the details are a lil bit complicated but...lets just say it was like wow! and im engaged and don't feel the same when I have sex with my partner and I only want to sleep with this other person! im like so stressed!!!!!!
2007-11-30 13:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the details are a lil bit complicated but...lets just say it was like wow! and im engaged and don't feel the same when I have sex with my partner and I only want to sleep with this other person! im like so stressed!!!!!! I Failed to mention we were broken up for a bit when I slept with the other person.....and I haven't slept with him since we got back together but im afraid to want to get back into it again with this other person.
2007-11-30 13:16:55 · update #1
So the sex was that good you go girl lucky you.. Well you won't be happy with this man your marrying if you don't feel the same zing for this fellow. Your not being honest with your feelings or for his in the long run.
And yet this other fella your talking about the great lover isn't as stable or reliable as your fiance. and he may even be already taken yet the sex is good.
You will have to go with your heart here. by getting married to a man who doesn't do it for you what will you do come a year from now. You will be thinking back to him. and you could even have affairs down the road.
So you know how you feel you know what this other man brings you and makes you feel over your fiance . I would not marry then your fiance if you don't feel the same way. and yet you can't be with this other man.
but you know now what it feels like to have that in a man. you will have to search else where. yes its harder you can take the easy way and just keep quiet and get married but in the log run your both robbing each other. and you won't be satisfied im sure.
If your okay with dating this other man you can't have but only for the good times then so be it. if you can't live that way you will have to decide which way you want to go out on your own till you find the right one. or settle for what has come your way.
Most people would take the easy way out. its your call.
2007-11-30 16:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're already cheating on your fiancee, it's a big red flag and you shouldn't marry the man when you are feeling and acting this way.
I can't tell you what to do but the fair thing to you and your fiancee is to break up, let him find someone who will want to be with him completely.
Then you'll be free to have all the sex you want with this other guy, no one gets hurt.
2007-11-30 13:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for the person you are engaged to.You are living a lie.Sex is always enjoyable when you truly Love someone.Sex is a learned process,teach your sexual partner what pleases you and what pleases him or her.Break the engagement,you have already commited adultry.
2007-11-30 13:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though im only 14, i have a really good answer. its really plain to see that you were meant to be with the other person! why are you putting yourself through the agrevation of getting married to someone thats not right for you? as for your partner for ever to-be, just tell them how you feel, hopefully they will understand. =]
2007-11-30 13:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Tayla M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to rethink getting married. If you are not 100% sure that the one you are going to marry is the best for you in every way don't put yourself or him through the agony.
2007-11-30 13:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by James E Lewis AKA choteau 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the majority on this one. One cheat leads to another. Your future is determined by your actions and his. When and if you do marry this man, there's no going back. Either you're committed or you're not.
2007-11-30 13:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you got engaged to the wrong person.
2007-11-30 13:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by Catherine Rose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your fiance that you are a swinger and find out if he wants to party with you.
2007-11-30 14:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by B.B.B. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to talk to your partner about your needs and get unengaged. invest in some counseling.
2007-11-30 13:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened. Let me knows if you have the answer or advise!
2007-11-30 13:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋