We have been best friend during the first two terms of our college life, and he was the first guy I ever had strong feeling for. He had been suspecting me, but he never said anything. I was try to ignore him for a while, because I didn't not want to loose our friendship. I made up and found numerous excuses not be close to him. I like girls, and been in a relationship a couple time, but I didn't know why I had this love feeling for my best guy friend. I attempted suicide once, because I couldn't bear to express my feeling for him. He is straight, and during our last term of freshman year, he got me to tell him everything. He promise we still best friend, but I know everything is not the same anymore, he was ignoring for a while, and he ending up moved out. But now, our second year in college, we live together again with another friend, but can't really talk to each other straight face to face, but i have this feeling that he...
2007-11-30 14:03:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ouch, catch-22, unless you can honestly talk about your feelings with him, you actually don't have a relationship, no offense. Its just that relationship are based on trust, trust is a product of honesty meeting understanding, lacking this, means your relationship is stunted to a point, it can't move out of. I know what your doing, your waiting on him, and THATS going to ruin any chances. The problem, thou is, that the romantic ideal of relationships doesn't work in reality, its a fantasy, its conditional love, what your dealing with is pretty unconditional huh? So its a deeper path you most walk with him then what society has thrown down your thoat, you have two choices be honest, and find it on your own, or e-mail me and I can do my best to send you that way, but I'm not going to do near as good a job as you two, so I sujest the frist.....
2007-12-04 09:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋