.
2006-08-01 02:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move out, seriously! They sound like they are the type of parents who are overprotective, and will do anything to keep you under their control. If they start taking money that you made yourself, that is when you need to start seriously considering other options (even if you cannot move out, you should at least start a bank account that is secure, that only you are able to access).
You can never get respect from parents, unless you become totally independant. Then they may show some pride.
How old are you, anyway?
2006-08-01 02:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are not running a hotel. And even hotels are allowed to have "no pets" "no smoking" and "no running in the halls" policies. If you can't put up with your parents' running the show, move out of the house. I'm curious as to how they had access to your money in the first place- you should be 100% in charge of your financial dealings- IF your parents aren't still financing your life. If they are, well- what do you expect than to be watched like a hawk? They have a vital interest in wanting to protect THEIR investment!
2006-08-01 02:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by runninggirl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds like you can support yourself its time youi found a place of your own, this way they will realise your not a child and you can handle what ever comes your way. Thank them for all they've done in time they will see that you are responsible and you will have their respect. Put your foot down ask for your money back tell them you have a life to get on with. They shouldnt just come in to your room it sounds like they baby you . sooner you start a fresh else where the better good luck.
2006-08-01 02:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should move out and rent a place with a few buddies or something. Join the military, get out on your own. Sounds like if you stay at home they're just gonna do what comes naturally to them. If you stay, you can't complain, your choice because there are options out there. Sounds like you have some thinking to do buddy.
2006-08-01 02:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by dixi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your family and tell them how you are feeling. If they ignoring, why are you not living from there and get your own place? You say you paying the rent, I guess you are old enough and working and having your own paycheck. So move on.....for what you waiting for?
2006-08-01 02:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dude see basically what one parents want that their child should just do what they want they r caring but ur evil mind is not allowing u to xcept it u better do all the things what they want what r their likes work according to it with in few days i assure u that they 'll change if possible u can cook food 4 mom or u can help ur father in his work that will be the best thing if u even spend more time with them rather than ur frnds they 'll understand u all the best!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-01 02:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do not Your Parents ways and rules get out on your own completely It is their home you are still a guest in your Parents home even if you do pay rent.
2006-08-01 02:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋