I am recently dealing with my son's homosexuality. I just found out he is dating my ex-boyfriend. What do I do?
2006-08-25 17:56:17 · 28 answers · asked by Freak M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yuk, How can a guy like another guy...that is so sick! Don't talk to eather of them EVERY again...you and your son where having sex with the same man....who is better mother or son?? I want to know.
2006-08-25 17:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋
I can only imagine how hard it is trying to deal with your son's homosexuality and that's a lot for him to ask of you but then to go and be with an ex of yours is just too much. You have to put your foot down somewhere. You should confront your son. He should have enough respect for you to not even go there. Other than just going off on them there really isn't much you can do. But if he's going to be doing that to you I would have him stay the heck away from you. I know he's your son and that would be hard but he needs to have respect for you!! Good luck and I know you will need it.
2006-08-25 18:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ange 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old is your son?
If he's a teenager, then you need to find out whether he's being misled into thinking that he's a homo because he could be too young to understand that it may just be a passing phase for him. If you ascertain that it is just a passing phase you may have to seek the assistance of your ex, not to lead him on. He may be getting your son's attention with gifts and bribes.
If he's past the age where parental consent is necessary, then leave him to his inclinations. He's probably old enough to understand where he stands.
2006-08-25 18:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your ex-boyfriend must be so hottttttt that your son can't resist as well. Is it your ex-boyfriend making the first move? Try to ask him to stop "pursuing" your son. Normally, if a person's sexual orientation is based on his / her first sexual experience. So, let it not be homosexual. If not your son will only thrive on homosexuality, sad to say. Or perhaps, bisexual. Have a good calm understanding talk with him. Not scolding, nagging stuff which can't get into his head. Clarify with him if they're just going out as friends. Don't jump into conclusions yet.
2006-08-25 18:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
it's cool if you're son is gay, but he shouldn't go out with his mom's ex-boyfriends. it's disrespectful and wrong. is he doing it because he's rebelling or trying to get back at you, or does he truely like the man? either way though, it's not cool. but if he's young, he'll probably move on soon. guys are a dime a dozen. probably won't stay with the man long. just hang in there and wait it out. don't really let him know it bothers you, or else he may stay with him just to make you angry.
2006-08-25 18:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of - your son is your son, love him and support him. Ex-boyfriends are ex's and open territory to whomever. While this is a little bizzarre, you were attracted to the guy and your son is bound to have alot of his mother's influence in him. Stands to reason he might like what his mom was attracted to.
2006-08-25 18:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
F*ck that check this out are you ok and did you get tested when you found out that your ex is gay. And you know what that is so disrespectful for your son to do somthing like that. Now you got to watch him with all of your mens.
2006-08-25 18:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by nina j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you really serious?? If so, then that's just wrong. Your son should respect your feelings about this.
Your daughter shouldn't date your ex-boyfriend, so why should your son??
2006-08-25 18:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by ashcatash 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If your son is an adult, there is nothing you can do.
That sounds like one incredibly bizarre situation.
I am assuming there is quite a significant age gap. Could your son also be looking for some sort of father figure?
2006-08-25 18:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh hell no! You need to talk to your son and tell him that yes you love him, and accept him but there is no way in HELL that you support his relationship with your ex. That is disgusting! I can only hope that your son is of the age of the legal consent.
2006-08-25 18:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i might say this sounds like a rather risky thank you to start a dating. to no longer point out a precarious place for the female. yet hey, being a cougar is in the present day... do basically no longer assume this to be an prolonged-lasting ingredient...
2016-09-30 00:17:19 · answer #11 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋