every time If I do some thing it will not succeed and also I couldnt treat my wife & kid as much as they want. some times I think I live a useless life.
2006-08-25 21:52:40 · 17 answers · asked by no1_2me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to talk to someone. Please call one of your community social service agencies; use their hot line. They will give you the help you need.
If you are feeling really desperate call 911.
2006-08-25 21:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry too much of this. This is also happening to me. But im nt married. Ask yourself whether you want them or not. If you think about them for a second,im very sure you will succeed. This is our thinking that spoling us. Have confidence. Have positive thinking and trust me,you will be more better than you are now. All the best.
2006-08-26 05:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by pLaYgAl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we see others sometime we feel inferiority complexions we feel others r greater, richer, happier than us.
why it happens bcoz ur internal power is not up to the mark. u may have some drawback .but may no men is perfect in this world. every1 has drawbacks but they r hiding them. there r two type of happiness . 1 is internal. other is external
external happiness can be find by the relationship & money
but 4 the internal joy u have to go 4 pranayam (yoga).it will increse possitive energy in ur mind. i have many exampls there the man were commiting suicide .now they r very happy with there life . "no1_2me' i dont no r u saying truth of false? but if u r serious it 'll help u . u can ask me for the prosidure of the pyanayam. it will be free of cost . my id- zektome@yahoo.co.in
in a month u wil be change totally
2006-08-26 05:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by mo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up, every day has hope for you.
And you should know that at least you r useful for your kid and your wife by loving them.
there will be new fine days after dark night. I mean life is not that bad all the time. U have to survive when it's down. ok ?
Be strong. there are many ppl in deep poverty . who r much far worse than you. appreciate your present n strive for your future.
All the best. =)
2006-08-26 05:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by ei t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not going to pet you or tell you everything will be ok. I am going to tell you suicide is a cowards way out. life isnt easy and its harder for some than others. if you are treating your family with love and respect,and they have the basics,food ,water,shelter,then the rest isnt that important. pick yourself up and try again, and again, and again. How dare you even think about leaving those children to blame themselves if you take your life,and they would . Shame on you.
2006-08-26 05:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're serious, look up the Crisis Intervention Service in your town. They can help you find the value you're looking for. Don't fell alone, times are hard on everybody, these days. There's an old saying, "You can't always get what you want, but you get what you need." Hang in there.
2006-08-26 05:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by MaqAtak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a hero and don't even know it.
To your child. If you end your life you will kill your loved ones.Your child needs you. Even when you make a mistake you are still that child's father,and he/she will love you regardless of you mistakes. How will your wife support your child if you die? If you take your life it is selfish. But if you already decided you must do it there is nothing anyone can say to you to help.You can olny help yourself.
Good Luck!
2006-08-26 05:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I have your car?
Seriously man, how bad do you think you got it? I'm sitting here Bedridden, I've had Back Surgery once and will have to have it again, It'll take me a year to recoup off that. We're a 1 income family. My wife and I are both on Antidepressants. You think you got it bad?
You should thank your lucky stars you have what you do.
2006-08-26 04:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to the ER, check in, ask for an evaluation, admit yourself, forget everyone but yourself, spouses and kids are selfish at times even when they don't know it. RUN MAN, GET TO THE ER!!!!!!
2006-08-26 05:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you try something and do not succeed, do not view it as a failure. treat it as a learning experience and learn from it. as for your family, let them know how you feel and make sure they see that your trying. no one can ask for anything more than that.
2006-08-26 05:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by bobdribble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a big abyss between what we know we should be and what we really are, give yourself a break you are going to be human for a very long time, i am not perfect but when i fail i ask god to help me because i don't have the power to be good, i need his help
2006-08-26 04:58:14 · answer #11 · answered by creativebeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋