Family - August 2006

My husband and I have 2 wonderful boys ages 3, and 6. We decided to get him "fixed" and not have anymore children, we wanted to expand our family via adoption. Well we went through the process and became foster parents in hopes of adopting a little girl (or 2:):) our only request was that she must be younger then our youngest boy (3) and wasn't victim to any serious sexual abuse ( We are new at this, and don't want to put our boys at risk )

Well are waiting days came to end yesterday, we met a beautiful 2 1/2 year old little girl who is a little ball of joy ( always smiling, laughing...) she has been though a lot ( mom a druggy and currently in jail, has left her little one with "who ever" and "were ever" the bio mom and her never attached )

According to the social workers in her previous placement, she has shown some signs of sexually acting out, they fear she may have been molested by one of her many caregivers. She has a appointment with a therapist who will try to.......

2006-08-25 22:56:13 · 12 answers · asked by 1 Supermom 3

2006-08-25 22:42:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad lost his job because he didn't do his job proberly he had too much things in his mind form us kids and our mum she doesn't help him how to look after us she live by herself in another country so its hard for my dad to contact her mum left us 2 years ago I don't know what to do I have under 15 brothers and sister I don't know what to do but all I am thinking is to email my dad's boss and ask him to give my dad's job it our only servival please help me I can't sleep we love each other I told my dad even if he doesn't have a job we can still be together and happy can someone please tell me what to do I know I have got my dad but he is hurt and worry about all of us what it is right for me to email my dad's boss or what.

2006-08-25 22:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by me,myself and I 1

I just found out that I lost my unborn child a few weeks ago, I was wondering if any 1 can help with some coping tips.
My partner and I are fighting alot...

2006-08-25 22:27:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

The Phone Rang The Other Day
And It Was My foster Sister .Her Boyfriend asked her to marry him.i was in shock.i dont know her boyfriend personaly but he does do dope and when i have seen him is always drinking
and i think he inticies her to do the same

she also has his friends staying at her place she doesnt own the place the welfare does here called housing department
in the back yard theres a caravan
i think thats not apprioate thinking why could her man have them up at his place

so i contacted housing via email making a complaint in regards of the caravan now she will be in trouble monday

my real sister has 2 kids my foster sister has to girls that belong to my sisters boyfriend
she knows this were all happy
i was talking to my sister on the net
she goes chloe is here as well as monique
and her own two kids
i said where is the father at
oh he went fishing with his father
i dont think thats good enough people at yahoo answears
he should of stay home and help

2006-08-25 22:16:45 · 5 answers · asked by Shane 1

are there any ways to discover if your girlfriend/boyfriend is with you because of your money...i mean how can you tell if s/he is not going to tell you one day : i took some of your money to buy a present for my mom...it happened to me, and now i'm really upset, that i left some cash at my boyfriend's and now he's telling me (as if its a joke) that he spent it..........Goooooood! how do i react?

2006-08-25 22:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by LadyPandora 2

every time If I do some thing it will not succeed and also I couldnt treat my wife & kid as much as they want. some times I think I live a useless life.

2006-08-25 21:52:40 · 17 answers · asked by no1_2me 1

why??? i know its coz im black, you hate me, dont you???

2006-08-25 21:34:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother tongue is different to that of my husband, and we speak in english to each other, but when speaking to the baby we use all three languages. will this confuse him?

2006-08-25 21:25:55 · 29 answers · asked by thabi 1

is a total jerk and my family makes me hang out with her what should i do??

2006-08-25 21:05:11 · 3 answers · asked by perfectgurl 2

2006-08-25 20:44:45 · 14 answers · asked by manish chhikara 1

for him to let the past go.What should I say? I know you guys don't know the full story so I'll give you a tidbit.

Back in 2004 my husbend and I split apart,and my father in law had to help him with the rent of his new pad.Then we got back together,and my father in law falt used.

How do you say sorry for making him feel unloved.Because I really do love him.
Can you help me come up with some loving words to help me get our family back together.

Thanx ahead of time.

2006-08-25 20:38:42 · 9 answers · asked by Mary M 4

i hve a big prob.my hubby works wth his bro in law(BIL),he's his sis's hubby.they r 3 in their office.now 1 colleague is out of town. They hve a rule tht atlet 2 shud b at office if not all 3.As per this my hubby n BIL shud b at office.BUT BIL IS THE OWNER/BOSS of the co.In his colleague's absence i've been noticing almost 4 times in a week BIL s nt in office.He also tks money frm office for personal expenses.Only my hubby stays n ofice n all our other things/work/life r at a halt.In fact my LIFE s got a fulstop.BIL also has a live-in(24hrs)servant.Even 4painting his child's room he doesnt go to work.My hubby also knows the prob.He's alrdy strted planning to leave n tk up anothe job.But since we r not financialy set for doing somethng of our own,he''s unable to leave immediately.Now this s hapening frm 5-6yrs since my marriage.I also hve undergone depression n hve saved nothing 4our future.No kids also.All s haywires in my life.what wud u suggest?

2006-08-25 20:37:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is your favorite name for a girl? What is your favorite name for a boy?

2006-08-25 20:14:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

TATOO OF A DRAGON ON ARM FROM SHOULDER DOWN TO WRIST. MISSING ONE BICUSPID ON RIGHT SIDE OF MOUTH.

2006-08-25 19:50:07 · 14 answers · asked by Tina Zecca 3

What do you think of the name GracieAnne?

2006-08-25 19:48:55 · 23 answers · asked by graceful 1

2006-08-25 19:35:43 · 15 answers · asked by righteous 2

ok so my mother-in-law wanted to pay me 100 dollars for making her a website. I told her I did not want the money, and please don't worry about it. (I wanted to be a blessing to her - as she has been to us) well she sent the money anyway... well i really don't want to be paid for this(plus i feel bad bc it has taken me forever and a day to do it... and plus it's just a silly geocites website!)

... so anyway I was wondering would it be rude if i sent the money back with a letter explaining that "I would really like to be a blessing, but thank you"
What do ya'll think?

2006-08-25 19:31:23 · 43 answers · asked by tedandalissa 2

I do not know what it means but I simply love it.I would be happier had i knew it.

2006-08-25 19:01:26 · 12 answers · asked by Joanita D 1

If you could have an out of this world connection with someone in your life that has died, and tell them something about what's been going on, what would you say?

2006-08-25 18:53:57 · 19 answers · asked by Malik B 1

2006-08-25 18:50:58 · 63 answers · asked by Malik B 1

2006-08-25 18:47:24 · 20 answers · asked by Kaylie 1

hi,
recently i came very close to coming face to face with a burgalar while i was babysitting, theres guns in the house so had i gone in he would have been armed. one of my 1st cousins (that i keep in touch by email) helped me through this because i was really spooked out last nite about what could have happened. so my question is if someone helps you through a tough time over email like that whats a good thank you phrase(s) ?? like...

"thanks so much for helping me with this i feel a lot better"or what should i say what would you like to hear if you helped someone out?

2006-08-25 18:45:49 · 13 answers · asked by amber k 2

I live w/my mom, grandma, and an older brother! but he is in confuse state. Me and him never get a long.......So i prefer not to talk to him because every time we talk we has two completely different oppinion and we would start argue and it lead to a fight....My brother he is very irresponsible and he never really help out in our family and my mom tend to spoile him, soo he doesn't have to work all the do is go to school (it seem like he'll never be graduated) because he would go a couple of semester and quit a couple. He also a big dreamer and never actually do anything about it. anybody get any advice so i actually get the messages in his head so he can be a real man and stop depend on his mom and his sister

2006-08-25 18:29:41 · 23 answers · asked by samie n 1

2006-08-25 18:24:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I borrowed it, it was brank spanken new. Now it is all scratched up. Not because of neglect but because of constant use.

2006-08-25 18:23:35 · 7 answers · asked by prinsessmoon@sbcglobal.net 2

My sister in-law is getting married. She and my husband were raised on two different levels. She was very favored being the only girl. Last year she made a comment to me in an e-mail saying he was an *** for sitting around not helping anyone at our daughter's birthday party. My husband read the e-mail and that has furthered the distance he feels for her. He thinks he should either end the relationship with his mom and sister and not go to the wedding or pretend nothing is wrong and go. I don't want to go but I don't think that matters since it is his family. What do you think?

2006-08-25 18:21:05 · 4 answers · asked by mom_of_geniuses 2

The laughter of children makes you happy and comfort you. The way they look at you and call you mommy. The way they start dancing or take there first steps. The way sleep. The fat cheeks. Then they grow up and start nagging and complaining. But I love em.

2006-08-25 17:59:53 · 21 answers · asked by sweetlee725 2

I've literally looked all through the mall, but I just can't find the right thing. Tomorrow I'm going to a place with Greetings and Readings (like Borders or a book store). It has cute things, but I'll be shopping with my friends so I can't spend alot of time. I know she'll love whatever I get her, but does anyone have any good ideas that she would really like. She's very modern and she likes up-to-date things. Any ideas??

2006-08-25 17:57:40 · 23 answers · asked by .:Blair:. 5

I am recently dealing with my son's homosexuality. I just found out he is dating my ex-boyfriend. What do I do?

2006-08-25 17:56:17 · 28 answers · asked by Freak M 1