are there any ways to discover if your girlfriend/boyfriend is with you because of your money...i mean how can you tell if s/he is not going to tell you one day : i took some of your money to buy a present for my mom...it happened to me, and now i'm really upset, that i left some cash at my boyfriend's and now he's telling me (as if its a joke) that he spent it..........Goooooood! how do i react?
2006-08-25 22:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by LadyPandora 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How do you know? It's a no-brainer: through what just happened you know....what else do you want him to take until you understand that it's exactly what he is? ...someone who just takes people's money without feeling scruple/remorse. If you decide to stay with him....remember this event, because it will happen again on a bigger scale... if you stay with him...it will give him the message that it was ok to step over the line. He is pushing your frustration tolerance with him. Will you play along? He is not a good boyfriend material...not a good friend material...not a good anything material.
This is what happened to me.... way back...when I was still a college student.>>>>>
2006-08-25 22:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He stole something from you. It's a betrayal of your trust. That type of behavior really sabotages a relationship. Tell him how you feel and that you want him to pay you back. If he still thinks it's a joke or does not respect your wishes or refuses to pay you back, you could probably take this as a sign of things to come.
2006-08-26 05:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by sverthfreyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He stole from you.
2. You're supposed to laugh at his stealing from you.
Please dump this loser for both your sakes. My bet is that you will always see him (after you dump him) with victims in the future who are taking care of him financially. Please stick to your guns after dumping him, even if he's looking like a bum after wards. Don't worry he'll be looking good after he finds someone else to take care of him financially.
2006-08-26 05:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by donutmiddel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like being 'used and abused' then stay with this guy..if you want to be treated right, trade him in for a 'new and improved' model.....
2006-08-26 05:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he stole from you dump him.if hes just kidding well it depends on how much money hes playing with.
2006-08-26 05:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by devildukerobert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to keep his hands off of your money
2006-08-26 05:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats easy, he stole from you send him on his way,but get your money back first
2006-08-26 05:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his thieving ***
2006-08-26 05:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋