he bugs me.i aks him to stop.he doesnt listen.i tell my mom.she doesnt care.she just tells me im the older one.somtimes i wanna kill myself becuase of him!
2006-08-26 06:33:36 · 12 answers · asked by the oc lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The best thing you can do is just walk away from it and hope things will get better soon. Probably a stage he is going through.
2006-08-26 06:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do when your brother really gets on your nerves? You go somewhere. You go out. You visit a friend. You go to the mall. You head for the back yard. You practice shooting hoops. You go to your room, shut the door and do your homework. You -- well, you can fill in the blanks.
The thing about younger brothers is that eventually, they grow up. If you can put up with him now, when he does grow up you may even become close friends. Depends, of course, on how much younger he is.
Right now, he's just asking for attention. Sometimes it's really hard to be the younger kid in a family. Everyone else is older, everyone else is able to do things you can't do, everyone else has more fun, and you feel really left out. So you try to get attention from anyone you can, any way you can. If you really want him to stop bugging you, take him out in the back yard and practise tossing frisbees or baseballs or whatever. Spend a little time with him voluntarily, and he'll quit bugging you. Sounds weird, but it really works, because you can tell him, "Hey -- we just spent some time together.Now we're both entitled to do something on our own."
Good luck!
2006-08-26 13:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, don't kill yourself over this- or anything! You are older and thus you need to realize you are smarter, and that your brother is merely taunting you to get a rise out of you and to get your attention - and it's working! I assume you have a place that you can be alone (like your room). Go there, shut the door and don't let little brother in. Also, try and ignore him as much as possible. When he begins his shenanigans, laugh, tell him he's a riot, then get up and go do something on your own. He wants your attention. Give him some, then act like an older wiser person, pat him on the head, and remove yourself from his presence.
2006-08-26 13:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 younger brothers and I know what you are talking about.
when we were little we would fight. When my brothers got on my nerves I would try and avoid them. If they push the issue I would slig them. Of course that isn't the best answer. Just go somewhere and try and get away from him. In your room with a lock so you can have some peace and quiet. Take a walk, read a book in another room,anything to get away. Have you ever tried
ignoring him. Just put your fingers in your ears and start singing
whenever he starts bugging you.
2006-08-26 18:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him some love back maybe he looking for love and attention . He probably looking for the simple things in life. Through all of that to me it sounds like he want to be loved. But i know i have a older bro and sometimes i just want to knock that block off that shoulder.
2006-08-26 13:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Takeyla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try ignoring him? I know it will probably be hard. After awhile though,it will work,it did with my annoying brother. It took a week or so, but when he seen he was no longer getting a reaction out of me,he stoppped.
Good Luck
2006-08-26 13:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by Bones 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
juz remember how cute and charming he was when u first time saw him.
maybe he s trying to get ur attention. ill do the same things to my siblings when i think they ignore me. spend some times with him to play or watch tv or talk about this and that. my feeling is that u brother adores u and he wants u to know that fact without getting embarrass.
2006-08-26 13:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by seeker01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Ignore him. He only bothers you because you react to it.
2.Stay away from him. Go anywhere else where he is not.
3.Invite a freind over, then it's two against one..
2006-08-26 13:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is bugging you go for a walk or go in your room anything you can to get away from him for a while.
2006-08-26 13:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop letting him get on your nerves,and get on his .get up and bug his friends.tell the girl he complains about the most at school that all he dose is talk about you at home.just remember he could be dead tomorrow.from an accident then what would you say about him.
2006-08-26 13:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋