My sister is grounded for like ever, and now she follows me & my BFF around, i'd tell her to leave me alone but my parents make me bring her along if my sister wants to do whatever my BFF and I do. Sometimes it even seems like she's trying to steal my BFF from me because she's not allowed to talk to any of her friends. HELP!! I want my sister to leave me alone!!!
2006-08-26 09:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-08-26 09:08:24 · update #1
You can't blame your sister - she is grounded and bored. But why not talk to her and tell her that you want some time alone with your bff. If that doesn't work, why not talk to your parents and tell them that your sis is grounded, but she is talking to your friend, which she shouldn't be doing if she's grounded. Another thing you can do is alternate where you hang out - go to your bff's house sometimes too that way you guys can get some time alone to hang out.
2006-08-26 09:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if shes 'grounded' then your parents need to consider whether she's actually learning a lesson by getting to do whatever you do. if she gets to hang out with you and your friends and go everywhere, how is she learning that she has to follow the rules in order to go anywhere or do anything. good time to talk to your parents, you are allowed to have a sense of privacy and have some time to yourself. maybe you also need to give your sister less information about every outing and include her on some boring ones like making her go to the library.
2006-08-26 16:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Eos 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your sister, in a very sweet, kind, understanding voice, that you love her but that you don't want her around you so much, that you need some space and to please lay off of the sister and BFF bonding for a little while.
2006-08-26 16:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is grounded than why do your parents make you "bring her along" to activities? Sounds like they grounded her and are tired of dealing w/ her endless complaining....I would tell your parents that you would like som privacy and the ability to have outing w/ out bringingyour sister along....see what they say....
2006-08-26 16:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Vee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have sh!tty parents. They are pushing their responsibility of parenting onto you! Becareful with those type of parents...call it to their face "bad parenting" and their remedy is to lock you up in the house, like a caged animal. Beat up your sister a few times, then she won't want to go anywhere with you. Just slap her a lot or have your boyfriend be a real d!ck to her. Make her time with you unpleasant.
2006-08-26 16:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem when I was growing up.My sister is an evil,drug using,alcoholic whore!She even tried to take my husband,(worthless as he was!)just to torment me!
Nothing you can do until you are grown though!Sorry!
On the flip side,she may just want to be with you because she loves you!
2006-08-26 16:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your sister too back off. and tell your bf to never break up with you....make a promise.
2006-08-26 16:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Grack 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋