Family & Relationships - 30 November 2007

2007-11-30 14:49:15 · 14 answers · asked by your homies 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife has a friend that is willing to join us in bed for a threesome. She says this is what she wants to give me for a birthday present. Should I do it, or is it going to screw up our marriage forever?

2007-11-30 14:47:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy & I are friends w/benefits...only he has feelings(or so he says)& so do I. But he's says he has to be careful b/c he's got alot going on right now & not looking for anything serious. So I didn't contact him all day today...I figured I would back off a little & he didn't contact me either...until tonight. He contacted me first & asked how my day was, etc. I told him & then asked him the same & he said it was cool & that he missed talking to me. Well, I was still not really sure about letting myself get to close to him so I just said "aww"..lol....I missed talking to him too but I refused to say anything about how I felt....until 2 hours later. I gave in & sent him a text just saying I missed talking to him too. I didn't want to talk about the way I feel w/him since he doesn't want to be serious but then again I didn't want him to think I didn't miss him. Should I stick to it & not bring comments like that into it since he doesn't want to be serious? I'm confused!

2007-11-30 14:45:09 · 20 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Friends

There's a girl that I want to ask to winterformal but I don't know any romantic/cute way of asking her

2007-11-30 14:42:06 · 3 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

Do all men have hygiene and table manners issues are just the ones I have been with . Then there are the guys who do shower and put their dirty clothes back on . And lick their fingers at the table, their whole hand if it needs it...i dont get why noone taught them any table manners.

2007-11-30 14:35:55 · 3 answers · asked by Peach Cheesecake 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Curious as to anyone who had a long term affair with someone who was married and actually had it work out.

2007-11-30 14:35:01 · 12 answers · asked by AT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-30 14:33:14 · 8 answers · asked by eddie j 4 in Singles & Dating

I have two daughters. One from my abusive 1st husband who has moves 3 states away. My 2nd daughter is from my current marriage. from out of no where,,,,my ex's mother is now harrasing me to have visitation with "both" grandaughters. remember 1st husband very abusive,,,now has 4 other daughters from 4 other women. His mother, my ex mother inlaw....my 1st borns grandmother is now calling me harrasing me to see my daughter, both her and her husband are prescription drug abusers. Not a houlsom enviroment for my 7 year old daughter or my 1 year old daughter. I tell her I have moved on,,,,,,,please let me be and let me provide the proper life and upbringing for my two girls. Now she calls my husband at his workplace,,,threatening to take us to court for grandparents rights..I dont wany my daughters to have anything to do with their drugs,,,unemployemt,,,basiclly I compare them to "jerry springer" people,,,,can you advise me on how to handle this situation???

2007-11-30 14:32:10 · 10 answers · asked by ~~Penny~~ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-30 14:30:13 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs! 2 in Weddings

Me and my fiance are having a rather interesting debate. It all began when we were reading about Hulk Hogan and his wife getting their divorce. I mentioned "what if" breast implants were assets, and "what if" the husband could sue for them back. Wouldnt that be funny? Well, my fiance says that legally they can do that. I of course know this, because there is no way that you can be forced to go under the knife to have the implants removed against your will. However, i argued that i can see it logical that the wife would have to pay back the money invested into the implants to the husband. My fiance is very adament about it being legal to have them removed. Let us know the truth! I mean, I already know, but drop a note so i can prove it to him! Thanks!

2007-11-30 14:29:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would it be weird if a 4'2" girl and a 5'7" guy were going out? We're in 7th grade. I'm freakishly short, and he's freakishly tall, but I think we like eachother. Would it be weird?

2007-11-30 14:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by Party Girl 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-30 14:23:29 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, Im 14 and Im in an Early college program.... a guy on campus keeps flirtin with me.......... the more I tell him to stop touching me and tickling me the more he thinks im flirting back.

What do I do?

2007-11-30 14:20:18 · 52 answers · asked by Deanna 2 in Singles & Dating

what are signs he is cheating?

2007-11-30 14:17:17 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My wifes son is living with and is still in college. He is 33 yrs olds.He has gone to 10-12 different schools. Still has no degree and undecided. He downloads dirty movies to my computer and my wife defends him. He has been in college since 18 and he drives me nuts. The worst of all is he takes my clothes even my underwear. I have separated from my wife. Due to the fact I attmepted suicide. I am better now and am seeking treatment. I feel violated by my wife and her son. I know this relationship is co dependant. Yet she still looks at all her 3 kids as 10,11, & 12. She says her olderst son is like a Grandfather/Father to her other siblings. I am thinking of divorce. We are separated now. Yet, I cannot go back to this mess. Then to top it off he goes into my colonge and wears it.

2007-11-30 14:15:04 · 16 answers · asked by Patrick V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in the U.S. dating a Pakistani Muslim. We're in our 30's. He's a "caffeteria muslim" but is a traditionalist when it comes to family. He's lived in America for 14 years and his family is in Pakistan. Anything I should know about as I get into this? I'm not converting...

2007-11-30 14:13:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is everyone so grossed out by this? My grandparents are cousins and their children are perfectly fine; my aunt has a post graduate degree!
It's common for Arabs to marry each other.

2007-11-30 14:11:00 · 20 answers · asked by Gaudyheights 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so bad about what i've done the last couple of months and now i regret it. I wish i could take it back now. what can i do to make all this guilty feeling to go away and try to do better?

2007-11-30 14:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

try to get with married people and knowing it that they are married hopefully had bad stuff happen to them

2007-11-30 14:06:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a lot of taller guy friends...but when I go to hug them, I don't know where to put my head!?!? It usually awkwardly ends up smushed into their stomach/ chestal, or I just go for the side hug. Sometimes I'm able to tip toe it and get my chin over the shoulder, but that is rare, since I'm not that tall.
Anyways, any hugging tips are welcome!!!

2007-11-30 14:06:15 · 35 answers · asked by ladybug 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not gay. But I am friends with two married women who have a baby. I told my friends about them and they were all shocked and like "they're freaks"

what is wrong with people? why do they dislike gay people?

2007-11-30 14:05:03 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been best friend during the first two terms of our college life, and he was the first guy I ever had strong feeling for. He had been suspecting me, but he never said anything. I was try to ignore him for a while, because I didn't not want to loose our friendship. I made up and found numerous excuses not be close to him. I like girls, and been in a relationship a couple time, but I didn't know why I had this love feeling for my best guy friend. I attempted suicide once, because I couldn't bear to express my feeling for him. He is straight, and during our last term of freshman year, he got me to tell him everything. He promise we still best friend, but I know everything is not the same anymore, he was ignoring for a while, and he ending up moved out. But now, our second year in college, we live together again with another friend, but can't really talk to each other straight face to face, but i have this feeling that he...

2007-11-30 14:03:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so far all i can write is the chorus we met in school and she didnt notice me at first but i sure did notice her. for me it was love at first sight. for days i saw her and felt sad as she didnt notice me. then we became friends and started hangin out. later we kissed and we started goin out.

the chorus is...
she got me with her looks
she got me with her stare
with her beautiful brown eyes and her long brown hair
from the start it was easy to see
that she was the girl for me

2007-11-30 14:03:16 · 6 answers · asked by Wyatt H 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy, she's a girl. I really do care about her, but not like that. But I often feel like she doesn't give a **** about me. But then every now and again it seems like she really does care. The other night another friend of her's (female) and I played a joke on her and kinda carried it on for too long. The result was that my friend ended up crying and running away from us. I was gonna be her ride home, and we were in a not so good neighborhood so I ran after her, calmed her down and dragged her back. But she was really pissed off at me. I apologized again and again but in school today she still seemed pretty mad. And that made me mad, that she'd stay mad over something like that. So, today she had some big thing to attend and she invited me a long time ago. But after what happened I just didn't bring it up today, and neither did she, so idk what happened with that. And to make matters worse, as I was in the middle of typing this, she called me and asked me for directions to some

2007-11-30 14:01:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

where women let guys try their panties on? I'm seeing it in hollywood and women on here are asking about it all the time. Is it something women actually ask their guys to do or let them do?

2007-11-30 14:00:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we divorced in 93' son was 13 till 98' he was 18, she would'nt except money then, son was institutionalized most of that time, i'm now 51 and child is 28 and shes broke and wants money!!!??

2007-11-30 14:00:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I was taught to save sex for marriage no matter what.I am 16 and I am a Virgin. Just recently I went over my bf's house because he invited me over to wacth some movies, eat pizza and just to have a good time. When Collin (bf) opened the door and I came in I asked him if his parents were home. Then he said No, they are out to dinner with some friends. Then he orders pizza and then we start to wacth this "horror" movie, Pan's Laberith. I am just sitting there staring at the t.v, eating pizza and then Collin strecthes his arm around my shoulder.Then he says "You know if you're too scared, we can go upstaires and do something else." Then he starts too kiss my neck and touch me. Then I picked up a slice of pizza and said "Pizza? No. Well it's getting late" Then he's like what? It's only 6:30. then I said, Well it's 10:30 on the west coast. (I just made up something.) Then I drove home. I told my friends (they are not Virgins) and they said "Yep. He's asking for it."

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2007-11-30 14:00:06 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY EX AND I HAVE RECEIVED 50/50 CHILD CUSTODY. NOW MY QUESTION IS... WHO WOULD HAVE THE RIGHT TO CLAIM HER FOR THE TAXES? WE NEVER GOT MARRIED, AND I HAVE HER MOST OF THE TIME BECAUSE I TAKE HER TO SCHOOL....IF THAT HELPS OUT!....SO CAN I CLAIM HER CUZ HE WANTS TO CLAIM HER AND I DONT THINK IT'S FAIR.

2007-11-30 13:56:08 · 15 answers · asked by lil' lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I work in a supermarket with a lot of young ladies who seem to like me. However, I'm old enough to be their dad. There aren't any single women my age at work, and I was just wondering what people might think if I dated some of these girls. I'm not some dirty old guy who's out for sex. In fact, I'm a 40+ year-old virgin..............There! I said it. Go ahead and laugh. So is it wrong for me to want to date young girls?

2007-11-30 13:55:36 · 62 answers · asked by Road Trip 3 in Singles & Dating

A girl who sits in front of me in class likes me and i can tell because she is sending me these nothes saying, will you marry me? and we will have babies. The thing is she told the guy next to her "i like him". The thing is don't know how to respond because i kinda like her too.

2007-11-30 13:55:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating