MY older brother is such a perv. I'm 15 and he's 18. We're now in the same high school, and it sucks. I don't really want to explain it all, but basically, he sexually harrasses me. My mom knows about it, and tells him to stop, but he doesn't. She doesn't think it's that serious though. He's been like this since we were kids, and he like ruined my life. I don't want him to see me at school, I'm afraid he might look at me. I try to dress lame at home so he wontt, but he sees me at school. And, he just makes these perverted comments that really gross me out. I don't know what to do about him. It doesn't really affect me, since its all just talk, but it bothers me. Should I just wait until he goes to college and he can't do this anymore? And, what should I do now?
2006-08-31 16:26:14 · 16 answers · asked by willow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Like you just said, wait till college until he leaves. He might bug you for no, but after the year ends and he goes to college, it will be all over.For now, just try to avoid or ignore him.
2006-09-01 12:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Me ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very serious and your mom is letting you down big time if she doesn't do something about it. Tell your counselor at school and you can also call the Child Protective authorities. This must be stopped. He could be more dangerous to you and others than you think.
2006-08-31 16:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guidance counselor at your school about it, and tell your folks that this problem is more serious than they seem to think. No, you should NOT have to wait for him to go away. You should be able to live your life free from fear! God bless you.
2006-08-31 16:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to put with this. Sexual harrassment can lead to other things like incest. Don't wait till it's too late, get help from a school counselor.
2006-08-31 16:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by M N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
toss one of those little personal tape recorders in your pocket and when you see him at school it will catch what he's saying. then you can show it to a guidance officer there. at that point, if the school calls your parents and tells them whats going on, they'll KNOW theres a problem. that should get things stirring. at that point, the school will pretty much demand that your parents put him into therapy.
2006-08-31 16:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by hellion210 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats disgusting She should be helping you like yesterday. It does affect you cuz youre writing this Is there an aunt or gramma you can also talk to who will help your Mom understand? Good luck....some brother he is. Yuck
2006-08-31 16:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really put a stop to him doing this sort of thing, explain to your mother and father how serious it is. If it gets to a point, where you can't handle it, see concelling, and tell him to go to councelling too.
2006-08-31 16:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jonas A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him and see if not try going to the school councoler and see wether they can help you. normally this is because at that point of age guys tend to be sexually influence to try to seek help from the councelor they can really change him.. all the best
2006-08-31 16:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Navarro Wee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell another adult, maybe a teacher at school. If they talk to your mom, maybe she will realize how much it bothers you. That kind of behaivor is not ok.
2006-08-31 16:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm...well maybe you should tell your mom to actually take some action..just telling him to stop probably won't be enough...and even if she doesn't think it's serious she should really put a stop to it..because...like you said..it's gross!...and because i mean..she's your mom she's supposed to help you out.
2006-08-31 16:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Dan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋