Family & Relationships - 30 November 2007

It's a matter of different culture.She always corrected me in bad action and long face which is I feel I don't know where to stand to please them.And the hurtful things is my husband is on his mother side and saying to me I am worst which is not true.I FEEL ALONE and can't stop crying.I can complain nor explain my side coz she can not understand english and i can not understand her saying only me and my husband could understand each other.And now,my husband say SORRY to me what he did.I was hurtful so much thinking that he can not protect me.Now,I feel I lose my interest of everything even he said SORRY.Pls. enlighten me coz I love my husband and I want our marriage work.I don't want my love&feeling will gone.So hard for me to live with his parents especially I am foreigner.thanks for advice

2007-11-30 13:53:56 · 8 answers · asked by macey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How Do I Stay/Get On The Right Path- I finished high school 2-3 months later into college-its not go to good, i stay with my mom but trying to find a good job to get my own place, while i was working and going to school I got 2-5 hours of sleep a day, my mom is depending on me to pay 2-4 hundred a month on bills, dont get me wrong i want to but its hard

2007-11-30 13:50:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-30 13:50:34 · 3 answers · asked by scottie1973twohottie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the men? I am looking for cute/unique ideas for their gifts..Thanks!

2007-11-30 13:49:51 · 6 answers · asked by Mrs! 2 in Weddings

I like this girl who is two years younger then me, and we're in high school. She's a sophomore and I'm a senior, so what? I know girls hear that all senior guys wants from youngr girls is sex. But not in this case

I try telling this girl that she's different from all the rest of the girls i kno, and that im REALLY not looking for sex or anythin like that. i really wanna go out with her, she used to come to my house to hang out a lot, and we used to call each other a lot, but now we dont talk much cause she keeps sayin that i should stop playing her and look for sex somewhere else. she only thinks i want sex because im not a virgin and sometimes i joke around about it, but


how do i tell her that's not the main thing i want from her?

2007-11-30 13:48:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend ask me to have a secret married it could be valid?i am widow and i dont know how can i get married again while i am married but i am already widowed. my husband died last year. It is ok if i could married again? another problem is a secret married.it could be valid ?how can i valid the secret married?

2007-11-30 13:48:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am a courier for a finance company and i am not in there that long

2007-11-30 13:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

Just a little backround, Im a product of recent divorce, and have 50% custody of my son from my previous marriage. Ive been seeing this girl about a year and a half now, and bought a house together four months ago. Ive grown to learn quite a bit more about this girl in this time. She's taken a lot of various pills, had a major cutting problem, and also brought upon me a glorious virus known as HPV. However, my toddler loves her, I still love her, yet prior to this relationship she made a lot of bad judgements in my opinion and has never really loved my son as I hoped for. All of this has made me a bit un-trusting, not sure if its because Im insecure or simply becuase of the warning flags ive encountered. To the point, we dont have the greatest sex life, last week I was accused of wanting to leave her, she freaked out over me having a phone call at night, and just recently noticed her phone had about 30 texts on the bill in which I was unaware of. Thoughts?

2007-11-30 13:44:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sort of interested in this gal

2007-11-30 13:43:55 · 2 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

is it trustable

2007-11-30 13:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

help I'm hatin datin!

2007-11-30 13:41:32 · 16 answers · asked by leeease 1 in Singles & Dating

hah...i know its pretty ramdom..but im bored,and had nothing else to ask.....and NO im not vain..or obsessed with myself..im just doing this for funnn

2007-11-30 13:37:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today at school thid girl threatened to kill me. What should I do. I mean if I tell the pricipal what can he really do about it? Then she'll be on my case about being a "tattle tail" then when i got home someone hacked my email and changed my password. it took me two hours to retrieve it. I have a pretty good idea who did it but im not jumping to conclusion. Its like total invasion of privacy. what should I do?

2007-11-30 13:37:08 · 7 answers · asked by bananaterricottapie! 1 in Friends

ok.. so I went to this school dance last friday, and i danced with this girl, and for some reason, i dont know why.. it just felt so right, and i just felt so comfortable with her. I have danced with so many girls but never have i felt like this. So i danced with her a couple songs more and then we started making out. She said sh'ed add me on facebook and she did. I've been talking to her on msn quite a bit, but not on the phone b/c she said her cell is not free right now.. i really like her and i cant stop thinking about her, but usually when i talk to her on msn she'll take a long time to respond. She seems like she likes me, cause she was all like awww when i told her i was sick today. but i sent her an e-mail the other day asking how shes doing and she never respond. I in alot of confusion.. was this just a one night thing? or does she want to go out with me?.. or what?

2007-11-30 13:36:42 · 31 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Singles & Dating

Last year, I got picked on so badly by the class clown/bully. It got so bad, that I even skipped school 3 times a week. He'd always make fun of how I hung around this boy named Chris. Who he didn't like at all. He was horrible to me. I hated school. Sometimes, we would be standing by the classroom door, and he'd insult me and while doing so he would scan my body with hungry eyes.

This year, a new year has begun. We no longer see each other, but when he sees me, he gives me a high five, or a hug, or smiles at me. I saw him in the library and he just kept staring. It seems to bizarre, who and what is he?

2007-11-30 13:30:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because he had problems with his mother as a young adult and child. She gave him no foundation to be able to communicate how hes feelings. Well he was doing ok for a while there. But when we have a really personal conversation, the next day he would withdraw from me. And it would take days for him to act normal again. One day we were chatting about his ex-girl friends wedding, and he didnt want me to go, because he said he felt responsiable for making sure I was happy. No one can truly make me happy but me. And I was turly ok with this wedding. One day he told me he had a date for the wedding, I asked him why he told me that, and he said he wanted to hurt me. After a week or so of him not calling me, i chose to set him and myself free. He was always whinning about being left. So I gave him what he wanted and I left. Did I do the correct thing? I'm not sad anymore about it. But I do love him greatly and I so miss him. What should I do?

Wild in Raieigh! NC

2007-11-30 13:25:52 · 1 answers · asked by nora 4 in Singles & Dating

My man he's 52.

2007-11-30 13:24:08 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Quit arguing about things that will never change like politics and just throw away sexual inhibitions?

2007-11-30 13:23:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-30 13:22:31 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im somewhat dependent on him because i dont work very much because im usually home with our two girls, well it seems as though i have to walk on eggshells in our house, everything i do pisses him off and we dont get along but half the time, we've only been married foir a short 3 years...but i dont know if i was cut out to be married not to mention i was raised by a single parent so the thought of raising my girls on my own doesnt scare me...any suggestions??

2007-11-30 13:21:48 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So theres this girl i've known since 4th grade. she went to a different school after 6th grade. I met up with her 2 summers later and we talked alot and went to a couple movies and were good friends. She's now at my school (were in 9th grade). We sat together at lunch and stuff and now its wierd, its like ever since she came here we don't really talk to each other, and every time we talk it just ends up being awkward and no one breaks the ice. So my question is, why is she acting like this, and how should i break the ice when it gets awkward? I wanna be her friend again, and want it to go back to normal

2007-11-30 13:19:43 · 3 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Friends

is it possible this guy likes me?
today in class everytime i would walk into the black box [acting room] he would follow me. and then he comes and sits by me. one time he came up and said 'hey babe' and rested his head on my shoulder haha and then another time he laid down next to me and then another time he was telling me about school. we have known each other for about four years. this one kid came and was talking to him and was like 'are yall two going out?' and the guy that i like was like 'her dad would kill me'.... does he like me? and why isnt he asking me out if so? wats a casual way to ask him to hang out tomorrow cuz i live in his neighborhood and i walk the streets with my bff so... thanx! but they main question is is whether he likes me or not.

2007-11-30 13:19:28 · 19 answers · asked by cali girl 2 in Singles & Dating

GUYS DO YOU LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS KISS YOUR NECKS

GUYS WHAT DO YOU LIKE YOUR GIRLS TO DO LIKE WITH THERE HANDS AND ARMS (KKEP IT CLEAN)

WHAT DO YOU LIKE THE BEST??

2007-11-30 13:16:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in a marriage I definitely want to end. We have one son and he is 18 yrs. old. I know that a divorce can be a bit pricey and if you knew my wife she wants everything especially the house. One of the main raesons we're splitting is because of her (bitching and ) alcoholism. Right now I'm not in a financial position to pay a lawyer but I still don't want to be around her either. I have thought of getting my own little place until I get it all together. What course should I take and is separation a good idea? Thanks guys.

2007-11-30 13:11:34 · 4 answers · asked by Nash M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A good question to ask, you know, for people that I want to talk to. I started at a new school last year, and there's someone that I decided that I wanted to become friends with this year, so what do I say to them that makes me seem worldly and intelligent? It might be a bit awkward, because me and this person never talk, so how would I go about approaching them and asking questions and learning things about their personality? Like, for instance, today I asked this person what sense they'd give up and we had a good chat, but we were alone. I can't just walk up to this person in class when they're around all their friends - it would be awkward. I'm simply looking for casual comments to drop by to this person.
Only friends. I don't want to seem intrusive at all.

2007-11-30 13:11:16 · 16 answers · asked by trembling lips 3 in Friends

My friend wants me to ask my cousin if he likes anyone...
Apparently I dont want to make the conversation too suspicious or make it seem like someones forcing me to ask him that question...
So what conversation should I start off & then ask soo its not like straight up ask him yehh know?

cause normally i dont talk about people who he likes..

Thankss haha

2007-11-30 13:07:33 · 16 answers · asked by Thrills 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

the details are a lil bit complicated but...lets just say it was like wow! and im engaged and don't feel the same when I have sex with my partner and I only want to sleep with this other person! im like so stressed!!!!!!

2007-11-30 13:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

(we're both 16 by the way)
and i need some tips on how to bring it up! she likes me too and i know she wants me to ask her... i plan on asking her after we see a movie. how can i bring it up? what do i say?

thanks! 10 points for best answer

2007-11-30 13:06:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Also, for added fun,
What do they do that drives you nuts?!!!

This should be good...... :)

2007-11-30 13:04:58 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do i tell my aunt i wanna be one??

2007-11-30 13:03:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings