I just had a baby & this is her only grandchild. She has only one son, my fiance, & she is very attached to him. She was there for my during the first stages of my preganacy, when my family was not. Since my son has been born she wants to be over everyday. Calls at least 3 times a day while work to check on the baby, see how he slept, ate, pooped, etc. She pokes advice about feedings and what to ask to doctor. Every time she is around, I rarely get to hold him, feed him, play with him. My son is only a month old & I have to go back to work soon. I am upset about going back & want to spend every day with him unitl I go back. I feel like I am treated like a babysitter and not his mom. I know that I'm a new mom but I have been around children all of my life. How do I deal with her, esp. when i do not like confontation?
He does not want to fight with her, so he lets her win and plus "that's the way she is" I then get told, she cares and my family doesn't, bc they don't "check up" on me.
2006-08-25
17:22:03
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