because he had problems with his mother as a young adult and child. She gave him no foundation to be able to communicate how hes feelings. Well he was doing ok for a while there. But when we have a really personal conversation, the next day he would withdraw from me. And it would take days for him to act normal again. One day we were chatting about his ex-girl friends wedding, and he didnt want me to go, because he said he felt responsiable for making sure I was happy. No one can truly make me happy but me. And I was turly ok with this wedding. One day he told me he had a date for the wedding, I asked him why he told me that, and he said he wanted to hurt me. After a week or so of him not calling me, i chose to set him and myself free. He was always whinning about being left. So I gave him what he wanted and I left. Did I do the correct thing? I'm not sad anymore about it. But I do love him greatly and I so miss him. What should I do?
Wild in Raieigh! NC
2007-11-30 13:25:52 · 1 answers · asked by nora 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Purpose should guide our descions, with that said.
If your purpose was to deal with his crap why he figures himself out, no, you failed.
If you purpose was something bigger, more intense then that, you did great....
loving someone thou, well make you feel, thats the consequence of it, your wise, so realize the feelings we feel we most come to terms with, and your on the right road to that end....
2007-12-03 06:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋