Our age difference makes her think all I want is sex, but it's not! I really like her... how do I prove it????

Question

I like this girl who is two years younger then me, and we're in high school. She's a sophomore and I'm a senior, so what? I know girls hear that all senior guys wants from youngr girls is sex. But not in this case

I try telling this girl that she's different from all the rest of the girls i kno, and that im REALLY not looking for sex or anythin like that. i really wanna go out with her, she used to come to my house to hang out a lot, and we used to call each other a lot, but now we dont talk much cause she keeps sayin that i should stop playing her and look for sex somewhere else. she only thinks i want sex because im not a virgin and sometimes i joke around about it, but


how do i tell her that's not the main thing i want from her?

Answer 1

Just stop being overly obsessive about it. She might think that the way your trying to get her is just a game, and dont openly joke about sex, she'll take it the wrong way. She probably likes you but is very hesitant on figuring out if ur the real deal. so take it slow

Answer 2

keep telling her.
dont even talk about sex or sexual things.
(kudos on being a virgin btw)
girls are told thats all that guys want so when we meet a guy who says differently we think he's just lying so we'll become close and he can put us in a situation were you will have sex.
promise her that you wont.
declare abstinance
say your not going to have it before marriage.
dont push her to do anything she doesnt want to do, not just sex wise but everything.
let her know that this relationship is not about you getting laid its about the fact that your two people who care for eachother.

Answer 3

Just show her--no pressure! Get to know her as a person. Stay friends for now, and go out in groups. Once she feels comfortable and knows that you like HER, she'll come around.

Answer 4

exactly what Anna P said...actions speak louder than words